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Husband whose wife had multiple affairs including with his best friend asks Dr. John Delony what to do. Caller: “My wife had a long-term affair that started with my best friend and eventually involved other people. She only stopped after she was caught. I don’t even know who she...

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A mom says her 5-year-old accidentally witnessed her and her husband having sex… now she’s worried she’s traumatized. Caller: I’m worried our 5-year-old may be traumatized after accidentally walking in on my husband and me having sex. I’m hoping I’m just overreacting. John Delony: Okay… I need the whole picture. Tell me what happened. Caller: We’re always careful to keep our bedroom door closed and locked, but she had a nightmare and somehow snuck into our room before we closed the door. She hid in our closet. Caller: I went to get dressed, turned on the closet light, and there she was with her face buried in her knees. John Delony: Oh… she had a nightmare, all right. Caller: I jumped back, grabbed a robe, asked her what she was doing, and she told me she’d had a nightmare. John Delony: Did she actually see anything? Caller: She said she didn’t… but where she was sitting, she probably could have seen everything. John Delony: What happened next? Caller: I picked her up, stayed calm, and told her, “If you did see anything, I’m really sorry. That wasn’t meant for your eyes. That’s something for adult husbands and wives.” John Delony: Perfect. Caller: She hasn’t brought it up since, but I’ve been worried all week. John Delony: You handled that about as perfectly as you could have. I’d be willing to bet there’s a 99.999% chance she saw some or all of it.
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A mom says her 5-year-old accidentally witnessed her and her husband having sex… now she’s worried she’s traumatized. Caller: I’m worried our 5-year-old may be traumatized after accidentally walking in on my husband and me having sex. I’m hoping I’m just overreacting. John Delony: Okay… I need the whole picture. Tell me what happened. Caller: We’re always careful to keep our bedroom door closed and locked, but she had a nightmare and somehow snuck into our room before we closed the door. She hid in our closet. Caller: I went to get dressed, turned on the closet light, and there she was with her face buried in her knees. John Delony: Oh… she had a nightmare, all right. Caller: I jumped back, grabbed a robe, asked her what she was doing, and she told me she’d had a nightmare. John Delony: Did she actually see anything? Caller: She said she didn’t… but where she was sitting, she probably could have seen everything. John Delony: What happened next? Caller: I picked her up, stayed calm, and told her, “If you did see anything, I’m really sorry. That wasn’t meant for your eyes. That’s something for adult husbands and wives.” John Delony: Perfect. Caller: She hasn’t brought it up since, but I’ve been worried all week. John Delony: You handled that about as perfectly as you could have. I’d be willing to bet there’s a 99.999% chance she saw some or all of it.

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Saving Myself For Marriage Was A waste. Caller (Anna): ...how can I help the bitterness and resentment that's growing in me towards my husband, I feel like he's ruining s*x for me. Dr. John Delony: How is he ruining sex for you? Caller: Okay, so background... I grew up... Dr. John Delony: (laughing) You were like, "Okay, let's do this." Caller: (laughs) I grew up very religious. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: Very religious. No fun things in the bedroom until marriage. Dr. John Delony: Okay, so you didn't sleep with anybody else until you got married. Caller: Correct. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: I met my husband now, husband at 27, married at 30. So a long time. A long time. Dr. John Delony: Awesome. Caller: And while I absolutely adore him and I think he is a wonderful wonderful person when we got married, it was... it just was not at all... Dr. John Delony: What you had built it up to be? Caller: Yes, and it still isn't. I feel like... and I've... I've talked to him about it, and my thing is... our honeymoon felt like a vacation. It didn't feel like a honeymoon. Dr. John Delony: What does that mean? What does that mean? Caller: That means that I had to initiate a lot of the time. That means that he initiated maybe once in the whole honeymoon. And I feel like he was more concerned about looking pool-time and, you know, sightseeing than he was with the point of the honeymoon, in my opinion. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller (Anna): And that carried when we got home, of course, that carried on. It only kind of became a little bit more stagnant. And that aggression, that lust, that passion isn't there. And I've had to initiate a lot, way more than I really want to. And I don't feel desired anymore. And this is going to sound so stupid, but... Dr. John Delony: Nothing you're saying is stupid. Caller (Anna): I've been having these thoughts where it's like, if this was what it was going to be, I could have been having fun in my twenties. Dr. John Delony: Sure. That's not stupid at all, not even a tiny bit. Caller (Anna): Okay. Dr. John Delony: Don't beat yourself up about that. Caller (Anna): What was the point? What was the point if I was just going to have a regular, normal, boring marital s*x life, then I could have had fun while I had time, you know? And as horrible as that sounds, it's how I feel, you know? Dr. John Delony: I don't think it sounds horrible. I don't think it sounds horrible, it makes sense. But I think there's something deeper than this. Tell me if I'm crazy, okay?

