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Gabor Maté drops a profound truth on modern parenting: Parenting today is far harder than nature ever intended. Tribal/aboriginal societies get it right: - Kids are held constantly, never left to cry alone - No separate sleep rooms or isolation - No judgment, berating, or punishment - Community raises... them (it truly takes a village) Result? Children grow up with deep innate goodness, wholeness, body confidence, environmental connection, and rock-solid self-worth. Contrast that with today's isolated nuclear-family pressure: both parents working, kids in daycare, crying it out, punishment-based discipline, and constant judgment. No wonder anxiety, disconnection, and self-doubt are epidemic. Maté: "These kids grow up with a sense of their own goodness and wholeness." What if the "village" is the missing piece we've lost? How do we bring it back in 2026?show more

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Camus

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• We saw some parents reassuring their children that what was happening was just military training or fireworks, in order to protect them from anxiety. Some may disagree with me, but I believe that today's generation lives in an open world, with phones and social media in their hands revealing what is happening moment by moment. The idea is not to scare children, but to enhance their psychological security through age-appropriate honesty. Educational studies indicate that when children discover the truth later from external sources -such as the internet or friends - after being told something different, they may feel confused or lose some of their trust. Therefore, a calm and honest explanation promotes psychological stability and gives them a sense of security and confidence. It is important for children to learn the truth from their parents first, rather than receiving it from platforms that may be filled with misinformation or distorted narratives that reach them in a way that contradicts the truth. We must raise our children to be aware, not ignorant, and teach them from an early age who stands with their homeland and who attacks it, and make them understand the meaning of defending the homeland and the value of the sacrifices made to protect its security and stability. Strong nations are not built by military force alone, but by a conscious generation with a strong sense of belonging, who know the truth about who stands with their homeland and who is hostile to it, and who stand by it with conviction and pride. •

• We saw some parents reassuring their children that what was happening was just military training or fireworks, in order to protect them from anxiety. Some may disagree with me, but I believe that today's generation lives in an open world, with phones and social media in their hands revealing what is happening moment by moment. The idea is not to scare children, but to enhance their psychological security through age-appropriate honesty. Educational studies indicate that when children discover the truth later from external sources -such as the internet or friends - after being told something different, they may feel confused or lose some of their trust. Therefore, a calm and honest explanation promotes psychological stability and gives them a sense of security and confidence. It is important for children to learn the truth from their parents first, rather than receiving it from platforms that may be filled with misinformation or distorted narratives that reach them in a way that contradicts the truth. We must raise our children to be aware, not ignorant, and teach them from an early age who stands with their homeland and who attacks it, and make them understand the meaning of defending the homeland and the value of the sacrifices made to protect its security and stability. Strong nations are not built by military force alone, but by a conscious generation with a strong sense of belonging, who know the truth about who stands with their homeland and who is hostile to it, and who stand by it with conviction and pride. •

Dr. Fatima Alkaabi

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The root cause of people-pleasing? Parents who didn't love their kids for who they truly were. Gabor Maté lays it bare: Kids who weren't loved for their authentic selves learn early to be liked instead — please everyone, never say no, take on everything, carry others' feelings, never disappoint. Result: Everyone likes you... but nobody truly loves you because they never meet the real you. The price? Depression, anxiety, addiction, autoimmune diseases, even cancer — because "the pain of not being yourself is too much." The abandoned authentic self never dies — it's still inside, screaming through your body and emotions. As adults, we get the brutal choice: Keep chasing attachments (people-pleasing, fitting in) and lose ourselves forever... Or choose authenticity — and risk losing people who only liked the mask. Maté's final gut-punch question: "Who would you rather have in your life — them or yourself?" If you've spent years people-pleasing to survive emotionally, when did you first notice it? What did it cost you?

The root cause of people-pleasing? Parents who didn't love their kids for who they truly were. Gabor Maté lays it bare: Kids who weren't loved for their authentic selves learn early to be liked instead — please everyone, never say no, take on everything, carry others' feelings, never disappoint. Result: Everyone likes you... but nobody truly loves you because they never meet the real you. The price? Depression, anxiety, addiction, autoimmune diseases, even cancer — because "the pain of not being yourself is too much." The abandoned authentic self never dies — it's still inside, screaming through your body and emotions. As adults, we get the brutal choice: Keep chasing attachments (people-pleasing, fitting in) and lose ourselves forever... Or choose authenticity — and risk losing people who only liked the mask. Maté's final gut-punch question: "Who would you rather have in your life — them or yourself?" If you've spent years people-pleasing to survive emotionally, when did you first notice it? What did it cost you?

Camus

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Gabor Maté drops something that stops you in your tracks about how we treat babies at night. He questions the whole idea of separate bedrooms and sleep training where we’re told to let them cry it out. “Why are they crying?” he asks. Not for fun. They’re crying because they need connection. Here’s the key part most people miss: adults can carry someone in their heart even if we don’t see them for months. But an infant? They can only connect through physical closeness. When a baby cries, they’re not manipulating — they’re asking to be picked up. It makes you rethink what “self-soothing” really means for such a tiny human who hasn’t yet learned how to hold onto love without touch. What do you think — is letting babies cry it out harmless training, or does it miss something fundamental about early connection?

Gabor Maté drops something that stops you in your tracks about how we treat babies at night. He questions the whole idea of separate bedrooms and sleep training where we’re told to let them cry it out. “Why are they crying?” he asks. Not for fun. They’re crying because they need connection. Here’s the key part most people miss: adults can carry someone in their heart even if we don’t see them for months. But an infant? They can only connect through physical closeness. When a baby cries, they’re not manipulating — they’re asking to be picked up. It makes you rethink what “self-soothing” really means for such a tiny human who hasn’t yet learned how to hold onto love without touch. What do you think — is letting babies cry it out harmless training, or does it miss something fundamental about early connection?

Camus

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