Ladies come this side

My sister I’m not here to judge you, but truly speaking you have a man that respects & values women, my advice to you keep this man & cherish him 🙌🏼

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He's a good man and making a valid point.... But would have been better if he told you and not find out by yourself... If he told you/ transparent about it, then I don't see anything wrong. He's a good man

Smart move, in the end, the lady will enjoy life without any baby mama drama and the child will not fight with siblings in the new marriage for inheritance. The father is creating independencey on babay mama and the child.

The only mistake the guy did was not being transparent about the things he’s doing for his baby mama. His points are valid even though his reality is a hard pill to swallow

This is simple, she can just reverse the rolas and think of herself a baby mama. Wouldn't she want that for herself? Futhi iphi i baby daddy yakhe yena and yenzani yona?

Your boyfriend should just stay with his baby mama n stop wasting people's time

If you agree that he pays lobola, you're potentially in a polygamous customary marriage, jiki jiki he will pay lobola for her as well, last but not list they were never separated hence hs paying for the upkeep of both the kid and mom. If you stay you do so out of your own risk

Why is this an issue for her? How is it affecting her? Why does it bother her? Is it chowing into her girlfriend allowance?

it doesnt makes sense on who's money? and he is right, i stand with him so if you feel somehow FOTSEK wena.

He should cancel if you don’t understand this simple math. The results of what he is doing is a better life for his child and peace of mind for you and him in the future when baby mama is able to contribute to their child’s upbringing.