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John Delony says the first conversation can determine whether you lose your child. Caller: I recently found out my daughter… she’s 15… and I found out she and her friend are dating. My husband and I are Christians, and I’m trying to figure out how to talk to her… what boundaries to set. John Delony: How did you find out they were dating? Caller: She was texting her girlfriend on my phone… she forgot to delete the messages. John Delony: Good for you for being a parent that checks your kid’s phone. You’re a parent. John Delony: Here’s the first thing. If your 15-year-old had a boyfriend, you wouldn’t let him spend the night. Caller: Right. John Delony: So that world ends immediately. Caller: We put a stop to the sleepovers immediately. John Delony: But I want her to know the sleepovers are not ending because you’re gay. John Delony: They’re ending because you’re dating somebody. I wouldn’t let you have any partner over here. John Delony: Then we get to the faith part of this. John Delony: I cannot count the number of parents who’ve come to me and said, “I would do anything to have that first conversation back…” John Delony: “I didn’t just give them my opinion on their sexuality… I lost my kid.” Caller: We haven’t talked to her yet. I was waiting until I talked to you. John Delony: The first and most important thing I’d tell any parent is this… John Delony: “You are my daughter, and I will love you till the end of time.”

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I Had A One-Night Stand With My Wife's Step-Mother. (How Do My Wife And I Rebuild Our Marriage?) Caller: How do me and my wife rebuild our marriage after I had a... a one-night stand, or like a hookup I guess, with her stepmother?'" ​ let's just, as they say, back that thing up. Say what?" Dr. John Delony: "Wait, wait, wait, in all seriousness, like what... what happened? Cam: "Um, we were all drinking together. Um, we all killed a bottle of tequila, the three of us within the hour. Um, and then it was just me and her stepmom in the... in her apartment. Um, my wife went downstairs with the kids and all that good stuff, and they were swimming and..." "Um, basic... she was asleep and I was on the couch. I was going to wake her up for her work call 'cause she was like supervisor or whatever and had to... and uh like send a closing email. So I was standing there making sure she woke up to do that. And when she woke up, her uh top fell off, she was wearing a bikini, her top fell off and... put it back on, and then I kind of like pursued after that and..." Dr. John Delony: "So, your... your marriage is over. You're not going to rebuild this." Cam: "Yeah." Dr. John Delony: "Yeah. I mean, I can't think of a more egregious violation, man. I can: kids. And beyond kids, this." Cam: "Yeah, it's definitely..." Dr. John Delony: "Yeah, you've blown it up. I think the integrity thing to do is to... uh, treat your wife with dignity and respect as... y'all make... uh, I mean, I can't think of a more, like, just... uh... dishonoring thing you could do to somebody, man." Cam: "I agree. It was the most... biggest... dumbest decision I've ever made and my biggest regret, and I just..." Dr. John Delony: "How long have you been married?" Cam: "Um, this year would be 5 years." Dr. John Delony: "Were those kids yours?" Cam: "Um, it was her... one of them is, and she was with my... her uh little brother and sister as well." Dr. John Delony: "Okay, so your wife has two kids by somebody else?" Cam: "No, she... there was three down there. One... it was just one, that was our daughter, that's the only kid we have. And then the other kids were her stepmom's kids." Dr. John Delony: "Okay." Cam: "Her brother and sister." Dr. John Delony: "So, obviously you know this is... this is just like insanely sensational and it's going to make for good YouTube clips and all that. And you also know that what you did is like... it's just the lowest thing you could do to somebody." "But I... so I'm not going to kick you while you're down anymore. Like, what's the world been like since then?" Cam: "Ugh... I've just been trying to figure everything out. Um, it's been really, really hard. Um, I mean, "You know, I've been trying hard to... forgive myself and to... you know, just work on myself 'cause that's all I can do at this point. "Um, me and my wife are cohabitating right now. Um, we're... still in the