Self-care is service. Archive: Podcast:

I always enquire after a boy whenever I can. If they are ill, frazzled, or not feeling it I'm happy to postpone a play session. I want them to get the best out of our play. It is no good showing up but with your mind elsewhere.

Yeah. I think it can do some actual harm.

I once spoke with some friends about how I consider going to the gym to be an act of service, so I really vibe with this!

That’s like doubly so. It’s self-care but you’re also shaping a stronger body which can enhance service too. I like to say “Strong boys hurt more.”

Love this lesson Sir. Scenes and intimate moments don't feel as genuine/meaningful when initiated without the right care. It also feels so satisfying to clear out time specifically so I can do kink with someone, and that they prepare themselves for me. Thank you for sharing Sir.

Time is a huge part of it!

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This is amazing advice 👏 💯

Power to you my brother xx

Hey! Hugs.