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Jordan peterson on why it's so hard to sit down and study: 1. You sit down to study. your intent is clear: study. but you know distractions will flood in non-stop, and there's almost nothing you can do but wait them out. 2. it's not random noise. there are... little subsystems inside you that want something else. one wants a sandwich. one wants a cigarette. one suddenly needs to clean under the bed. they pop up and fight you for control. 3. they get sneaky too. you'll start thinking "this is a stupid course. why am i even in university. what's the point of life." you can really get going when you're trying to avoid your homework. 4. so ask yourself. you took the course. you told yourself to sit down. why don't you listen? the honest answer is you're a mess. you don't have control over yourself at all. 5. and the less put-together you are, the less you run these systems and the more they run you. it can get badly out of hand. 6. you've felt it elsewhere. attracted to someone you don't even want to be attracted to. texting them late at night when you know you should be asleep. in the grip of something you can't control.show more

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"You can either produce excellence or you can avoid criticism. But you cannot do both of those. The reason that you don't have certain excellence that you want is because you are afraid of getting criticized. You are afraid of the judgment that comes with it. You are afraid of standing out. You are afraid of being alone. You are afraid of people looking at you. You are worried about what people think of you. There are 2 categories of things in this world: 1) Things that are up to you 2) Things that are not up to you Which category does your reputation sit in? Your reputation is not up to you. I'm the one who associates your reputation with something, not you. You just do things. What's up to you? How you act. Your decisions. Your actions. That is up to you. Your reputation is not up to you. Here's how I know that: You all have a reputation about me and it's not in my control. I get to say and do whatever I say and do up here. I am in control of saying it. I am in control of doing it. The moment words leave my lips, who has control over what is done with those words? You! You are in control of what you think of me. And there's no way everybody in this room is going to think the exact same thing about me. No way. When it comes to exceptional, what we've got to understand is you can spend your whole life trying to avoid criticism and earn reputation, and it still won't be in your control. We can waste a lot of time missing out on excellence we could have been producing if we were just simply LESS trying to engineer what we wanted other people to think about us."

"You can either produce excellence or you can avoid criticism. But you cannot do both of those. The reason that you don't have certain excellence that you want is because you are afraid of getting criticized. You are afraid of the judgment that comes with it. You are afraid of standing out. You are afraid of being alone. You are afraid of people looking at you. You are worried about what people think of you. There are 2 categories of things in this world: 1) Things that are up to you 2) Things that are not up to you Which category does your reputation sit in? Your reputation is not up to you. I'm the one who associates your reputation with something, not you. You just do things. What's up to you? How you act. Your decisions. Your actions. That is up to you. Your reputation is not up to you. Here's how I know that: You all have a reputation about me and it's not in my control. I get to say and do whatever I say and do up here. I am in control of saying it. I am in control of doing it. The moment words leave my lips, who has control over what is done with those words? You! You are in control of what you think of me. And there's no way everybody in this room is going to think the exact same thing about me. No way. When it comes to exceptional, what we've got to understand is you can spend your whole life trying to avoid criticism and earn reputation, and it still won't be in your control. We can waste a lot of time missing out on excellence we could have been producing if we were just simply LESS trying to engineer what we wanted other people to think about us."

Brian Kight

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Jordan Peterson: "If you can't fix your room, you can't fix your life" "Why should you even bother improving yourself? The answer is something like: so you don't suffer anymore stupidly than you have to. And maybe so others don't have to either. It's not some casual self-help doctrine. If you don't organize yourself properly, you'll pay for it. In a big way. And so will the people around you." Peterson continues: "You can say, 'Well, I don't care about that.' But that's actually not true, you do care about it. Because if you're in pain, you will care about it. It's very rare that you can find someone in excruciating pain who would say, 'Well, it would be no better if I was out of this.' Pain brings the idea that it would be better if it didn't exist along with it. It's incontrovertible." On how to start: "Look around for something that bothers you and see if you can fix it. You can do this in a room. Sit in your bedroom and think: 'If I wanted to spend ten minutes making this room better, what would I have to do?' You have to ask yourself that, it's a genuine question. And things will pop out. There's a stack of papers bugging you. Some rubbish behind your computer monitor you haven't attended to for six months. Cables tangled up." He explains why this matters: "If you were coming to see me for psychotherapy, the easiest thing would be to get you to organize your room. You think, is that psychotherapy? It depends on how you conceive the limits of your being. Start where you can start. If something announces itself as in need of repair that you could repair, fix it. Fix a hundred things like that, your life will be a lot different." On fixing what you repeat every day: "People tend to think of their daily routines as trivial. You get up, brush your teeth, have breakfast. Those probably constitute 50% of your life. People think, they're mundane, I don't need to pay attention to them. No, that's exactly wrong. The things you do every day are the most important things you do. Hands down. Just do the arithmetic." On staying within your competence: "Sometimes you don't know how to fix something. Imagine you're walking down the street and there's a guy who's alcoholic and schizophrenic and has been homeless for ten years. That's a problem. It would be good if you could fix it, but you haven't got a clue. You walk around that and go find something you could fix. Just because something announces itself as in need of repair doesn't mean it's you, right then and there, who should repair it. You have to have some humility. You don't walk up to a helicopter that isn't working and just start tinkering away." Peterson shares the key insight: "As soon as you give your mind a genuine aim, it'll reconfigure the world in keeping with that aim. That's actually how you see to begin with. You've all seen the video where you watch basketballs being tossed back and forth, and while you're doing that, a gorilla walks into the middle of the video and you don't see it. If you thought about that experiment for five years, that would be about the right amount of time to spend thinking about it." He explains what it reveals: "What it shows you is that you see what you aim at. If you can get one thing through your head, that would be a good one. You see what you aim at. One inference you might draw from that is: be careful what you aim at. What you aim at determines the way the world manifests itself to you. So if the world is manifesting itself in a very negative way, one thing to ask is: are you aiming at the right thing?"

