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My 18mo’s inner teacher is apparently telling him “Jump down in a way that risks a fall.” He does this even when he knows how to get down 100% safely. He *seeks* this specific risk. He injures himself often (never seriously). This does not deter him; he tries again...

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Matt Bateman2 years ago

As you may know I have a high tolerance for non-intervention in these sorts of cases, and child #1 also practiced falling. I let #2 push explore boundaries of as much if not more, but I find myself intervening more with him right now out of necessity.

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Matt Bateman2 years ago

(And yes he knows how to sit down on a slide, he mastered that months ago and is doing this very much on purpose)

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Matt Bateman2 years ago

And yeah this is spongy playground flooring not hardtop

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Matt Bateman2 years ago

50% of you are convinced I’m deliberately giving CTE to an autistic child with undiagnosed depth perception failure to farm twitter likes, and 50% of you are convinced I’m superfathering the next Alex Honnold/Tony Hawk/Steve Jobs The boring truths: * the editing compresses 4 falls across 2 days into 30 seconds; he is not falling 24/7, and is in fact often cautious * this behavior isn’t all that unusual, but it’s often prevented, which makes it harder to notice * I do tend to notice these things and find them interesting * I think independent risk-taking is important, but I do get my judgment of appropriate guardrails wrong sometimes

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Cloudy 🌥️ (estrogen angel)2 years ago

just one of these tumbles would take out the current President of the United States

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Arielif2 years ago

That is adorable but your kid should be studied as an example of natural selection not working on humans lol

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Matt Bateman2 years ago

Generally true of my childhood also

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light2 years ago

Get him a skateboard asap

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kasey2 years ago

as I believe the child psychologists say, he got that dawg in him

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MommyDearest2 years ago

Clever kid. On the surface, it looks like he's trying to harm himself, but in reality he is slowly taking years off his mother's life. #BoyMom

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Matt Bateman2 years ago

lol @Gena_I_Gorlin

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