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Grief in fathers doesn't get talked about enough. Some dads grieve by doing what feels impossible. Not by talking. Not by crying. But by going back. By standing in the exact place where his only 20 year old daughter lost her life to a drunk driver, in a different...

445,815 görüntüleme • 9 ay önce •via X (Twitter)

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Wolfgang R Gander profil fotoğrafı
Wolfgang R Gander9 ay önce

10 years in. Its been a wild ride that damn near took me out. Max was 19.

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

I can’t imagine. I don’t know how I would react if I lost one of mine. I’m so sorry for your loss. What a handsome son he is. You will see him again one day.

Hope d'Amore profil fotoğrafı
Hope d'Amore9 ay önce

@pr0ud_americans No parent should have to bury a child. And you’re right. There’s no such thing as closure. I’m so sorry for his loss. 💔

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

@pr0ud_americans I’ve seen too many parents in my lifetime bury a child. I can’t imagine what they are feeling. When I try, I’m sure it is a 1,000 times worse. Prayers for them.

🌺🌸🇺🇸✝️MAR✝️🇺🇸🌸🌺 profil fotoğrafı
🌺🌸🇺🇸✝️MAR✝️🇺🇸🌸🌺9 ay önce

hes braver than I am. i cannot go back to where my son died. i don't have it in me.

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

I thought about it and I think I would want to be where my daughter was last, as hard as it would be.

🌺🌸🇺🇸✝️MAR✝️🇺🇸🌸🌺 profil fotoğrafı
🌺🌸🇺🇸✝️MAR✝️🇺🇸🌸🌺9 ay önce

It’s definitely a personal choice with no right or wrong answer. Parents will do what their heart compels them to do to find answers. It’s heartbreaking. I still can’t look at my son’s pics as an adult. Too hard

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

❤️❤️

MaMaSTORM profil fotoğrafı
MaMaSTORM9 ay önce

The fact that grief isn’t the same for everyone isn’t talked about enough ether.

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

Definitely not. People grieve in all sorts of different ways.

Tracey Mateer profil fotoğrafı
Tracey Mateer9 ay önce

I had a boyfriend who lost his 18yo daughter in a tragic road accident, and we maintained the site where it happened for many years... Somehow it made him feel better...✝️🥀

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

I’ve always wondered about having a site for your loved one at the place they were physically present. Thanks for sharing that Tracey.

Ben Christman profil fotoğrafı
Ben Christman9 ay önce

Thank you for posting. Being a grieving Father myself & having spoken to Father's that have lost children, they definitely grieve differently. Trying to be the rock of the family, the pillar of support for others, while looking for their time to comprehend the loss.

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

I’m so sorry Ben

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Jen9 ay önce

@oX_Bat_Xo Absolutely devastating. 💔

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

@oX_Bat_Xo I don’t even want to think about it. My heart goes out to them

👺 Silas B. 👺 profil fotoğrafı
👺 Silas B. 👺9 ay önce

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

@RagingKuJo1222 For real- prayers for that family. 🙏

Chris Elkins profil fotoğrafı
Chris Elkins9 ay önce

My 20 year old daughter was killed by a drunk driver. I tried to stay strong for everyone else. But when I was alone the tears rolled down my face.

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

I’m so sorry Chris. Crying doesn’t mean you aren’t strong brother.

Chris Elkins profil fotoğrafı
Chris Elkins9 ay önce

I hope not. I didn’t know a man could cry as many tears as I’ve cried missing my daughter.

Kristin profil fotoğrafı
Kristin9 ay önce

That is a pain I would not dare to imagine! It is unfathomable

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

Agreed Kristin

Shari profil fotoğrafı
Shari9 ay önce

So incredibly heartbreaking. May God give them comfort and peace.

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

Amen Shari 🙏

Red 2.0 profil fotoğrafı
Red 2.09 ay önce

@heyitsmeCarolyn I can, as a mom. It's soul crushing.

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

@heyitsmeCarolyn I can’t even fathom

Strand_🌿Road~ profil fotoğrafı
Strand_🌿Road~9 ay önce

💯% in agreement. Men never get the release a woman can express. We lost my brother at 22 years , and my father passed three years later . Men don’t have the words, but they relive it everyday.