Jordan Peterson: "If you can't fix your room, you can't fix your life" "Why should you even bother improving yourself? The answer is something like: so you don't suffer anymore stupidly than you have to. And maybe so others don't have to either. It's not some casual self-help doctrine. If you don't organize yourself properly, you'll pay for it. In a big way. And so will the people around you." Peterson continues: "You can say, 'Well, I don't care about that.' But that's actually not true, you do care about it. Because if you're in pain, you will care about it. It's very rare that you can find someone in excruciating pain who would say, 'Well, it would be no better if I was out of this.' Pain brings the idea that it would be better if it didn't exist along with it. It's incontrovertible." On how to start: "Look around for something that bothers you and see if you can fix it. You can do this in a room. Sit in your bedroom and think: 'If I wanted to spend ten minutes making this room better, what would I have to do?' You have to ask yourself that, it's a genuine question. And things will pop out. There's a stack of papers bugging you. Some rubbish behind your computer monitor you haven't attended to for six months. Cables tangled up." He explains why this matters: "If you were coming to see me for psychotherapy, the easiest thing would be to get you to organize your room. You think, is that psychotherapy? It depends on how you conceive the limits of your being. Start where you can start. If something announces itself as in need of repair that you could repair, fix it. Fix a hundred things like that, your life will be a lot different." On fixing what you repeat every day: "People tend to think of their daily routines as trivial. You get up, brush your teeth, have breakfast. Those probably constitute 50% of your life. People think, they're mundane, I don't need to pay attention to them. No, that's exactly wrong. The things you do every day are the most important things you do. Hands down. Just do the arithmetic." On staying within your competence: "Sometimes you don't know how to fix something. Imagine you're walking down the street and there's a guy who's alcoholic and schizophrenic and has been homeless for ten years. That's a problem. It would be good if you could fix it, but you haven't got a clue. You walk around that and go find something you could fix. Just because something announces itself as in need of repair doesn't mean it's you, right then and there, who should repair it. You have to have some humility. You don't walk up to a helicopter that isn't working and just start tinkering away." Peterson shares the key insight: "As soon as you give your mind a genuine aim, it'll reconfigure the world in keeping with that aim. That's actually how you see to begin with. You've all seen the video where you watch basketballs being tossed back and forth, and while you're doing that, a gorilla walks into the middle of the video and you don't see it. If you thought about that experiment for five years, that would be about the right amount of time to spend thinking about it." He explains what it reveals: "What it shows you is that you see what you aim at. If you can get one thing through your head, that would be a good one. You see what you aim at. One inference you might draw from that is: be careful what you aim at. What you aim at determines the way the world manifests itself to you. So if the world is manifesting itself in a very negative way, one thing to ask is: are you aiming at the right thing?"

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Jordan Peterson: "If you're competent and silent you will be ignored." "You might think well people should reward you because you're competent. And yes of course they should. But if you're competent and silent then you're just part of the background that's keeping everything functioning" On why you cannot negotiate from a position of weakness: "If you want to push your career forward you have to push it forward. You have to be competent and you have to be strategic" "To be strategic when you negotiate for a new position or a new salary you have to be able to say if you don't give me what I want then something you don't like will happen to you" "It's not a physical threat. It's that you have an option" "You have your CV in order. You're educated and competent and desirable to people outside of your immediate job. You're willing to instantly put yourself on the job market" "So that when you go talk to the person you're negotiating with you're credible" On the one thing most people completely miss about negotiation: "It's very seldom that you're talking to the person who's at the top of the pecking order. What you need to do is tell them a story that they can tell to their boss to make you not a problem" "A good story is look we really need this person because they're hyper competent and they have a better offer" "If you go in there with no power you're going to lose. Obviously" He concludes with the one thing every competent person needs to hear: "The first thing you need to know if you're going to negotiate is that you have to be able to say no. And what no means is that you're not going to do it"

Jordan Peterson: "If you're competent and silent you will be ignored." "You might think well people should reward you because you're competent. And yes of course they should. But if you're competent and silent then you're just part of the background that's keeping everything functioning" On why you cannot negotiate from a position of weakness: "If you want to push your career forward you have to push it forward. You have to be competent and you have to be strategic" "To be strategic when you negotiate for a new position or a new salary you have to be able to say if you don't give me what I want then something you don't like will happen to you" "It's not a physical threat. It's that you have an option" "You have your CV in order. You're educated and competent and desirable to people outside of your immediate job. You're willing to instantly put yourself on the job market" "So that when you go talk to the person you're negotiating with you're credible" On the one thing most people completely miss about negotiation: "It's very seldom that you're talking to the person who's at the top of the pecking order. What you need to do is tell them a story that they can tell to their boss to make you not a problem" "A good story is look we really need this person because they're hyper competent and they have a better offer" "If you go in there with no power you're going to lose. Obviously" He concludes with the one thing every competent person needs to hear: "The first thing you need to know if you're going to negotiate is that you have to be able to say no. And what no means is that you're not going to do it"

