He's 100% working overtime to avoid coming home. Trust me been there done that

You’ve….neglected a wife that holds down the household and 3 young kids (while still breastfeeding)?

So she uploaded a video for clout & a pat on the back before she cleaned up her shithole of a house? Homes get messy with kids & pets, totally understand but that's months of filth & I know she's at home all day on TT & doing the bare minimum

Why do these people think anybody gives the slightest fuck about the mundane details of their life? Fix the fucking hole in your ceiling already.

She doesn’t appear to do any sort of cleaning unless it involves making a video about it.

Right above the kitchen too, huh?

…and then she didn’t clean again until next spring…. 🤢

Imagine making this and posting it and thinking its some kind of flex

So here’s the thing… I hear the comments that are talking about the house being filthy, but if she’s still breastfeeding, that means she had a baby recently so, it’s no wonder why she doesn’t do much. Maybe he could hire some help, repairmen; where’s all that overtime $ going?

As someone who grew up similar to this Fucking do better for your kids Clean up on a REGULAR BASIS Idfc if youre tired, depressed, lacking LIFE you brought LIFE INTO THIS WORLD TAKE CARE OF THEM AND GIVE THEM A CLEAN HEALTHY HOME ON A REGULAR BASIS Inexcusable.

That filth didn't gather in a day that is weeks of neglect. If you clean daily its a minor thing you clean once a month you have bug problems live in filth and its a major job to clean.

Women need to stop defending women just because they’re women 🙄 this is some sick shit. Even if he helps, this is clearly a HER issue. She’s just a dirty ass person. No excuses. A clean woman would never let it get there.

Bro signed up for 24 hour shift nexts week. 😂

So yeah I worked full time and had two children in diapers at the same time and my house was NEVER that filthy…. That’s called laziness

guaranteed dude will come home from a 13 hour shift exhausted and just want to crack a beer and chill and she'll get all upset that he didnt mention how good the house looks since she cleaned.

I understand kids are messy, but this is no excuse

With a house that looked like that I wouldn’t want to come home either 😱

Imagine all that work and having to come home to that ratchet ass hairdo

Ya know, having household rules, making the kids clean up after themselves, and doing regular cleaning avoids this kind of mess. This should never be normalized. It's disgusting. It's shameful that any wife/mother allows this to happen in her home. Do better.

How do people live like that? WTF 😳 That is crazy. No wonder the husband is always at work. I’m a stay at home mom and I could never… Sometimes the shelves get dusty around here but the house is always picked up, dishes are done, laundry done, dinner made etc.

Clustered house is a clustered mind. Nope id rather burn it down over living like that.

She recorder her once a year cleaning for us.

Question is why did she wait for him to not be around to decide to clean the house?

Imagine your husband is working two full time jobs and then complaining

Thats dirt from over a year. Sorry if you clean every few days NO ONE’s house looks like this

How the everlovin’ fuck do people let their homes get that disgustingly filthy???!! No wonder husband doesn’t come home.

I was about to be kind, I have kids and under the couch can collect trinkets and dust bunnies very quick….but then the kitchen 😖😖😖

she making a video and not addressing what we're all wondering about

The house doesn't get like that in a day. I raised kids. She left it a mess for a week, then films 20 minutes of cleaning like she works hard all day everyday

No way it looks like that in a day. You gotta stay on top of the shit on a daily basis when you have small children (both of them). Trust me, I’ve been there.

Staying at home not doing a fuck thing 😭

I'd kill myself if I was him

Looking at that trashy house he’s either lying about overtime or they’re druggies because how tf do you not make home improvements with children in the house.

Woah... how did that house get so disgusting??? Ik children keep you occupied, but that is way more than just a small mess. That looks like months of "i'll just do it later" piled up, AND SO MUCH FOOD! I hope y'all dont have ants or even rats.

Awwwhhhh, poor thing. In our younger days hubs worked 90 hour weeks and I did 70 and I guarantee my house was still freaking spotless! That’s just laziness.

What is the point of being married if it comes down to that? If it is seasonal or temporary, maybe, but how do you keep family values if one person is working 80+ hours a week and the other is doing all the at home responsibilities?