Hands down the most wicked/evil thing I’ve ever seen.

2nd hubby is selfless, 1st hubby has a best friend, and still gets to live at home with his family. I kind of think this is brave and kind. She didn't put him in a facility where there would be no love at all.

There’s more to the story. She’s been the ex’s legal guardian for past 15 years. He’s more like a brother to her or a disabled adult child. No one would think it’s evil for a man to marry a woman and help care for her disabled child or brother.

Given the extent of injuries to the first husband and the level of care he requires, I'd give a lot of latitude to the family to keep things together even if it is very non-conventional. An instance where I wouldn't judge until I've walked a mile in their shoes.

Allow me to add something here. Part of the evil of the American Healthcare system, SSDI is that if one becomes this severely disabled & your spouse makes makes even $.25 over what the govt thinks you should they won't pay out for benefits. Private care in a decent facility costs $350-450 a DAY, in home care providers (of which I am) can cost any where from $15-$40 an hr. A govt case manager assesses the person, then decided how much "help" a person needs. It's NEVER enough and always leaves the family worn out, beat down & burned out. Many spouses will get divorced simply so their spouse can get Medicaid, Medicare or social security. It's not a matter of not loving them anymore, it's a matter of making sure they're well cared for and not left to rot.

I don’t think you have any idea what true love is Stew

Dude she got her new man taking care of her disabled husband so it seems?!? It’s through sickness & health until death do us part! She does seem to refer to the disabled man Brandon as her “former husband” I guess she divorced him & remarried? It would be evil if she divorced him because he became disabled!

Missed the boat here, Stew.

So what’s better? To send him to a care home where he will likely never get any visitors, be abused, stuck in bed 24/7, likely end up with bed sores, with care workers who are paid around minimum wage who could care less about him? Or be with them to have at least a tiny bit of quality of life and family around? Well I used to work in care homes with the elderly & handicapped, that’s not somewhere you send a family member that you care about, & everyone knows how much of a hell scape most of those places are.

I’m sorry but I would never marry a woman and take care of her ex husband. Of all the ways a person could spend their life, this man said yep, I’m gonna marry you and take care of your ex husband too 😅

Why evil? I dont see it. I feed my brother also. Its an act of love. For as long as it takes.