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We're being lied to, robbed blind, infiltrated, and invaded, children are being trafficked, abused, and used as blackmail tools on our own government officials and other elite individuals for control and for the lust of power itself. Remember, when all falls down, your family will probably be the only ones who are there for you, some friends too if you're lucky, but in reality, most people just want something from you and don't care at all. Appreciate the life you were given and treat others how you want to be treated. You know, deep down, something is very wrong in this world. I know you can feel it. The question is, what do you want to be remembered for? Are you going to sit around and do nothing, or are you going to stand up and speak up and make a difference? In the end, it's up to you and you alone. It's time to wake up.

We're being lied to, robbed blind, infiltrated, and invaded, children are being trafficked, abused, and used as blackmail tools on our own government officials and other elite individuals for control and for the lust of power itself. Remember, when all falls down, your family will probably be the only ones who are there for you, some friends too if you're lucky, but in reality, most people just want something from you and don't care at all. Appreciate the life you were given and treat others how you want to be treated. You know, deep down, something is very wrong in this world. I know you can feel it. The question is, what do you want to be remembered for? Are you going to sit around and do nothing, or are you going to stand up and speak up and make a difference? In the end, it's up to you and you alone. It's time to wake up.

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Jordan Peterson on why you must never give yourself an "easier" task to avoid the hard one: Peterson explains a psychological trap that almost everyone falls into when facing something difficult. "Don't practice what you do not want to become." He describes what happens inside your brain when you're avoiding a hard task: "If you're really sneaky when you're trying to do something hard, what your brain does is give you something else hard to do that's not quite as hard, so that you can feel justified in not doing the thing you're supposed to 'cause you're doing something else useful." This is the trap. You feel productive. You're busy. But you're not doing the thing. And every time you give in, you make it worse: "If you give into that temptation which you often will, then it wins. And because it wins, it gets a little dopamine kick and it grows stronger. Anything you let win the internal argument grows. And anything you let be defeated shrinks, because it's punished." This is Peterson describing neurology: "Those are neurological circuits. You build those things in there. They're not going anywhere. You can build another little machine to inhibit them. That's the best you can do. Once they're in there, you can't get them out." Even the circuits you build to resist the bad habit aren't permanent: "The ones you build to inhibit can be taken out by stress and the old habits will come back up." So what's the actual lesson? Every time you dodge the hard thing, you're casting a vote for the version of yourself that avoids hard things. You're wiring that pattern deeper into your brain.

Jordan Peterson on why you must never give yourself an "easier" task to avoid the hard one: Peterson explains a psychological trap that almost everyone falls into when facing something difficult. "Don't practice what you do not want to become." He describes what happens inside your brain when you're avoiding a hard task: "If you're really sneaky when you're trying to do something hard, what your brain does is give you something else hard to do that's not quite as hard, so that you can feel justified in not doing the thing you're supposed to 'cause you're doing something else useful." This is the trap. You feel productive. You're busy. But you're not doing the thing. And every time you give in, you make it worse: "If you give into that temptation which you often will, then it wins. And because it wins, it gets a little dopamine kick and it grows stronger. Anything you let win the internal argument grows. And anything you let be defeated shrinks, because it's punished." This is Peterson describing neurology: "Those are neurological circuits. You build those things in there. They're not going anywhere. You can build another little machine to inhibit them. That's the best you can do. Once they're in there, you can't get them out." Even the circuits you build to resist the bad habit aren't permanent: "The ones you build to inhibit can be taken out by stress and the old habits will come back up." So what's the actual lesson? Every time you dodge the hard thing, you're casting a vote for the version of yourself that avoids hard things. You're wiring that pattern deeper into your brain.

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Garry Nolan says there are more groups doing what skywatcher is doing right now “we know how to call them” “Skywatcher is one group of several that I'm aware of that are doing it independently.” Source -Sol Foundation 🔗 in comments Garry -“The, the information's out there, we, you know, it's already pretty well understood. I mean, look, there's been enough whistleblower types where the information of how to do this has leaked out. You know, we know how to call them. Whether you believe in psionics or not, it seems to be part of the process. So we know how to call them. The question is not can you video them? Skywatcher has already shown that you can video them and there'll be more of that kind of stuff, I think coming in the future, you know, so Skywatcher is one group of several that I'm aware of that are doing it independently. So that's citizen science. I mean, I think the answer is you don't wait for the government to do it, for you. Don't wait for daddy or mommy to tell you what's going on. You just do it yourself. Because as long as you're not going out there with, with guns or energy, weapons, trying to pull something down and, you know, get yourself in a bad situation, there's no reason people can't do it themselves and organize. So, you know, that's, that I think is the threat in a way that one needs to use against the governmental authorities who think that they hold all the, all the, all the marbles at this point, they don't anymore because the people who've been in the program, like Jake and others who've, you know, made that statement publicly, have basically made their knowledge and ability public. So do it.”

