I have questions about the “bathroom debate.”

"is this bathroom accessible?" "It's a regular bathroom" That's the problem right there. They don't know what an accessible bathroom is or they don't care when something like these arises.

I appreciate the way you break things down. It shows that folks (myself included) really are concerned about the wrong shit. It forces me to check my ableist behavior and look beyond myself. I will legit be more conscious of doing that more often from now on.

Oh my gosh lost it at "you walked up to me with your daughter and asked if my va-geen still works" Yup. Way too common

Wait until they find out that trans men exist too lol. Also I figured as much with the wideness of disabled bathrooms, I've seen plenty that I wouldn't consider wide enough if I had a wheelchair or similar. I didn't realize that about the toilets themselves. 😯

Mwhaha! When you went in on the width of the door, I started clapping. I love you so much.

I’m laughing so hard I’m crying. Like for real, is there even room for me to turn my manual wheelchair? -and that doesn’t begin to cover having room for electric ♿️. Does the door have one of those openers for your foot that make it harder for chair users to LEAVE

Honestly...male, female, cis, trans...I'm done pooping in front of people PERIOD #EndCommunalShitting

Heh. Back when I worked in hospitality I could answer all those questions. But I'm also not an anti-trans bigot, so the conversation would more be about which bathrooms are accessible. And as the hotels ADA officer "Lobby bathrooms all have accessible stalls, the doors are...

Thanks for advancing the use of “vajeen”

When I have enough food in my gullet to go regularly, the bathroom debate will matter more to me. Also, the accessibility for disabled people. That would be nice.