I hope ma2k listen to this message.

Im not condoning what those men said in the group, but we must start dealing with causes of problems. Women must be held accountable in this too

Yes. True, hence I said I hope ama 2k are listening

Once told this likkle 2K this about an associate who was courting her and guess what the 2K told him all I said in confidence trying to help her, now they turned things around as if I wanted the 2k hence I told her about what the guy is hiding … Sadly these 2ks don’t listen

Eish

Here it from me. A men. Our age mate women looked down on us and told us we are not their competitive partners. This was embedded in our head since high-school and varsity. Its confusing now that you guys speak like this. Men saw it a norm to date young. Women started this.

Bathi sinomona.. funny enough those old Zulu grannies on TikTok are saying go to school have your money buy and house and car and have kids never get married…

Exactly 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

That's the whole point, why date a person who will be combative to you..while you can date someone who will be accepting of what you can offer them and they will not stress you..Younger women offer value to men and men offer value to them also.

Holding someone accountable and being combative are two different things….literally. So I’m not sure if you don’t understand the meaning of the words or what?

@PoliticalParker A Man Will Always Choose A Childless Younger Woman, Because An Older Woman Particularly A Single Mother Comes With Emotional, Psychological And Spiritual Baggage/Damage, The Advice Should Be To Young Girls To Prioritise Marriage And Avoid Being Single Mothers Like Their Mothers

@Sebabi_M @PoliticalParker Men have the same baggage from destroying young girls and turning them into these damages women. Then they run to young girls to start that damaging all over again. People aren’t born damaged. If you hate damaged goods, start the healing process with yourself.

@FrenchToastThat @Sebabi_M All that doesn't matter, men are expected to fund the relationship financially and treat the woman. A woman just needs to be present and not stress the man.

@FrenchToastThat @Sebabi_M Im just reminding you of the vile behaviours men bring to women that can turn them into horrible people and you’re deflecting. Anyways you know it’s true and because of that, the peace you seek can never come from someone if you lack it yourself. A woman deserves that.

@FrenchToastThat @Sebabi_M U cannot expect someone who is not responsible for your baggage to be forced to carry it. Women are unwavering with their standards, they don't date broke men. Men shouldn't compromise their standards also & should be selective with their resources also.

As men, it's not our fault that you all thought you were too good for your age mates, and now that senishiwe iskhathi you now want your age mates... Naturally, your age mate is supposed to marry young women because you age quicker than man, so ladies, please leave man alone.

Stay away from these typical old women who have had a share of their old men in their twenties and come here to advise because their time is done, everything is blamed on men but don’t fall for it, dear men, date women in their prime 🙂

Imagine being held accountable by people who can’t account for themselves…….

You should be advising whilst you married your age mate. What is it that qualifies you to the issues of Men? Experience, yeah experience. You experienced all types of man now you think you qualify to advice on this matter! You want to reproduce your kind. We want them Young.

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You are confusing all men with a group of thugs in a WhatsApp chat , who are in the business of using and abusing …

🤣🤣🤣 lapho this lady was probably dating older men herself. I am going to marry at age 35 and I will definitely marrying a young woman.

We like confusing a selected few and making it seem like it’s a majority thing. We were once also varsity students and were not impressed by just mere cars. Maybe times have changed due certain pressures but let’s given 2ks some bit of credit. They are not that dumb

Who said they were dumb?

Women need to accept that men like younger women and no amount of shaming will stop that. It's like trying to shame women into not like wealthy men.

Their age mates are dating 50 and 60 year olds. Such fuckin hypocrites man🤢

Hold me accountable because of my empty tank in my car? Hayibo😳

Yes, why is your tank always empty as a grown man. That’s a cause for concern

@mthejane9 😄ku tough emzansi so your dad always had full tank all day

@mthejane9 No, he didn’t. And that’s where my mother (who is two years younger than him, came in to assist too).

@mthejane9 So u want to raise the bar above what your mom settles for

@mthejane9 As you can see for yourself, the bar seems very low…so I’m not sure what you want me to say

Men dnt want stress…especially from retired hoes

The problem is thinking this young girls are victims. They do it intentionally too for financial gain, they use old men for money in exchange for sex especially varsity students

Madness in this gender especially the older bitter ones, it’s like someone took decisions for them somewhere.!!

No man, in their right mind, must go for women their age. Men will and must always go for younger women. Younger women will also most likely choose a well established older gent over a man their age who’s trying to establish themselves. Videos aren’t gonna change the rules.

She's misinterpreted her own factual observation, that 25 year old men just out of varsity are not yet financially sure footed to start family she says, and will be stable at about 35 years old, but same university physiology the men studied told them that prime window for procreation for women is 18-33 years old, she then miraculously say these men must start a family with a 35 year old woman with, according to nature, the law of diminishing return is severely against? If both the man and woman at 35 already have children from previous relationships and all they now want is make one big family to raise those kids then yes, this works a charm Starting family is not about who holds who accountable and whose running their cars on reserve, it's about making children and taking responsibility to jointly bring them up with live and care

She was dating men 10-20yrs older than her when she was in her 20s now she's in her 40s & dont want 60yo men kkkk she's looking for a man her age but they're with young women just like her when she was young in her 20s This is just jealous & a strategy to get a man nothing more

The reason we don’t want our age mate is they’re “older than us” . When a man is 40 his age mates are not 40 yrs old magogos please understand that. How can I say Babie to a 40yrs old magogo when I’m also 40? That’s blasphemy it’s like saying Babie to my mom’s best friend😫

Our age mates are old and worn out

Age mates have been used and discarded, therefore very controlling.

Women are constantly expected to evolve based on some linear model and not the natural trajectory of life. It was don’t date your age, then don’t marry just be independent, now it’s almost morally wrong to have kids. It seems the evolution of women must be measured against hoes!

Even Pastor Mosa Sono the Richest Black Pastor started his life with his peer wife in a Backroom, today they are both set for life. I guess generations are indeed not the same

Yazi last I read something here on X bathi in our younger age we want to date older men, when you are old you see this men is not what I wanted and now you want to chase younger men cause they are what you want! So bayekeni we see them crashing out on tiktok bazisola 🥺

They might want to marry you but certainly not because of love but other benefits like you are young and fit to give them a lot of kids etc!

Why is she beefing with ma2k when they dont give a fuck about her and her opinion?😭

She's talking nonsense and projecting. Yes, she will ask those relevant questions when something does not add up but no man wants to marry an old woman and be a stepfather to her kids.

These girls are told/taught not to date broke guys. So when they find a man that has a car/looks like he has a bit of finance what are they supposed to do? As a man why would I want to date someone who is going to question me about the petrol in my car. See why it's a win win?

Do not go around having sex with all these men ✔️ The rest of her argument is completely flawed on multiple levels.

mxm. nosense, there is no man who wants to be constantly subjected to disrespect, headaches and woke agenda. These woke women dont even cook for their men. You will have beg her for intimancy while shes sleeping with her male co-workers.

Why are men's preferences bashed? If they 40 but wana date a 22 year old that's their preference, why must they settle for their age mates

They never want to listen, they think they know it all