Garry Nolan says there are more groups doing what skywatcher is doing right now “we know how to call them” “Skywatcher is one group of several that I'm aware of that are doing it independently.” Source -Sol Foundation 🔗 in comments Garry -“The, the information's out there, we, you know, it's already pretty well understood. I mean, look, there's been enough whistleblower types where the information of how to do this has leaked out. You know, we know how to call them. Whether you believe in psionics or not, it seems to be part of the process. So we know how to call them. The question is not can you video them? Skywatcher has already shown that you can video them and there'll be more of that kind of stuff, I think coming in the future, you know, so Skywatcher is one group of several that I'm aware of that are doing it independently. So that's citizen science. I mean, I think the answer is you don't wait for the government to do it, for you. Don't wait for daddy or mommy to tell you what's going on. You just do it yourself. Because as long as you're not going out there with, with guns or energy, weapons, trying to pull something down and, you know, get yourself in a bad situation, there's no reason people can't do it themselves and organize. So, you know, that's, that I think is the threat in a way that one needs to use against the governmental authorities who think that they hold all the, all the, all the marbles at this point, they don't anymore because the people who've been in the program, like Jake and others who've, you know, made that statement publicly, have basically made their knowledge and ability public. So do it.”

neandrewthal

74,654 次观看 • 1 年前

Americans are coming to the ultimate realization. After the assassination of Charlie Kirk, we can no longer coexist with the Left “The more and more I see today, the more pissed off I get, and the more I see that there's no peaceful way to fix this. I've tried to think of any way that I could, and there's not. You guys created something that you don't understand. When you sit out here and celebrate the death of someone, the assassination of someone, that shows me that you are so far gone that we can't be peaceful with you anymore. And that breaks my heart. Because the thing you idiots never understood is the most dangerous thing is a man that just wanted to be left the f*ck alone. And you wouldn't leave us the f*ck alone. So we're at a point now that it's either time for all of you to sit down and shut up. Or you're going to experience something that you will never be able to fathom. The sh*t that's coming your way, it's not going to be what you think it is. This is not something that you can win. This will be one-sided and you don't have a prayer.”

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Matt Painter shares the mindset shift that transformed his players and his coaches. And it's simpler than you think. "You're really gonna take off as a player once you start getting over yourself. But you're really gonna take off as a coach when you get over yourself." "That's just kinda part of where it's really helped me here in the last 8 to 10 years at Purdue. Get over yourself." Ryan Holiday says it best: Ego is the enemy. "Any human being is going to be affected when people say negative things about you when you struggle. You're not human if you disagree with that." But here's the key: "I listen to it, but I don't react to it." There will always be praise and criticism. You can listen, but it doesn't mean you have to react. The doubters will talk and the negativity will find you - but your goal is to focus on what matters. Acknowledge it without letting it control you. (🎥 Ed Molitor)

Matt Painter shares the mindset shift that transformed his players and his coaches. And it's simpler than you think. "You're really gonna take off as a player once you start getting over yourself. But you're really gonna take off as a coach when you get over yourself." "That's just kinda part of where it's really helped me here in the last 8 to 10 years at Purdue. Get over yourself." Ryan Holiday says it best: Ego is the enemy. "Any human being is going to be affected when people say negative things about you when you struggle. You're not human if you disagree with that." But here's the key: "I listen to it, but I don't react to it." There will always be praise and criticism. You can listen, but it doesn't mean you have to react. The doubters will talk and the negativity will find you - but your goal is to focus on what matters. Acknowledge it without letting it control you. (🎥 Ed Molitor)

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Jordan Peterson breaks down how to shut off social anxiety the moment you walk in: "You go to a party, your heart's beating. Why? The party is a monster. Why? Because it's judging you. It's putting you low down the dominance hierarchy, because that's what a negative judgment is" "That interferes with your sexual success, and that means you're being harshly evaluated by nature itself. So you're confronting the dragon of chaos when you go into the social situation" "And what do you do? You hunch over, and that's low dominance. I'm no threat. Well, that's not going to get you very far. But it's a logical thing to do in the face of a tyrant. You look at the king and you're dead. I'm no threat, I'm hunched over" "And then what's happening internally? What are people thinking about me? Am I looking stupid? Am I looking foolish? I'm awkward. I hate being here. I'm sweating too much. It's all internalized, it's all self-focused" "You can't tell someone to stop thinking about something, because they get caught in the loop. It's like don't think of a white elephant. White elephant, white elephant, white elephant" "What you do with socially anxious people is you say, look at other people. Look at them. Because if you look at them, you can tell what they're thinking" "If you're ever speaking to a group of people, never speak to the group of people. That doesn't exist. You talk to individuals, and then they reflect for you the entire group, because they're all entrained. You look at one person and they broadcast you everyone's thinking" "As soon as you focus on the person, not you, you push your attention outward and you start watching. Well then all your automatic mechanisms kick in and you stop being awkward" "If we're talking and I'm looking over here, I don't know what you're going to do next, and I'm going to put disjunctions in, like bad chords in the melody of our conversation. And the reason is I'm not paying attention" "That's why the eye is the thing at the top of the pyramid. It's the thing that enables you to win the set of all possible dominance hierarchies"

