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She literally explained a preference for deep, meaningful conversations over small talk.

76,540 views • 8 months ago •via X (Twitter)

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✨💩 on these walls ray✨8 months ago

Same, but people just voluntarily trauma dump on me without me asking.

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malibu8 months ago

The look on ppls faces when the casual, barely deep topic you just discussed with them, has thrown them into an existential crisis. That’s usually my queue to “Yeahhhh if you’ll excuse me…. I gotta finish my daydream of pondering the nature of reality. Nice talking to you ✌🏽”

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StringzOnTheBeat8 months ago

I agree. Communication is connection. Whether verbally or physically. It’s something I really need to sustain.

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Happy K8 months ago

I love deep conversations so much but my social awareness guides me when, what 2 ask that's comfortable 2 answer. it's necessary. I'm sure there're personal questions a stranger will ask & I'll snap wiz another question. I open up 2 someone i feel at ease 2 deeply converse.

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Keepingitjasy8 months ago

She explained my mindset wonderfully 🙌🏾

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reh.8 months ago

Small talk makes me physically uncomfortable, I can’t take it at all. So I only rlly talk to people I know unless you come at me like her 🙃😂

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Auntie Lara8 months ago

I’d like to hear more of this interview. Can you drop the link?

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Megan Bauer8 months ago

First saw Kat on Celebrity Traitors UK and knew she was a real one

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GHD.TheN7Elite8 months ago

She is 💯 me, The about of times i have been asked if I am flirting by starting a Substantive talk is crazy.

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Ben8 months ago

@grok who are they?

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Dee 🧚🏾‍♀️8 months ago

Man, let me go take a test fr 😭 … tf you supposed to say after “Hey, how are you” to a stranger?

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⚡️Mercy Jones⚡️8 months ago

That's a superpower. Love how she explained it.

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D☯M8 months ago

THIS

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Chulosk!!🐎💫8 months ago

Beautifully said

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kayla bree (she/her)8 months ago

Source please? I want to learn more about her experience :)

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Zuri8 months ago

Literally me

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Angel ⋆ ☁︎ ⋆☽⋆8 months ago

Yeah! People always think I’m tryna fuck when I probe them for their insights, I always get the hell out of Doge when things get dicey tho

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🪶Indigenous Queen 👑8 months ago

Except I don’t ask they just dump the most intimate personal info my vault is loaded

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𝓐𝓵𝓮𝔁8 months ago

@MzPoeticDivFem I want deep deep conversation, an unstable individual with nothing upstairs, who doesn't know how to hold a conversation. Focus on your mental health first before seeking deep things. 🤡

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NaiLaVera8 months ago

🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 Thank you ♥️ ⚡⚡⚡⚡for putting this/me into words....

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🎀8 months ago

she gets it

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𝓅𝓇𝒾𝑒𝓈𝓉𝑒𝓈𝓈 ❤︎8 months ago

yesss felt this

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Elian Marlowe8 months ago

Sometimes it isn’t just a preference. For some, love is experienced through depth in conversation.

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memedays8 months ago

Cringe

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Helios8 months ago

@ItsBankhead_ I’m personally to autistic for small talk. I feel so awkward and self conscious

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Al-Qaeda With A Pussy8 months ago

But how do you keep it going? Every conversation can’t be deep. At the same time, these people are often online because they feel drained.

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