Sometimes being “nice” is not actually kind or loving.

Yes but it’s also not the cruelty your husband exhibits daily.

Where the grass is always greener 🍃

"Niceness" as morality is an evolutionary emotional fallacy which confuses "good feelings", positivity, & vibes for moral goodness. FEELING good and BEING good are wildly different things. Sodom & Gomorrah FELT really good & had lots of positive vibes.

Words matter. Too many have been manipulated and twisted by evil over time to mean something different. Nice is a negative term, it derived from the Latin word; nescius which means unaware or ignorant. I don't want to be nice, I want to be good. Nice worries about someone's feelings, good does what is right no matter what.

I’m through with being nice, there is only the truth. Not telling the truth is cruelty.

My Protestant brainwashing only became apparent to me after following you and husband. I couldn't be more grateful for the exposure to Orthodoxy. Its been a lot to try and shake off in a year, but I'm trying.

Love Fr Paul. He’s so so clear as a teacher. So good.

i dont understand why people dont call him jesus , his name is jesus ,to my knowledge he doesnt ever refer to himself as "christ" , that was something attached to him after he died , in other words i only say jesus and i refuse to refer to jesus as christ because he himself didnt

I don’t get your anti-nice crusade. You dismiss and mock men for being respectful and kind. What’s the alternative? Or maybe you prefer a resurgence in domestic violence?

Speaking truth without Love is cruelty.

This has a special lesson and meaning especially in highly feminised Niceness oriented modern society, which has allowed evil to hide behind and use "Niceness" leading to destruction of God's order and spiritual foundations.