same room and stuff. Um... we've been able to go and do things together, and be... be civil, and been, you know, nothing... nothing crazy. Our marriage wasn't perfect before this by any means, obviously, or this wouldn't have even been close to happening, but..." Dr. John Delony: "Does your wife want to stay married to you?" Cam: "She's in limbo right now. I mean..." Dr. John Delony: what's the limbo?" Cam: "Um, we just need to work on our... I mean, we've been attached at the hip since we were 17. Um, and really lost ourselves in our relationship. We just... um, got... you know, got together real quick and moved out of state after that real quick, and then had a baby by 18. So our whole life was just each other and baby. And then now..."
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I Had A One-Night Stand With My Wife's Step-Mother. (How Do My Wife And I Rebuild Our Marriage?) Caller: How do me and my wife rebuild our marriage after I had a... a one-night stand, or like a hookup I guess, with her stepmother?'" ​ let's just, as they say, back that thing up. Say what?" Dr. John Delony: "Wait, wait, wait, in all seriousness, like what... what happened? Cam: "Um, we were all drinking together. Um, we all killed a bottle of tequila, the three of us within the hour. Um, and then it was just me and her stepmom in the... in her apartment. Um, my wife went downstairs with the kids and all that good stuff, and they were swimming and..." "Um, basic... she was asleep and I was on the couch. I was going to wake her up for her work call 'cause she was like supervisor or whatever and had to... and uh like send a closing email. So I was standing there making sure she woke up to do that. And when she woke up, her uh top fell off, she was wearing a bikini, her top fell off and... put it back on, and then I kind of like pursued after that and..." Dr. John Delony: "So, your... your marriage is over. You're not going to rebuild this." Cam: "Yeah." Dr. John Delony: "Yeah. I mean, I can't think of a more egregious violation, man. I can: kids. And beyond kids, this." Cam: "Yeah, it's definitely..." Dr. John Delony: "Yeah, you've blown it up. I think the integrity thing to do is to... uh, treat your wife with dignity and respect as... y'all make... uh, I mean, I can't think of a more, like, just... uh... dishonoring thing you could do to somebody, man." Cam: "I agree. It was the most... biggest... dumbest decision I've ever made and my biggest regret, and I just..." Dr. John Delony: "How long have you been married?" Cam: "Um, this year would be 5 years." Dr. John Delony: "Were those kids yours?" Cam: "Um, it was her... one of them is, and she was with my... her uh little brother and sister as well." Dr. John Delony: "Okay, so your wife has two kids by somebody else?" Cam: "No, she... there was three down there. One... it was just one, that was our daughter, that's the only kid we have. And then the other kids were her stepmom's kids." Dr. John Delony: "Okay." Cam: "Her brother and sister." Dr. John Delony: "So, obviously you know this is... this is just like insanely sensational and it's going to make for good YouTube clips and all that. And you also know that what you did is like... it's just the lowest thing you could do to somebody." "But I... so I'm not going to kick you while you're down anymore. Like, what's the world been like since then?" Cam: "Ugh... I've just been trying to figure everything out. Um, it's been really, really hard. Um, I mean, "You know, I've been trying hard to... forgive myself and to... you know, just work on myself 'cause that's all I can do at this point. "Um, me and my wife are cohabitating right now. Um, we're... still in the same room and stuff. Um... we've been able to go and do things together, and be... be civil, and been, you know, nothing... nothing crazy. Our marriage wasn't perfect before this by any means, obviously, or this wouldn't have even been close to happening, but..." Dr. John Delony: "Does your wife want to stay married to you?" Cam: "She's in limbo right now. I mean..." Dr. John Delony: what's the limbo?" Cam: "Um, we just need to work on our... I mean, we've been attached at the hip since we were 17. Um, and really lost ourselves in our relationship. We just... um, got... you know, got together real quick and moved out of state after that real quick, and then had a baby by 18. So our whole life was just each other and baby. And then now..."

