She ruined their innocence, not him

My Mom cheated on my Dad, not once but twice. He tried therapy the first time but on the 2nd he bounced. I was 4 years old. When I was 18 I found out from my sister what had happened. All that time I resented my father when it was actually my Mother. I never forgave her.

Shout out to the Boomers thinking this is real

Hey, kids. Mom's legs are broken and they don't stay shut. So we're getting a divorce.

No because if he cheated, she would’ve ran to the NET about how she’s going to provide and stay strong for “her” kids.. She would’ve been on IG x TikTok doing a tell all story about how he cheated and he’s no good. Tell your kids their mom is a liar and cheater 💯

Listen, as a divorced dad, I want to side with the husband. Unfortunately, he wants to embarrass his wife by explaining to young children that his mom screwed someone else. This is an issue between two adults, you don’t bring the kids into the drama if you don’t have to.

Bro woman DO NOT CARE AT ALL

Women 😂💔

This is fake and an ad for that cheeter buster app.

"I don't want them to see me negatively" Where was this concern when you fucking another dude who wasn't your husband ? If you didn't care about the consequences then, why should your concern be considered now ? You can't have everything you want, you're not a child.

She wants to tell the kids “later” so she can have time to craft her own narrative about the husband being the villain instead of her. Not one bit remorseful about cheating and dropping a hydrogen bomb on her family, only concerned with her image and reputation.

It's so easy for some/many women to play victim, when they're infact the villains.

Fuck Her Bruh! Get full custody of the kids take the house and kick her the fuck out. Asap!🤣🤬

Accountability is a woman’s kryptonite

Another woman trying to avoid accountability... Her only selfish concern is that it makes her look bad to the children (and probably their friends). She should have thought about that before she spread her legs for another man and destroyed her family.

It's really sad, but true, that children tend to blame THEMSELVES when their parents divorce. It eats them up. I've seen it. She would rather that her children blame themselves than have them understand that SHE destroyed the family.

Emotional immaturity… using kids as a weapon. What happened has nothing to do with them. It’s grown folks business. So he can feel good he wants to emotionally devastate his kids…

How old are the kids, he’s mad and trying to punish her through the kids, if there in their teens, then I think it’s ok, 12 and under? That’s a question best answered another day.

Most importantly make sure you share all your issues with the internet.

H03S don’t deserve respect

My husband tried to be the nice guy and hide the reason for their divorce from their kids. She cheated. Turns out, his exwife was telling the kids that they divorced because HE had cheated. His kids wouldn’t talk to him for years. Tell kids the truth or she may turn it on you.

Why should he lie to the kids? The sad thing is people will lie, pretend and destroy their kids' lives, just to not take responsibility for their own actions. Maybe something is wrong with me because I would rather he tell them the truth and deal with it than lie to them.

They always want to appear as angels to their unsuspecting kids. Some women and accountability are like parallel lines.

The 3 year old as dad is explaining that mom was cheating on him.

the problem I have with this entire thing, is that he is incapable of being on the other side of the equation. Yes I understand a man like loyalty but he is seeking loyalty at the cost of his own self Instead of being angry at the other man he’s only angry at himself his wife

Lying got her into this situation. Thinks lying will make it better.

nope, your mom is a hoe kids

Accountability is a woman's kryptonite

My ex asked me to do the same thing when she cheated.

He’s wrong. Theres no reason for the kids to know this and it will hurt them and their relationship with their mother. Hes being selfish to punish her and not putting the kids’ wellbeing first.

Shes more concerned about how the kids are gonna judge her than anything. It dont matter if you tell them now or later. However telling them now allows them to process it. Vs later which will see you lose them without a second thought.

Always be honest with the kids about a divorce. They may not need to know the details but they deserve honesty.

the woman doesn't want to be accountable for her actions? wait, what? sarcasm..we all know accountability is like kryptonite to almost all women..