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"There is a difference between getting a man to sleep with you, and getting a man to build with you. Desire is very easy to get, commitment is selective. Stop confusing availability for achievement." - Stella Abiodun

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Kelvin_Edet7 months ago

Make Obidi come learn how to be a feminist here

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Abdul-Fatai (Omo Oshodi)7 months ago

Thank Almighty that there are still women who have common sense just that the majority don't have

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d.prince7 months ago

Men are easy to get but na women dey pray for husband every time and is not like there don’t have man ooo oya make him marry you nah 🤷‍♂️ since they are easy to get.

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thegoldmaskguy7 months ago

She can’t even get every man’s attention, let alone commitment.

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LaCorazón de españa 🇪🇸7 months ago

“Stop playing” weh she talk killed me 😭.. I like am pieces .

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Khalifa GFTD7 months ago

This is a real feminist in my opinion 👍🏾

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HUNCHO 🧘🏽🖤7 months ago

Most women no fit see good chop if man no day😂 So this ain’t new, you just never knew 😂😂

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🅰️©️H WIL💲ON🔴⚪️7 months ago

She fit get man in her caliber to sleep with her I’m clearly sure she’s not talking about husband

✨𝕌ℕℂ𝕃𝔼 𝕂𝔸𝕐✨ ♉🤍 🔴⚪️'s profile picture
✨𝕌ℕℂ𝕃𝔼 𝕂𝔸𝕐✨ ♉🤍 🔴⚪️7 months ago

Desire can come easy, but building something meaningful takes patience, trust, and mutual effort. Commitment is rare because it’s earned, not given.

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Losheyi7 months ago

How they think always baffles me.. I’m happy there are some with good intellectual brains

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Iam_Kezmann7 months ago

Lot of ladies are so shallow minded to the point this won’t still make any sense to them.

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Billie (Uzaba Himself)7 months ago

Videos wey suppose bang no Dey go far na only rubbish people Dey promote

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Obinna7 months ago

Stella your mama born you well. Beauty and brains

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kenery7 months ago

Very true, and we must also understand that being able to get a man's attention gives you an opportunity to get him to commit. At least attention gives a lady the chance of commitment. Maybe that is what she ment

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Big~Motive BAV🎙️7 months ago

This kind video no dey trend Na all those ones wey no get anything to teach dey trend well Check my comments 👇 👇

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Swankyleo ✌🏽🦅7 months ago

And the point is you can not get the attention of “any” man you want If you think I lied ask aunty simi

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Donbabadee7 months ago

Abeg help us ask am say she no want Dangote...!? Make she try get to prove to us say she fit get any man then we go believe am...

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Wellington7 months ago

This lag will do wedding in Jesus name you talk truth.

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Homelander🫵🏼💀💰7 months ago

@akudigide Even the attention and access you're talking about lol I'm sorry you can't get every or any man you want simply because you have a nice body, some guys no send your papa no matter how beautiful you look

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felix femi7 months ago

No women in the comment section

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Memesmith7 months ago

Women don Dey get sense now o, 2026 go sharp

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Moonn Boy7 months ago

Na feminism be this, no be that rubbish all those ones Dey do

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Lino7 months ago

She’s very accurate 💯

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C4 COCO7 months ago

It’s thing for woman to be beautiful, it’s another thing for her to be this eloquent

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MaiRo BOJ7 months ago

God bless you dear. Please Lecture all this skelewu gen z girls for me jare

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Henry7 months ago

You can’t bag anyhow men, you can only have access to select from the ones that approach you.. you can’t just say cause you’re beautiful you would bag “Elon musk” lmao. You might be attracted sexually and for fun not to keep.

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Nelson7 months ago

Some men no fit even fvck you twice Talk more of commitment

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Gábú7 months ago

finally someone gets this...

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ᜰイ 😈👻7 months ago

She has caught on our game she will be a dangerous feminist

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iamCassper 🤴7 months ago

Make Una find this lady for me she don win my heart ❤️ 🥹

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WIZKID FC LAWYER 👨🏽‍⚖️💼7 months ago

This one still get sense, but I hope no just for front of camera oh

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imole7 months ago

Al these ones nor concern man oo just open that Toto make i pound am

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Ejikemeuwa7 months ago

A woman's beauty can get her a man but it can't keep a man.

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CÕMMÔÑ PÊRSON7 months ago

The thing is that she is still right and men are cheap , when a man sleeps with a girl easily he also says the girl is cheap , so from that context in fact men are very very cheap ...and yes sometimes d cheap simp can still stay after a good sex and start spending his money

𝒿𝓊𝓈𝓉 𝐁 ℋᵘᵐᵇˡᵉ 🛡️🇬🇧🇳🇬's profile picture
𝒿𝓊𝓈𝓉 𝐁 ℋᵘᵐᵇˡᵉ 🛡️🇬🇧🇳🇬7 months ago

De Stella God no go shame you ooo, Infact more senses to your reasoning

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