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Caller: "How do I tell my daughter that I don't want to participate in her wedding events because I just don't like the guy that she's marrying? You know, I don't like the guy because he's a jerk. He's a screamer, he yells and screams when he doesn't get his way, does the guilt-tripping, financially abusive a whole laundry list of reasons that he wouldn't make a, a good husband right now. And looks like it's going forward, and there's, you know, just not anything I can do about it." Dr. John Delony: "Let's take the wedding and let's move it off to the side for a second. Tell me with raw, transparent honesty: when is another time in her life when she was making decisions that you didn't like and you backed up and walked away? Caller: "Oh goodness... when she moved out to go live with her dad after our divorce. My ex-husband was an addict. He ultimately chose being an addict over his family. When we divorced, the children were old enough to make the decision of where they wanted to go, and she chose to live with him. And I just really took a big step back." Dr. John Delony: "How old was your daughter?" Caller: "Sixteen. Dr. John Delony: "Okay. Did Mom and Dad ever bail on you? Caller: "Oh, yeah, I, I had nobody. Dr. John Delony: "I would be willing to bet money that there's still a 14 or 15 or 16-year-old little girl inside your chest that is wondering, 'What was so bad about me that Mom and Dad left?' But that 16-year-old that sits and lives inside your chest would do anything for a conversation with your dad to lean across a table and say, 'I screwed up, honey, and I'm so sorry. You were always beautiful, you always smart.'

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My Girlfriend Gave Me An HIV; Not Sure Where To Go From Here ( Should We Stay Together?) Caller (Tim):so my question is, my girlfriend gave me a... a quite serious STD, and my parents found out about this. They are now against our relationship saying that it's a way that God is showing that this relationship was not meant to be. Um, I've been fighting this like against my parents. And my question is, has... is there too much that has happened for this relationship to work? Uh, or am I trying too hard to make it work? Dr. John Delony: Bro, there's a lot going on here, man. Whole lot. Um, before I dig in, let's... let me just... let's just have a conversation so I can get to know you for a second. Is that cool? Caller: Okay, yeah. Dr. John Delony: Um, you sound a little bit nervous. Are you nervous, or is this just weird? Or, I realize you're calling a stranger being like, "Yeah, I got an STI from this woman that I love." This whole thing's kind of weird. Caller: Well, no. This is basically the first person outside of this situation that I've talked to, so... Dr. John Delony: Gotcha. Well, dude, I'm... I'm grateful for the trust. It sounds like there's a lot, lot going on here. Um, tell me about you. How old are you? What do you do for a living? All that kind of stuff. Caller: Uh, 27. Um, uh, going to... uh, studying nursing. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: And, uh, just about to graduate here. Dr. John Delony: So, congratulations on that. Um, do you live at home? Caller: No, I don't. Dr. John Delony: Okay. So, what kind of STI did you get? Caller: Uh, HIV. Dr. John Delony: Okay. So, you've got HIV. Okay, so I was wondering if this was... The... my first question was why in the world do your parents know? Um, if I'm 27, the last people on planet Earth I would call and tell I have an STI is my parents. But, um, HIV is super serious. What is your, um, health prognosis? Caller: it's... so, I guess the situation gets a little bit more difficult because, my dad does computer diagnostics, and he was able to accidentally kind of find out I have this, and so I am... Dr. John Delony: Accidentally kind of? What does that mean? Caller: Meaning he wasn't expecting it. He wasn't looking for it. It was just kind of came up when, uh, he was doing the... I regularly do checkups. He's a... a doctor. Dr. John Delony: Oh, so he's a doctor at the place where you went to get checked out, and he discovered through the computer system that his son has HIV? Caller: Yes. it's a... alternative medicine that he does, and so it's... it's a very different kind from modern medicine, so it's just the way that he found out. Um, I just go to my dad for all his, checkups. Dr. John Delony: Yeah. What a mess. Okay, so tell me about this person that you're dating. Caller: Um, so... um... I guess what... uh, what would you like to know about her? Dr. John Delony: Well, just tell me about her. Caller: Well, uh, she's a... she's a nurse. Um, and, uh, Illinois, and, um... This is the second, uh, serious relationship she's had. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: Uh, for me, it's... um, maybe the first serious relationship for me. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: Um, and so, she's... I mean, she grew up in a Christian family. She's... um... Dr. John Delony: Did she knowingly... knowingly give you HIV? Caller: No, she didn't know about it. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Is she the first person you've ever slept with? Caller: Yes. Dr. John Delony: Okay. How long have y'all been together?