Jordan Peterson breaks down how to shut off social anxiety the moment you walk in: "You go to a party, your heart's beating. Why? The party is a monster. Why? Because it's judging you. It's putting you low down the dominance hierarchy, because that's what a negative judgment is" "That interferes with your sexual success, and that means you're being harshly evaluated by nature itself. So you're confronting the dragon of chaos when you go into the social situation" "And what do you do? You hunch over, and that's low dominance. I'm no threat. Well, that's not going to get you very far. But it's a logical thing to do in the face of a tyrant. You look at the king and you're dead. I'm no threat, I'm hunched over" "And then what's happening internally? What are people thinking about me? Am I looking stupid? Am I looking foolish? I'm awkward. I hate being here. I'm sweating too much. It's all internalized, it's all self-focused" "You can't tell someone to stop thinking about something, because they get caught in the loop. It's like don't think of a white elephant. White elephant, white elephant, white elephant" "What you do with socially anxious people is you say, look at other people. Look at them. Because if you look at them, you can tell what they're thinking" "If you're ever speaking to a group of people, never speak to the group of people. That doesn't exist. You talk to individuals, and then they reflect for you the entire group, because they're all entrained. You look at one person and they broadcast you everyone's thinking" "As soon as you focus on the person, not you, you push your attention outward and you start watching. Well then all your automatic mechanisms kick in and you stop being awkward" "If we're talking and I'm looking over here, I don't know what you're going to do next, and I'm going to put disjunctions in, like bad chords in the melody of our conversation. And the reason is I'm not paying attention" "That's why the eye is the thing at the top of the pyramid. It's the thing that enables you to win the set of all possible dominance hierarchies"

Johan

247,498 次观看 • 24 天前

The second part of my album “Idols”, “Idols II” is OUT NOW. Watch the lyric video for “Suburban Requiem” here. Don’t forget to live. - Slow down, you mad enough to have it figured out? Longing for that stale ambition Looking to be found Everybody knows they're special 'til they look around Have you closed your eyes lately? Listened to the sounds Don't hide Don't fight it Don't cry No lying Don't hide Don't fight it You know I'm gonna be right here next to you In all the places that you go In the sunlight and the snow You know I'm gonna be right here next to you In every dream you try to be Every time you don't believe You know I'm gonna be right here next to you It's a suburban requiem so stick around And you'll begin to feel yourself lift off the ground When you were small they called you useless They took the laces from your shoes You never learned quite how to process You saw their pain and felt confused But give it time When you feel yourself about to lose control Give it time Feel yourself lifting off the floor Don't hide Don't fight it Don't cry No lying Don't hide Don't fight it You know I'm gonna be right here next to you It's a suburban requiem so stick around (Don't come down, don't come down) And you'll begin to feel yourself lift off the ground (Don't come down, don't come down)

The second part of my album “Idols”, “Idols II” is OUT NOW. Watch the lyric video for “Suburban Requiem” here. Don’t forget to live. - Slow down, you mad enough to have it figured out? Longing for that stale ambition Looking to be found Everybody knows they're special 'til they look around Have you closed your eyes lately? Listened to the sounds Don't hide Don't fight it Don't cry No lying Don't hide Don't fight it You know I'm gonna be right here next to you In all the places that you go In the sunlight and the snow You know I'm gonna be right here next to you In every dream you try to be Every time you don't believe You know I'm gonna be right here next to you It's a suburban requiem so stick around And you'll begin to feel yourself lift off the ground When you were small they called you useless They took the laces from your shoes You never learned quite how to process You saw their pain and felt confused But give it time When you feel yourself about to lose control Give it time Feel yourself lifting off the floor Don't hide Don't fight it Don't cry No lying Don't hide Don't fight it You know I'm gonna be right here next to you It's a suburban requiem so stick around (Don't come down, don't come down) And you'll begin to feel yourself lift off the ground (Don't come down, don't come down)

YUNGBLUD

39,273 次观看 • 5 个月前

This is tragic and it's what you get when you tell women they're a 10 just the way they are. Guys won't tell you what's wrong, they just respond to what you are. If you're not working to be what they want (in this case you need to lose weight) they see you as recreational use only. Both sides are selfish. Your choices tell them you're not working to be what they want so they just look to get what they want. You can be as careful as you want, raise your standards as much as you want, but if you don't work to be what men want, you won't get what you want. It's as simple as that. Be what the other sex wants and you'll get what you want. Be delusional and you'll keep getting bad results. Our society has forgotten how to be giving. That's what this really is. Selfish vs selfless. Being selfless takes work and self control.

This is tragic and it's what you get when you tell women they're a 10 just the way they are. Guys won't tell you what's wrong, they just respond to what you are. If you're not working to be what they want (in this case you need to lose weight) they see you as recreational use only. Both sides are selfish. Your choices tell them you're not working to be what they want so they just look to get what they want. You can be as careful as you want, raise your standards as much as you want, but if you don't work to be what men want, you won't get what you want. It's as simple as that. Be what the other sex wants and you'll get what you want. Be delusional and you'll keep getting bad results. Our society has forgotten how to be giving. That's what this really is. Selfish vs selfless. Being selfless takes work and self control.

