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Simon Sinek on why becoming a great leader requires the same mindset as becoming a great parent: Everyone wants to have kids. Nobody thinks about raising them. "People say, 'I want to have kids.' Nobody ever says, 'I would like to raise kids for 18 years.'" Having kids is...

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Sometimes you can make something great, and it doesn't connect for whatever reason. Sometimes you make two things you think are the two best things you've ever made. One of them connects with the world. One of them doesn't. And it might not have anything to do with what's in the art. It might be that it came out the same day as something else. Or there was a bigger story at the time. There's so much to it that we don't understand." He continues: "All we can do is make something good and put it out and hope for the best. That's all there is. We never know why things work. Even if you make a piece of art and it works, you may not know why." On talent versus work ethic: "There are a lot of talented people who never make it because they don't have the work ethic. It's not just talent, talent's a piece. And you could argue for some people, the work ethic trumps the talent." Rubin explains what real collaboration is: "Having worked with a lot of bands, I see there's often this friction where people are trying to get their idea in. That's not a collaboration. A real collaboration is when everyone who's there is working together towards whatever is the best thing for the whole. Whether it's your idea or someone else's idea, it doesn't matter. If you're invested in the collaboration, you want the best idea to win. You don't want your idea to win." On what makes art great: "What makes it great is the personal. With all of its imperfections. With all of its quirkiness. That's what makes it great. How you see the world that's different from how everyone else sees the world. That's why you're an artist. That's your purpose in sharing your work with the world." He warns against being derivative: "There are these derivative voices where they're finding what they think other people want to hear, and they start saying it because they've heard other people say similar things that are now successful. Even if they have some short-term success doing that, it's not revolutionary. It doesn't change the world. It doesn't last. The people who you first see and you might not like that you come to like because you don't understand them at first, those are the ones that change the world. Those are the ones you dedicate your fandom to for life." Rubin shares his philosophy on taste: "You can't second-guess your own taste for what someone else is going to like. We're not smart enough to know what someone else is going to like. To make something thinking, 'Well, I don't really like it, but I think this group of people will like it,' it's a bad way to play the game of music or art. You have to do what's personal to you. Take it as far as you can go. Really push the boundaries. And people will resonate with it if they're supposed to resonate with it." He describes creativity as catching waves: "We're really talking about magic. The universe conspiring on our behalf if we let it. Being in this flow of catching these waves that anyone can catch. If you're trying to catch it, you're open to it, you see it coming, you take off on every chance you get. And sometimes the ride happens. It's remarkable how it happens. It doesn't come from preconception. It's not an idea. It's through the doing." Rubin explains how ideas exist in the universe: "Have you ever had that experience where you have an idea for something, you don't do it, and then six months later you see someone else has done it? It's not because they took your idea. It's that it's time for that, and you can act on it or not. The best artists are the ones who have the best antenna for this material that's available. It's coming through. The best comedians see the best jokes. They see them coming. We all live in the same world; the way you see it, you have the best joke because you see it best." He closes with how to stay open: "If we listen to what's going on around us, you can overhear a conversation in a coffee shop, and it is the setup for an idea you're working on. You hear a phrase you don't commonly use. My experience is: when you are open and looking for these clues in the world, they're happening all the time. And they're happening often right when you need them."

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Brian still spends over two hours a day on recruiting and personally hires the top 200 people at Airbnb. I loved this idea of being in the flow of talent to find the best people: "Don't do searches. Build pipelines. I try to map out all the best people in the Valley. So let's say I need to hire really good engineers. I don't do searches. I just informationally meet the best engineers in the world. Every meeting, the job is to get the next meeting, meet someone else. The mistake people make when they hire. They go, "I need to hire a blank." So they hire a search firm. They give you 50 profiles, and you pick the best one. That is the wrong way to do it. The best way to do it is pipeline recruiting. You're constantly recruiting, you're constantly meeting people. in advance of searches. And all of it is referral based. The two ways to find out if people are good – is to start with the results and work backwards to the people. Find an ad you like and figure out who made that ad. Start with the results. Work backwards to people. Don't start with the resume. The other thing to do is just keep asking people to build your Rolodex. The moment I find somebody that's really good, I ask them who all the best people they know are. And I build these little mafias and they tell you who the other good people are. I am the co-hiring manager for the top 200 people in the company. This is very radical. A lot of CEOs think it's their job to hire their executive team, and their executive team hires their team. I think that is fatal. You always want to be marrying up, hiring people of the future. It should be like we're reaching. If you can hire them without my help, we're not reaching far enough. You want to hire the very best person you can."

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Is it all worth it? They spent a full year under financial strain, public pressure, sleepless nights, and mental exhaustion. All for one thing… standing up for themselves. The odds were almost zero. Challenging a multi-billion-dollar company run by those who only care about power and money? It was like a five-year-old telling their parents they were wrong. And yet, they did it. People called them naive. Reckless. Foolish. And honestly, it’s understandable. Society teaches that right is right and wrong is wrong. But it also teaches that going against what is “normal” is dangerous. “Don’t cause trouble. Stay quiet. Obey.” That’s what they always say. And when enough people follow the wrong thing, the wrong becomes the new “right.” Take lying as an example. As kids, we’re told lying is bad. But as we grow up, we learn that when everyone else lies, lying becomes necessary to survive. If you refuse, you get taken advantage of. So when something happens and everyone stays quiet, silence becomes the default. “Fighting won’t change anything.” “You’re just wasting your energy.” “You’ll never win against them anyway.” And that is why no one calls out a bully in class. That is why victims don't speak against wrongdoing. The moment someone does, they become the problem. It’s exactly like the dark forest theory: when one person hides, everyone else hides too. Anyone left standing in the open eventually becomes the target. So when people call them reckless, we can’t really blame them. What they really mean is: “I would never have the courage to do what they did.” Because that’s what most people do. They choose safety. They follow what society calls “normal.” They obey the unspoken “rules” they were taught. By standing up to power, the girls shattered that bubble of “normality.” They knew from the very beginning that they weren’t going to walk out of this with a glorious victory. That was never the point. They didn’t do this just to win. They did it because it was the right thing to do. So is it worth it? I guess you already know the answer. And I knew they did too. Because through it all, they proved something more important: Winning is a bonus. But if you don’t stand up for yourself, no one ever will. 🍀 #MhDHH_FRIENDS ©

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