I'm still not quite sure how I feel about Lindsay Clancy never apologizing to Patrick Clancy. But I'm not really liking it. Did you ask Lindsay why she did it? Patrick Clancy: I asked her if she remembered it. And what did she say? Patrick Clancy: She said it... was like a dream. And she remembered it much in the way you would remember a dream after waking up. Do you feel like you failed in some way in this period or do you feel like you did the best you could? Patrick Clancy: I think I did the best I could with what I had at the time. And I live with the outcome. I live with it every day. Has she ever asked for your forgiveness? No. But I gave it to her.show more

Did he ever apologize to her for not doing better? Not doing literally everything to protect her and their children?

Thats a great point. I dont know. Also the more I think of it. I assumed she never apologized, but he said she never asked for forgiveness, those are two different things.

He spoke with her for less than 10 minutes (two phone calls, the first lasting less then 4 minutes)....in 3 years...

They've spoke more than that.

Patrick has and does control the whole narrative. I would love to hear Lindsay get a chance to speak. There was no real investigation.

She has never expressed remorse of any kind, as far as I can find.

Ughhh I think I might delete this post. The more I think about it, I could have gotten it wrong. He said Lindsay never asked for forgiveness, not that she never apologized.

Are u really believing what he has said? I can’t even think that we even believe what the fuck he says! He is LIEING!!!!!!!!!!!!

I guess we will all just keep letting Patrick tell the story and just accepting it.

I think hearing all of how she never apologized or brought up the kids in their first phone call says so much about Patrick and his forgiveness towards her. It’s also probably easier to have that mindset then the alternative where you’d beat yourself up even more over it

He didn't say she never apologized, he said she never asked for forgiveness. Those aren't the same thing.

He effing LEFT THE KIDS ALONE WITH THE KIDS. HE FAILED. HIS “BEST“ WASN’T WORTH ANYTHING! 😭

Did they ask him how Lindsay told him she “killed” the kids when she couldn’t even talk, which is what all the Police and Mergency personal said at the trial ?

You believe HIM? He's lying. Yet again. And why would he ask her if she remembered it. 😁😁😁 His lies are so stupid I can't believe how some people buy them. If she supposedly did this, why would she not remember it? What kind of a question is that Patrick? 🤣🤣🤣

So many posts of people freaking out she never asked for forgiveness. First off if you were psychotic and killed the kids like you were watching yourself in a dream, would you ask to be forgiven? Secondly some things are just too big to express with normal words like, oops, sorry

So I may have misinterpreted this the more I listened to it. If she never said the words Im sorry then yes thats weird to me. Thats just me personally. I have given Lindsay so much grace & understanding but I'm sorry I just cant understand that one. Not if she never asked for forgiveness, I can understand that. I didnt really think of the difference when I first heard it.

I just said I'm sorry twice in my response to you so I'm pretty confident I would have apologized to Patrick everytime I spoke to him if I were Lindsay.

I think Lindsay should eventually do her own 60 Minutes.

That poor man!

how often does he speak with her. I was under the impression the phone call in the hospital was one of the last times he spoke with her. So when would she get the chance. Would people rather her harass him? Is she even allowed to because he's a witness?

Lindsay wanted Patrick’s understanding. She didn’t want him to reject her. Asking for his forgiveness would be taking some responsibility, which she never has. This could indicate a personality disorder.

I need clarification though whether I misunderstood this because apologizing & asking for forgiveness are different.

That’s fucking little smirk he did 🤬 🤥

Just look at the guys faces. The one interviewing is authentic and trying to get information and the other guy if making shit up and telling a story. Facial cues give him away

“Who are these cuties? Do they live in MA? “No theyre dead..”🚩🚩🚩🚩 both need to be arrested

I'm not liking him speaking on her behalf like this. He's trying to control the narrative & manage his image.

Says him. All we have gotten is what Patrick says. Like how he said she spoke to him on the ground after jumping out the window when she didn't. I don't really trust his recollections.

Never asked forgiveness after she strangled their children. Can you see it now?

My thoughts on this are the facts are the facts and I have no interest or need to build Lindsay up or tear her down. Nothing she could do or say would bring back his children (yes, her children as well but he is a victim of her actions as well). I guarantee she doesn’t forgive herself and she won’t ever ask him forgiveness when she doesn’t even give it to herself. I am so sad that a case that should have shone light on real issues of mental health and postpartum health, got twisted to “support for a child murderer or against a child murderer”. I don’t support LC but I support the reform and change that could have happened if people just recognized the real issue at hand.

I can't actually believe those people who are demonizing hon though. What would they have done differently. Lindsey's act were premeditated

sometimes my dreams feel so vivid and real, almost like a real memory after I wake up. some dreams are barely anything at all. tiny clips of maybe this happened maybe I was at this location. WE WANT MORE DETAILS PEOPLE

I wonder if she was really able to talk to him and vice versa because of all the court proceedings? Perhaps that can happen after sentencing. That’s my guess. I know her lawyer the chaplain, and others have said she was sorry.

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This man is suing medical professionals for failing his wife. He couldn’t speak to the fact that she doesn’t need forgiveness and perhaps he should be the one asking for it.

idk if you can really try to ask forgiveness for something that horrible

apologizing and asking for forgiveness are different but go off

idk, if she’s a person of faith, then she knows it’s not his forgiveness that she will need to seek. her road to forgiveness is much more daunting then just asking him for it.