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Object permanence is the understanding that things continue to exist, even when they can’t be seen. And it’s not an understanding your baby comes equipped with. Indeed, during the earliest months of life, if you remove a toy - for example - from your baby’s line of sight you’ll...

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j_real1 год назад

Can confirm that by 2 years of age, if I remove—for example—a box of mini muffins with chocolate chips from my daughter’s line of sight, she will NEVER forget their existence.

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Dan Wuori1 год назад

It’s funny how that works. Object permanence can be especially powerful for chocolate. 😀

Фото профиля Justme ☮️
Justme ☮️1 год назад

@JanaB5555 Well with the hell scape we’re living through this made my morning a bit more tolerable.

Фото профиля ꧁𝒱𝒾𝒸𝓀𝓎 ꧂
꧁𝒱𝒾𝒸𝓀𝓎 ꧂1 год назад

Wonder if that was when my momma got me one of my vaccines...I have horrible out of sight out of minds.

Фото профиля 🦖💜🤍💚Gargoyle of Beelzebub💚🤍💜🦖
🦖💜🤍💚Gargoyle of Beelzebub💚🤍💜🦖1 год назад

That's why playing peekaboo is necessary.

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🟦 Patrick Towey, Not A Right-Wing Nutjob1 год назад

Aw he looked to his crib, where the toy usually is (probably). Smart!

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TexasAllianceforLife2 лет назад

When TAL Public Policy Analyst Deirdre Cooper's unborn child was diagnosed with Trisomy 18, she never questioned whether to move forward with the pregnancy & birth. As she says, life is always the compassionate answer, even for the hard cases. Hear her & Bosco's full story here.

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