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You and her husband are very stupid. This is how you people want to defend yourselves after killing her. After the husband was telling everyone she was healed. After you people locked her up in a room and refused her to even go and see her father. She could not talk to anyone. Even created a nick name for her husband (the nickname was Azenabor) so his family won’t know she’s referring to him when she talks to people to help her. Your stupid church pastor told her God has healed her and that she should return 2 million naira back to the church from her donation money, he said the 2 million is the amount the church donated for her dialysis. She asked the Pastor to send evidence of the 2 million that he claims belongs to the church and he could not. Next thing the church said the money people sent to her is cursed. That the same thing killed her mother. When she’s with the pastor and her husband she has to pretend to her friends that the Agbo and prayers were working, but she confided in a few people. Even cried that she wants to go meet her father and the husband shouted her down. Your stupid friend and the Pastor told her she doesn’t need dialysis and even when her boss from work offered to give her 500,000 every month for 3 month’s dialysis, she couldn’t take the money because the boss requested for hospital evidence breakdown after every dialysis for the 3 months he’d pay and she didn’t want her boss to know she stopped dialysis because of her husband and the stupid church. People were willing to help. Don’t come on my post to say trash because if you and her stupid husband and his family piss me off, even the devil will scream blood of Jesus by the time I am done with all of you.

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Caller: This time last year, my wife asked me for an open relationship. I could tell she had been struggling for a long time, and I didn't want to immediately shut her down. So I told her, "I'll give you a month. Don't do anything physical. Take the time to gather information, and then come back and explain why you think this would help our marriage." Dr. John Delony: She was already involved with somebody, wasn't she? Caller: She was. She'd actually been involved with someone for about a year before she even asked me. She already had a plan. We set a bunch of ground rules if we were ever going to try an open relationship, but she was with someone almost immediately and it was someone different from the first person. Both of them were coworkers. After that first month, I realized this wasn't something I wanted any part of. Honestly, I think I knew that before I ever agreed to it. I asked her to stop, and she said, "No." She also told me she wasn't sleeping with anyone else, but she was still sleeping with me. Later, I found out she wasn't using protection with these other people. Dr. John Delony: Have you ever heard the story about the rattlesnake in the paper bag? Caller: I think so, but you'll have to remind me. Dr. John Delony: A man finds a paper bag with a rattlesnake trapped inside. The snake says, "Help me out. I'm stuck. The man says, I'm not reaching in there. You're a rattlesnake you'll bite me." The snake replies, "No, I won't. I just need your help. Eventually, the man believes him, reaches into the bag, and the snake bites him. The man says, "Why did you bite me? You promised you wouldn't." The snake replies, "I'm a rattlesnake. That's what I do Then the snake asks again, "Please help me out of the bag. The man says, "No, you just bit me." The snake says, "I know, but I got it out of my system. I won't do it again." The man believes him, reaches back into the bag and the snake bites him again. Dr. John Delony: That's you.

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