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Grief in fathers doesn't get talked about enough. Some dads grieve by doing what feels impossible. Not by talking. Not by crying. But by going back. By standing in the exact place where his only 20 year old daughter lost her life to a drunk driver, in a different... show more
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10 years in. Its been a wild ride that damn near took me out. Max was 19.

I can’t imagine. I don’t know how I would react if I lost one of mine. I’m so sorry for your loss. What a handsome son he is. You will see him again one day.

@pr0ud_americans No parent should have to bury a child. And you’re right. There’s no such thing as closure. I’m so sorry for his loss. 💔

@pr0ud_americans I’ve seen too many parents in my lifetime bury a child. I can’t imagine what they are feeling. When I try, I’m sure it is a 1,000 times worse. Prayers for them.

hes braver than I am. i cannot go back to where my son died. i don't have it in me.

I thought about it and I think I would want to be where my daughter was last, as hard as it would be.

It’s definitely a personal choice with no right or wrong answer. Parents will do what their heart compels them to do to find answers. It’s heartbreaking. I still can’t look at my son’s pics as an adult. Too hard

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The fact that grief isn’t the same for everyone isn’t talked about enough ether.

Definitely not. People grieve in all sorts of different ways.

I had a boyfriend who lost his 18yo daughter in a tragic road accident, and we maintained the site where it happened for many years... Somehow it made him feel better...✝️🥀

I’ve always wondered about having a site for your loved one at the place they were physically present. Thanks for sharing that Tracey.

Thank you for posting. Being a grieving Father myself & having spoken to Father's that have lost children, they definitely grieve differently. Trying to be the rock of the family, the pillar of support for others, while looking for their time to comprehend the loss.

I’m so sorry Ben

@oX_Bat_Xo Absolutely devastating. 💔

@oX_Bat_Xo I don’t even want to think about it. My heart goes out to them

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@RagingKuJo1222 For real- prayers for that family. 🙏

My 20 year old daughter was killed by a drunk driver. I tried to stay strong for everyone else. But when I was alone the tears rolled down my face.

I’m so sorry Chris. Crying doesn’t mean you aren’t strong brother.

I hope not. I didn’t know a man could cry as many tears as I’ve cried missing my daughter.

That is a pain I would not dare to imagine! It is unfathomable

Agreed Kristin

So incredibly heartbreaking. May God give them comfort and peace.

Amen Shari 🙏

@heyitsmeCarolyn I can, as a mom. It's soul crushing.

@heyitsmeCarolyn I can’t even fathom

💯% in agreement. Men never get the release a woman can express. We lost my brother at 22 years , and my father passed three years later . Men don’t have the words, but they relive it everyday.

This sucks to be in this club. My son was almost 18 when the deranged driver passed on a curve over 100.

I’m so sorry Pat.

I can't even imagine a daddy like that. That was a blessed girl ❤️.

She surely was. I pray for him to find some peace one day.

I couldn’t imagine. 💔

Me either Joe

Sorry Dad doesn’t cut it really. I leaned my Faith after tragedy. It an amazing lift of spirits.

He can cast his all of that but he stay may want to see where his daughter was last

I get that. Unspeakable loss.

I would die inside…on my 9th & last life as is… when I lost my 12 week old son I died inside….When I was estranged by my 2 oldest I died & die inside every day still…. My youngest & I are great together thank God… she’s my angel-i am lucky. I would not survive another loss.

Dear God have mercy 🙏💔

As a parent, how do you not relive day after day the horror of your baby girl going over that cliff without you 🙏🙏🙏😭😭😭💔💔💔 Looking forward to the End of Sorrows for all of Humanity 😔

@SweetTexanRose 🙏💔🙏

A kid from Poland on my sons football team was killed on the highway. That weekend on my way to the game I saw his father doing the same thing.

To lose your child is the worst pain a person can experience 💔

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@mollie_don This is heartbreaking 💔 I’m very sorry to this father, family. Prayers. Grief lasts a life time, it changes over the years but it NEVER goes away cause the love we have for those we lost NEVER ends 🙏♥️

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My boy and his girlfriend were both 18 No drunk driver just shitty roads Nobody’s fault I know exactly what’s going through his head There is a higher power that gets you through those days Just shy of two yrs now

My condolences to this father and the family I pray I never know the pain he’s going through may God give him the strength to carry on this is something that shouldn’t have happened please think before drinking and driving don’t cause someone’s never ending pain

Wise words Cathy

@1TexasRednecker 🥲🥲🥲God bless this father🙏🏾🌹

@1TexasRednecker Amen Cynthia

Lost my 19 year old son, the pain is so bad I don’t know if I’ll make it.

I’m so sorry Tracie. You will see him again. He would want you to have a happy life.

@TheThe1776 🙏💔✝️🙏

Heartbreaking 💔😢

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@SweetTexanRose I think it would break me

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@TheThe1776 Damn…peace be upon all those suffering.

@TheThe1776 Amen
