please watch this 💌

Your true friends are going to say, “I gotchu” without hesitation because, money isn’t the basis of your friendship. Too many of us are trying to live a lifestyle that we can’t afford or maintain an image that’s not authentic. When you’re down, you’ll see who’s there for you.

Oh well if I’m broke I’m not coming ..I appreciate the gesture..catch me when my shit together 😩..as a black person I can just hear my granny saying “if you broke how can you afford to leave home and not be going to work what the hell yall got going on😂😂😭😭”..hangs purse back up and shoes off🥴

Always remember to give yourself grace. We often forget, our presence is enough.♥️

I JUST REPOSTED THAT EARLIER TOO! it’s such a much needed message!

it issss! 💞

Black folk need stop acting when you don’t have it we can’t have a good time! Everyone bring a dish some bring drinks we pulling out uno, playing some music we always figure it out

Sometimes, you will find yourself in a season where money’s tight, and suddenly, hanging out with your friends feels like a luxury you can’t afford. It’s uncomfortable. You start making excuses, ducking invites, and before long, you are watching life happen from the outside. But here’s the truth; your worth, your friendship, your presence, none of that is tied to how much you can spend. This is a time to be real. You don’t need to over-explain, just be honest. A simple “Hey, I am budgeting right now” or “Hey, I don’t have so much money right now” goes a long way. The people who care will understand, and sometimes, they just need a reminder that connection doesn’t have to cost anything. So instead of pulling away, suggest alternatives. A walk, a potluck, a movie night at home. Share music, send memes, call just to talk. You’d be surprised how many people are craving the same kind of simple, intentional time. And if they are not? That’s okay too. Not every circle fits every season. This isn’t about missing out, it’s about making room. Use this time to slow down, to listen to yourself, to explore things that don’t require money but still feed your spirit. This season might feel hard, but it’s also teaching you to build relationships, and a life, that are grounded in more than spending. And that’s something no amount of money can buy.

This is by far the realest shit I’ve heard in a long fun time man

This is true but go get some money. That broke shit ain’t helping nobody

Sounds good, but if you’re broke. Don’t nobody wanna be around you. 💎

Many people can’t bring themselves to tell their friends they are broke. They die in silence and ruin their friendships. Why are they your friends then? You think they can always read your mind. You think we are not all struggling?

Well said...more and more ppl are feeling more comfortable to say ain't got it, which is good. It is 100% okay to say i don't have it this time. Nothing wrong with that.

@got_cake A lot of material people on here wouldn’t even understand what she saying

people with the proper self respect dont call themselves or others broke……if broke was an important word then words like resilience would not exist…….. i dont be around people who glamorize privilege..

Her nails were a paid actor. 😍

Beautiful lady and msg but naaa.. I’d have to catch when the up is up✌🏾

This is nice and true, but it's not the reality we live in, look the people you love and want to keep close, the people you could swear won't leave you, will leave you when you are down and broke, they might not broke shame you with words always, but their actions will scream it.

What a beautiful message

I guess I needed to see this! But I’m not hanging out and I’m broke sorry. That’s never been me. I’m isolate till I’m back

good reminder.. but let’s not forget to still get the money and see opportunities where we can not be broke

I needed to see and hear this today especially from a beautiful sister. This energy doesn’t get enough repost online.

Imo being broke is a personal failure MOST of the time but you still shouldn’t be ashamed of it. Life has its ups and downs and beating yourself while you’re down will make it worse TRUST ME. The sooner you take accountability, the sooner things will change for the better.

Is this for women and men cuz I think men gone need to still have money lmk

Can’t do it. When I’m down I go ghost on everybody

she’s a sweet person ❤️ cos most people do not think this way. adult friendships shouldn’t have to require money to upkeep them.

I tried that to have relationships with women with no money and just have friends that don’t got it like that believe me staying to myself best decision I’ve ever made

Appreciate this message. It rings for many.

It’s not just love relationships..even friendships have become transactional. Smh

What she is saying is so beautiful and it is so real.

I love this. Too bad no one wants anything to do with you if you’re broke. Lmao they don’t care and they can’t comprehend systemic oppression. Hell Niggas don’t even read. You’re asking a lot out of your people. Lmaooo Black people believe empathy is a weakness.

This is so real

Definitely a message we all should see in these times!!!

Lmao. Please don’t come around me broke consistently. At a point it is a personal failing. I don’t need to see anyone that bad. Let’s work on a plan together to get ya pockets together.

I don't feel sorry. Most ppl are broke bc they spend too much not bc they don't make enough. So they choose to be broke.

It’s so wild there’s video of a girl just showing herself looking sexy getting 100m views but avid like this only gets 600k and it’s literally saving relationships ……..