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The greatest love is being responsible for the person you profess to love - Seun kuti

Too many people don't know what they have until they lose it

Emotional and romantic availability matters, just that most expectations today are shaped by scripted, edited social media contents that’s the problem.

This video reminds me of my ex and how I gave her stability, and how it was evident that she would end up as my wife. Every girl that came around me knew she was the one, and they all left me alone, as expected. I was there for her in all aspects except that I was not financially buoyant enough to take her on fancy dates regularly or get her Valentine gifts and all that materialistic "romantic" stuff (I know this because she told me prior to the breakup). The first thing she did was convince herself that I didn't love her (I made a post about compromise and love on my WhatsApp, and she replied, "I know I am not the love of your life"). She focused on the things I didn't do and ignored everything I did, just to play the "you are not doing enough" antics on me. She then played the religion card as the final one to end things. I didn't even try to explain because I knew I had given my best at that time. The funnier thing is, she ended things when I brought up the topic of marriage casually: "You will get married to me." "Who told you I will marry you?" And the religious excuse followed, lol. Sometimes, I think about the thought process that influenced that decision, and it makes me marvel at how the minds of women work. It's all "if you give a woman reassurance, she won't leave," but this one convinced herself that my reassurance was fake, even though all prior actions suggested otherwise. That experience taught me a valuable lesson about women, and I realized that all women are the same in that aspect, because I would have sworn that this was a very good and understanding woman. But you see, when someone doesn't believe in you well enough to stay, they will hold onto the flimsiest excuse to leave. Which brings me to my conclusion: if you are convinced you are doing right by someone, and they believe it is not enough for them to stay, never try to convince them. Let them leave without making a single effort to make them stay, like I did. Prioritize yourself, do your best for your partner and people, and if they say your best is not enough, leave them be. Life is good.

Omo this one deep ohhhh suen dealer really try ordinary eyes no fit reason this thing 😂

We define love by frivolities, fleeting sparks, grand gestures, whispered promises in candlelight. Instead of the quiet endurance that truly holds it together, the steady presence in silence, the choice to stay through storms, the forgiveness offered without tally, and the daily act of seeing another, truly seeing, even when the thrill has faded. Love is not the fireworks rather, it is the hearth that keeps burning long after the show is over.

He’s speaking nothing but facts. Love this days its all about what you didn’t do as a man which are not important most of the time rather than what you do

Reminds me of this video

Seun Kuti is always spot on and I wonder why people don’t see that in him.

Love = Provision, protection, responsibility, respect and trust.

I’ve said this over and over, and every time women lose their minds. I provide food, shelter, and clothing. I make sure you’re not homeless or starving. Yet somehow the real issue is that I didn’t buy a fucking flower or hold your hand in public. What makes it worse is that women copy this nonsense from other women and then expect their husbands to perform like what they see online or in other people’s marriages. If a man doesn’t play along, he’s instantly labeled a bad man. Very ungrateful being.

A girl will blatantly tell you NO because you do not go on your knees to propose to her, doesn't matter how much you have spent on her. It can't be me sha, because I don't like stress. Any small stress like this, I don dey lose interest.

Women love fairy tales that is why pastor scam them, they love to feed their emotions

An average woman does not have sense. I'm not even joking about it right now. I am saying this based on experience. I am honest about this Women must be managed by their men because the only thing they are good mainly at is making terrible decisions I promise I mean this 🙏

Even if you do as they desire, they will still look for something else you haven't done. And if you do again, they will say: you are to perfect like Kakà. Economists says, women wants are insatiable..✓ Know that and be free...!

Seun did a good job with this one. 💯 he didn't miss the point. I hope married women would watch this and appreciate the men in their lives.

I sat a friend down and explained, in part, what a man’s life feels like. I ended by saying: don’t go into marriage with an ungrateful woman. I bet the number of men who went out of their way to make family and friends happy this Christmas, only for it to go unappreciated, is not small. What about those who didn’t receive any gift at all, or those who were told what they bought was “little,” when it was everything they had?

It's very simple. Understand what loves means to your partner and stop doing things that means love to you and not them. Learn your partner's love language shikina.

Na why all those roses and bouquet shit dey performative to me. The real love is to serve, protect and provide. On a deeper level, it means being responsible for that special person.

E get watin you go do for woman wey their 100% go take dey stable for you lol, when love dey starting stage the % is 100 gradually e go dey dim 🔅 forget say fine, money dey, everywhere good lol, watin that gender dey carry for head dey confuse them 😂

Many women are easily pressured by what they see in the society or from movies, they automatically create fantasies in their head, know fully well funds for that isn't available at the time, thereby putting unnecessary pressure on their spouse.

I speak for all Nigerians when I say, this is the wisest man alive

Once you Dey do your responsibilities as a man and be faithful to me , you are a good man. Other things are secondary

Nigerian men go like this one egbon. Them no go understand wetin yoy de really talk. I de always spell all these things out, if you say I no love you because I no act like oyibo, my dear, you go gat find oyibo man make them love you. I no like stress.

I dey my best but one witch save I no recognize her love language Abeg weatin be ur love language, she said Arabian roses 🤣🤣 Me wea Neva see Nigeria roses or Ghanian roses you dey talk about Arabian 😒. Arabian ko Asian ni

See ehn; our psyche as black people need factory reset. Our emotional quotient is one of the lowest on the planet. We lack empathy, we lack compassion or even sympathy. All we want and crave is a Benz, house etc for our damaged classist mentality.

If una reason am well too Na social media cause these things Especially that Tiktok 😭 That Tiktok app has done more harm than good to relationships People now fantasize and forget reality They forget that reality is far different from camera💔

Na who wan go kpai themselves because of woman deserve the real hell f!re aje!

Tbh, as a man the last thing you should do is trying to satisfy and please a woman, do not try it. To women, nothing is ever enough. The more you give, the more they ask and the moment you say no, they resort to emotional blackmail saying that you don’t love them anymore or you have been seeing and spending on another woman. To stay alive and be in peace as a man, take care of your woman as much as you can, provide her basic needs, feed her, cloth her, give her a shelter and cherish her. Every other thing else is secondary.

Seun Kuti perfectly described women, women are fucking ungrateful beings, most of them if not all, they major on minor and frivolities. What he described is exactly how their mind works, every damn one of them.

She said we wasn’t going for vacation, for 11 months relationship. Me way Dey owe micro financial 1.7m for my business way fail. Omo I’m done

Especially this upcoming generation of Kdrama women. Na there own go worst. 😂

Real spill frfr

Love is simple, very simple, small talks settles a lot and does wonders, firstly you have to Understand what loves means to your partner then you go ahead and stop doing things that means love to you and not them. Just Learn your partner's love language, it could be the simpler things

No be lie