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Poly, Open, or Just Curious? Not all non-monogamy looks the same, and lumping it all together is where a lot of confusion and hurt begins. In this video, I explain the key differences between polyamory, open relationships, swinging, and relationship anarchy — and why none of them are “easy... show more

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