He literally explained why you Be Nonchalant.

Being indifferent goes beyond dating, helps in business deals as well. Being nonchalant makes people more curious

Nonchalant gets you into the door. However, if you find someone you want to keep, tje flowers and extravagant dates are a must but you only do those once you're certain you have her.

true.. don't do too much esp in a relationship women will always do whatever they want as you should...your emotions shouldn't be everywhere most esp in this era

Yall are confused I will rather lose now and win later cuz I’m learning for that I will keep losing. Peace ✌️