The Last Boy Scout

175,507 次观看 • 13 天前

🦋 you're going through a difficult time? you know, i think there's really this thing where, when something is hard, it really is hard... really hard. but i don't think you should allow yourself to get too stuck in it. i can comfort you through the difficult time, and there's so much people around you who can comfort you too. so don't think you're alone through it and don't dwell in it too much. after all, you were born so precious and beautiful, right?

🦋 you're going through a difficult time? you know, i think there's really this thing where, when something is hard, it really is hard... really hard. but i don't think you should allow yourself to get too stuck in it. i can comfort you through the difficult time, and there's so much people around you who can comfort you too. so don't think you're alone through it and don't dwell in it too much. after all, you were born so precious and beautiful, right?

키위

32,267 次观看 • 1 年前

Jordan Peterson had a client who couldn’t have coffee with him. Very introverted. Very badly served by her parents. Not well socialized. Extremely socially anxious. Awkward in her interactions. Now she does public appearances on stage. He spent 2 minutes explaining what changed: "Get the hell out there and practice, man." "Go to Toastmasters. Do some public speaking. Join meetup(.com)." Here's the counterintuitive part: "Don't try to stop being nervous. Because that isn't gonna work." "What you have to do is start paying more attention to the other person." "Force your attention outward." When you're nervous, your instinct is to think about yourself. "You get self-conscious. You start thinking about yourself and how stupid you are." "That's a really bad idea." "You should be paying attention to the other person." Here's what to do instead: "Ask people questions. Listen to them. When they say something interesting or something you don't understand, ask them a question." "People love that, man. Because they know you're listening to them." "And people love being listened to." "So if you're nervous, learn to listen better. Learn to ask questions." On asking "stupid" questions: "There's no stupid questions if you're paying attention." "If you don't know something and you ask an honest question and someone treats you badly because of it, you should just go away from that person." "Because they don't have a clue." Here's the summary: "Get out there. Forget about trying to not be nervous. Because you're gonna be nervous." "But when you're nervous, pay more attention to other people. Listen to them carefully. Watch them." "Your natural social abilities will kick in." "Ask them questions." On timeline: "Assume it'll take you three or four years to get decently good at it." "And that you really have to work at it." "But it's worth it, man." "Just go out there and do it. You'll figure it out."

Jordan Peterson had a client who couldn’t have coffee with him. Very introverted. Very badly served by her parents. Not well socialized. Extremely socially anxious. Awkward in her interactions. Now she does public appearances on stage. He spent 2 minutes explaining what changed: "Get the hell out there and practice, man." "Go to Toastmasters. Do some public speaking. Join meetup(.com)." Here's the counterintuitive part: "Don't try to stop being nervous. Because that isn't gonna work." "What you have to do is start paying more attention to the other person." "Force your attention outward." When you're nervous, your instinct is to think about yourself. "You get self-conscious. You start thinking about yourself and how stupid you are." "That's a really bad idea." "You should be paying attention to the other person." Here's what to do instead: "Ask people questions. Listen to them. When they say something interesting or something you don't understand, ask them a question." "People love that, man. Because they know you're listening to them." "And people love being listened to." "So if you're nervous, learn to listen better. Learn to ask questions." On asking "stupid" questions: "There's no stupid questions if you're paying attention." "If you don't know something and you ask an honest question and someone treats you badly because of it, you should just go away from that person." "Because they don't have a clue." Here's the summary: "Get out there. Forget about trying to not be nervous. Because you're gonna be nervous." "But when you're nervous, pay more attention to other people. Listen to them carefully. Watch them." "Your natural social abilities will kick in." "Ask them questions." On timeline: "Assume it'll take you three or four years to get decently good at it." "And that you really have to work at it." "But it's worth it, man." "Just go out there and do it. You'll figure it out."

Jaynit

323,221 次观看 • 3 个月前

"Ever wonder why... the school systems don't teach any real life skills anymore?" "Because the moment a man becomes self-reliant, the system loses control." "They don't want you to know how to survive without them. They want you dependent. They want you obedient. They want you to be reliant on the government. And so they teach kids how to comply, not how to think." "Self-reliance is dangerous to the people who crave power, because once you can feed yourself, once you can defend yourself, once you can think for yourself, they can't control you anymore." "That's why they vilify independence, because the system doesn't fear rebellion—it fears men who no longer need it." "The strongest rebellion left in the world is a man who refuses to depend on a system that's trying to enslave him." 🎯

"Ever wonder why... the school systems don't teach any real life skills anymore?" "Because the moment a man becomes self-reliant, the system loses control." "They don't want you to know how to survive without them. They want you dependent. They want you obedient. They want you to be reliant on the government. And so they teach kids how to comply, not how to think." "Self-reliance is dangerous to the people who crave power, because once you can feed yourself, once you can defend yourself, once you can think for yourself, they can't control you anymore." "That's why they vilify independence, because the system doesn't fear rebellion—it fears men who no longer need it." "The strongest rebellion left in the world is a man who refuses to depend on a system that's trying to enslave him." 🎯

