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I love this. When someone is going through a dark phase, it is impossible for them to see or notice anything good happening around them. Even if they do, they find a way to make it negative. That's why you need the right people around you. To pull you...

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KellyanneHelsel5 days ago

So true

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ChosenOfGod5 days ago

This is more then true. Those who have not experienced it can never understand. It's like those who've been married for their whole life then lose their spouse. It doesnt have to be a spouse, sometimes it's just a loss of hope in life.

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Nordi5 days ago

Agreed

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