PatLNV profil fotoğrafı
PatLNV9 ay önce

This sucks to be in this club. My son was almost 18 when the deranged driver passed on a curve over 100.

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

I’m so sorry Pat.

Peggy profil fotoğrafı
Peggy9 ay önce

I can't even imagine a daddy like that. That was a blessed girl ❤️.

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

She surely was. I pray for him to find some peace one day.

Joe Bedford profil fotoğrafı
Joe Bedford9 ay önce

I couldn’t imagine. 💔

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

Me either Joe

Stephanie Faulkner profil fotoğrafı
Stephanie Faulkner9 ay önce

Sorry Dad doesn’t cut it really. I leaned my Faith after tragedy. It an amazing lift of spirits.

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

He can cast his all of that but he stay may want to see where his daughter was last

Stephanie Faulkner profil fotoğrafı
Stephanie Faulkner9 ay önce

I get that. Unspeakable loss.

🇩🇰••Thor••🇺🇸 profil fotoğrafı
🇩🇰••Thor••🇺🇸9 ay önce

I would die inside…on my 9th & last life as is… when I lost my 12 week old son I died inside….When I was estranged by my 2 oldest I died & die inside every day still…. My youngest & I are great together thank God… she’s my angel-i am lucky. I would not survive another loss.

Lisa profil fotoğrafı
Lisa9 ay önce

Dear God have mercy 🙏💔

Evangelina profil fotoğrafı
Evangelina9 ay önce

As a parent, how do you not relive day after day the horror of your baby girl going over that cliff without you 🙏🙏🙏😭😭😭💔💔💔 Looking forward to the End of Sorrows for all of Humanity 😔

Michelle Maxwell ™ profil fotoğrafı
Michelle Maxwell ™9 ay önce

@SweetTexanRose 🙏💔🙏

Makingsenseofitall profil fotoğrafı
Makingsenseofitall9 ay önce

A kid from Poland on my sons football team was killed on the highway. That weekend on my way to the game I saw his father doing the same thing.

sherryd profil fotoğrafı
sherryd9 ay önce

To lose your child is the worst pain a person can experience 💔

Zeke_gary2 profil fotoğrafı
Zeke_gary29 ay önce

❤️❤️❤️

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

💔💔💔💔

Bren K profil fotoğrafı
Bren K9 ay önce

@mollie_don This is heartbreaking 💔 I’m very sorry to this father, family. Prayers. Grief lasts a life time, it changes over the years but it NEVER goes away cause the love we have for those we lost NEVER ends 🙏♥️

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Freemason9 ay önce

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

💔💔💔

Kooz profil fotoğrafı
Kooz9 ay önce

My boy and his girlfriend were both 18 No drunk driver just shitty roads Nobody’s fault I know exactly what’s going through his head There is a higher power that gets you through those days Just shy of two yrs now

cathy profil fotoğrafı
cathy9 ay önce

My condolences to this father and the family I pray I never know the pain he’s going through may God give him the strength to carry on this is something that shouldn’t have happened please think before drinking and driving don’t cause someone’s never ending pain

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

Wise words Cathy

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cynthia may9 ay önce

@1TexasRednecker 🥲🥲🥲God bless this father🙏🏾🌹

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

@1TexasRednecker Amen Cynthia

Tracie M profil fotoğrafı
Tracie M9 ay önce

Lost my 19 year old son, the pain is so bad I don’t know if I’ll make it.

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

I’m so sorry Tracie. You will see him again. He would want you to have a happy life.

Robyn Mattison profil fotoğrafı
Robyn Mattison9 ay önce

@TheThe1776 🙏💔✝️🙏

Dee 🇺🇸 profil fotoğrafı
Dee 🇺🇸9 ay önce

Heartbreaking 💔😢

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈 profil fotoğrafı
👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

💔🙏

C.Brian Knighton profil fotoğrafı
C.Brian Knighton9 ay önce

@SweetTexanRose I think it would break me

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Deus Hoc Vult9 ay önce

🙏

StoneTemple profil fotoğrafı
StoneTemple9 ay önce

@TheThe1776 Damn…peace be upon all those suffering.

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👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈9 ay önce

@TheThe1776 Amen

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