Died Suddenly

11,392 次观看 • 8 个月前

"Ever wonder why... the school systems don't teach any real life skills anymore?" "Because the moment a man becomes self-reliant, the system loses control." "They don't want you to know how to survive without them. They want you dependent. They want you obedient. They want you to be reliant on the government. And so they teach kids how to comply, not how to think." "Self-reliance is dangerous to the people who crave power, because once you can feed yourself, once you can defend yourself, once you can think for yourself, they can't control you anymore." "That's why they vilify independence, because the system doesn't fear rebellion—it fears men who no longer need it." "The strongest rebellion left in the world is a man who refuses to depend on a system that's trying to enslave him." 🎯

"Ever wonder why... the school systems don't teach any real life skills anymore?" "Because the moment a man becomes self-reliant, the system loses control." "They don't want you to know how to survive without them. They want you dependent. They want you obedient. They want you to be reliant on the government. And so they teach kids how to comply, not how to think." "Self-reliance is dangerous to the people who crave power, because once you can feed yourself, once you can defend yourself, once you can think for yourself, they can't control you anymore." "That's why they vilify independence, because the system doesn't fear rebellion—it fears men who no longer need it." "The strongest rebellion left in the world is a man who refuses to depend on a system that's trying to enslave him." 🎯

Wide Awake Media

44,486 次观看 • 8 个月前

Qullamaggie on Discipline vs. Confidence in Trading "It's not a discipline problem; it's a confidence problem, guys. Discipline is the most overused word in trading. It's never a discipline problem; it's a confidence problem because you haven't put in enough effort to build your confidence. If you study enough, you will build confidence. How many of you have spent 500 hours studying one specific setup, like thousands of historical examples? Be honest; there's maybe I don't know 5% of you. The rest of you haven't put in any effort to build confidence, and that's why these things happen. You have no confidence holding for a big move. You get shaken out on one downtick. You have no confidence because you haven't built it. Most people do all they do is put on some random trades because they haven't internalized the setups yet, and that’s why they all do these random things. They promise to use the 10-day moving average as a trailing stop, then one downtick happens and they're out. We see it daily; people who are struggling to follow the rules. It happens to me too, but it happens less. You got to do both; you got to study hard. You got to out study most people, and you got to combine it with experience.”

Qullamaggie on Discipline vs. Confidence in Trading "It's not a discipline problem; it's a confidence problem, guys. Discipline is the most overused word in trading. It's never a discipline problem; it's a confidence problem because you haven't put in enough effort to build your confidence. If you study enough, you will build confidence. How many of you have spent 500 hours studying one specific setup, like thousands of historical examples? Be honest; there's maybe I don't know 5% of you. The rest of you haven't put in any effort to build confidence, and that's why these things happen. You have no confidence holding for a big move. You get shaken out on one downtick. You have no confidence because you haven't built it. Most people do all they do is put on some random trades because they haven't internalized the setups yet, and that’s why they all do these random things. They promise to use the 10-day moving average as a trailing stop, then one downtick happens and they're out. We see it daily; people who are struggling to follow the rules. It happens to me too, but it happens less. You got to do both; you got to study hard. You got to out study most people, and you got to combine it with experience.”

Lone

20,681 次观看 • 1 年前

$I hear so often from the Dommes I work with that they struggle with people online fetichizing them and simply seeing them for how sexy and beautiful they are. They project their fantasies and their desires onto you. That stops immediately once you move the attention from you to them. From 'look at me' to 'I see you'. What does that look like? When you create content, think of them and what this scene or that narrative is evoking. What will they learn from you? What they want is not to passively watch how sexy you are, but for you to train them, to give them instructions, to teach them, to guide them, to be in charge, to command them. This is not being an object but the main subject. The Authority figure. How is your content already doing that. The sexy photos can still be there, they are important to already capture des attention. But what you do with that attention once you have it, is where the power dynamic is established. Positioning yourself as more than a stunning Goddess, but actually a woman who has a voice, opinions, perspective, a philosophy, a way to doing things, teaching them what you like, how you like it, why you like it, already makes them want to be that for you. You hold the attention, you hold the power, so you direct it. And for that, you want them to know you get them and you know what lives within them... that creates the desire for you to be the one exposing it. You instantly build trust. Not because you demanded it, but because you earned it: you showed them you know what you are doing. You have experience, you understand them. They are not told to come see you, they are seduced into it. They desire it. And they will work for it. This will attract better clients (real subs) and instead of you trying to get their attention, they will work to earn yours. If you want to learn more about power dynamics, building a brand as a Pro or the psychology behind BDSM, you can now access all my trainings and classes in one place for a fraction of the cost of The Dominatrix Academy. And you can reinvest the total amount towards the Program. Message me [SECRET] for the details. This offer is not available on my website.$

