Healthy family is not always smooth

My question is why is it only one person shaving things off?

This happens were couples are not compatible (the man and his actual or original missing rib) and this can only work if both incompatible can allow reshaping of their (internal being) person; most times never work. "You can't manipulate nature".

Sometimes, it's just not meant to be.

Nawww because now I’ve lost a part of me.

What a horror! They damage each other. This ist nothing that one person should do to another.

That’s not love, that’s a relationship

Worst advice ever.

Forcing yourselves to fit together when it's obvious you don't will not make the relationship work.

No

We need our original mate.