"There is a difference between getting a man to sleep with you, and getting a man to build with you. Desire is very easy to get, commitment is selective. Stop confusing availability for achievement." - Stella Abiodun

Make Obidi come learn how to be a feminist here

Thank Almighty that there are still women who have common sense just that the majority don't have

Men are easy to get but na women dey pray for husband every time and is not like there don’t have man ooo oya make him marry you nah 🤷‍♂️ since they are easy to get.

She can’t even get every man’s attention, let alone commitment.

“Stop playing” weh she talk killed me 😭.. I like am pieces .

This is a real feminist in my opinion 👍🏾

Most women no fit see good chop if man no day😂 So this ain’t new, you just never knew 😂😂

She fit get man in her caliber to sleep with her I’m clearly sure she’s not talking about husband

Desire can come easy, but building something meaningful takes patience, trust, and mutual effort. Commitment is rare because it’s earned, not given.

How they think always baffles me.. I’m happy there are some with good intellectual brains

Lot of ladies are so shallow minded to the point this won’t still make any sense to them.

Videos wey suppose bang no Dey go far na only rubbish people Dey promote

Stella your mama born you well. Beauty and brains

Very true, and we must also understand that being able to get a man's attention gives you an opportunity to get him to commit. At least attention gives a lady the chance of commitment. Maybe that is what she ment

This kind video no dey trend Na all those ones wey no get anything to teach dey trend well Check my comments 👇 👇

And the point is you can not get the attention of “any” man you want If you think I lied ask aunty simi

Abeg help us ask am say she no want Dangote...!? Make she try get to prove to us say she fit get any man then we go believe am...

This lag will do wedding in Jesus name you talk truth.

@akudigide Even the attention and access you're talking about lol I'm sorry you can't get every or any man you want simply because you have a nice body, some guys no send your papa no matter how beautiful you look

No women in the comment section

Women don Dey get sense now o, 2026 go sharp

Na feminism be this, no be that rubbish all those ones Dey do

She’s very accurate 💯

It’s thing for woman to be beautiful, it’s another thing for her to be this eloquent

God bless you dear. Please Lecture all this skelewu gen z girls for me jare

You can’t bag anyhow men, you can only have access to select from the ones that approach you.. you can’t just say cause you’re beautiful you would bag “Elon musk” lmao. You might be attracted sexually and for fun not to keep.

Some men no fit even fvck you twice Talk more of commitment

finally someone gets this...

She has caught on our game she will be a dangerous feminist

Make Una find this lady for me she don win my heart ❤️ 🥹

This one still get sense, but I hope no just for front of camera oh

Al these ones nor concern man oo just open that Toto make i pound am

A woman's beauty can get her a man but it can't keep a man.

The thing is that she is still right and men are cheap , when a man sleeps with a girl easily he also says the girl is cheap , so from that context in fact men are very very cheap ...and yes sometimes d cheap simp can still stay after a good sex and start spending his money

De Stella God no go shame you ooo, Infact more senses to your reasoning