I hear so often from the Dommes I work with that they struggle with people online fetichizing them and simply seeing them for how sexy and beautiful they are. They project their fantasies and their desires onto you. That stops immediately once you move the attention from you to them. From 'look at me' to 'I see you'. What does that look like? When you create content, think of them and what this scene or that narrative is evoking. What will they learn from you? What they want is not to passively watch how sexy you are, but for you to train them, to give them instructions, to teach them, to guide them, to be in charge, to command them. This is not being an object but the main subject. The Authority figure. How is your content already doing that. The sexy photos can still be there, they are important to already capture des attention. But what you do with that attention once you have it, is where the power dynamic is established. Positioning yourself as more than a stunning Goddess, but actually a woman who has a voice, opinions, perspective, a philosophy, a way to doing things, teaching them what you like, how you like it, why you like it, already makes them want to be that for you. You hold the attention, you hold the power, so you direct it. And for that, you want them to know you get them and you know what lives within them... that creates the desire for you to be the one exposing it. You instantly build trust. Not because you demanded it, but because you earned it: you showed them you know what you are doing. You have experience, you understand them. They are not told to come see you, they are seduced into it. They desire it. And they will work for it. This will attract better clients (real subs) and instead of you trying to get their attention, they will work to earn yours. If you want to learn more about power dynamics, building a brand as a Pro or the psychology behind BDSM, you can now access all my trainings and classes in one place for a fraction of the cost of The Dominatrix Academy. And you can reinvest the total amount towards the Program. Message me [SECRET] for the details. This offer is not available on my website.

Ms. Malissia

16,120 次观看 • 3 个月前

Rod Brind'Amour shares the one question every competitor and great teammate needs to ask themselves. "You just gotta ask yourself one question all the time - are you doing your part?" "Whatever it is. It's not going right. Okay. Are you doing everything you can every day to make it right?" "If the answer is yes - stick with it. Then stick with it. It'll either turn or it won't. But you can at least know there's nothing more you can do. Feel good about that." It's about giving your best all the time. Then he made it personal: "Are you doing everything you can to be the best player you can be?" "You'll know if you're not." That's the question. Simple. Honest. And no hiding from it. You can't control the outcome. You can only control the effort and how you show up. (🎥 The Grind Performance Podcast )

Rod Brind'Amour shares the one question every competitor and great teammate needs to ask themselves. "You just gotta ask yourself one question all the time - are you doing your part?" "Whatever it is. It's not going right. Okay. Are you doing everything you can every day to make it right?" "If the answer is yes - stick with it. Then stick with it. It'll either turn or it won't. But you can at least know there's nothing more you can do. Feel good about that." It's about giving your best all the time. Then he made it personal: "Are you doing everything you can to be the best player you can be?" "You'll know if you're not." That's the question. Simple. Honest. And no hiding from it. You can't control the outcome. You can only control the effort and how you show up. (🎥 The Grind Performance Podcast )

Coach AJ 🎯 Mental Fitness

91,436 次观看 • 2 个月前

Tony Robbins on the three questions that reveal why you're unhappy: "People don't experience life, they experience the life they focus on. If you're happy, you are deleting all the things you could be pissed off about. If you're unhappy, you're deleting all the things that are great in your life. Our brains delete and distort and generalize, so if you don't direct it, you get whatever shows up" "What's wrong is always available. What's right is also available. It's just which one you pick. And it isn't about positive thinking. I've never been into positive thinking. I believe in intelligence, because when you're in a lousy state of mind, you treat people poorly, you don't perform, you're not happy" "There are three decisions you're making every moment of your life. The first one is what are you going to focus on. If you're supposed to meet someone at 7 o'clock and it's 7:30 and they haven't called, some people are pissed off, some people are worried. It's the same event. Whether you're angry or worried had nothing to do with the event, it's the habits of your mind" "Do you tend to focus more on what you have or what's missing? Do you focus more on what you can control or what you can't? Do you focus more on the past, the present, or the future?" "If you constantly look at what's missing, it's hard to ever stay fulfilled. If you focus on what you can't control, you're overwhelmed and stressed. And if you focus on the past, which you can't change, that makes you angry or sad or frustrated. If you focus on what you have, you're going to be more fulfilled" "Instead of saying I want a New Year's resolution, another rule for myself, I need to change the ruler. A lot of times we don't even see that we're the ruler"

Tony Robbins on the three questions that reveal why you're unhappy: "People don't experience life, they experience the life they focus on. If you're happy, you are deleting all the things you could be pissed off about. If you're unhappy, you're deleting all the things that are great in your life. Our brains delete and distort and generalize, so if you don't direct it, you get whatever shows up" "What's wrong is always available. What's right is also available. It's just which one you pick. And it isn't about positive thinking. I've never been into positive thinking. I believe in intelligence, because when you're in a lousy state of mind, you treat people poorly, you don't perform, you're not happy" "There are three decisions you're making every moment of your life. The first one is what are you going to focus on. If you're supposed to meet someone at 7 o'clock and it's 7:30 and they haven't called, some people are pissed off, some people are worried. It's the same event. Whether you're angry or worried had nothing to do with the event, it's the habits of your mind" "Do you tend to focus more on what you have or what's missing? Do you focus more on what you can control or what you can't? Do you focus more on the past, the present, or the future?" "If you constantly look at what's missing, it's hard to ever stay fulfilled. If you focus on what you can't control, you're overwhelmed and stressed. And if you focus on the past, which you can't change, that makes you angry or sad or frustrated. If you focus on what you have, you're going to be more fulfilled" "Instead of saying I want a New Year's resolution, another rule for myself, I need to change the ruler. A lot of times we don't even see that we're the ruler"

Jaynit

275,267 次观看 • 18 天前