This BR🧔🏿‍♂️THA is making a great point. Can anyone answer me this question? What do you gain from paying all the bills for your girl⁉️👑

You never hear providers complaining online like a 304. They don’t gaf!! They go back into the world like a fcking man and make more money double/triple the amount he spent on that woman. Counts it as a lessoned learned. Just foolishness!!! #foolish

@red__aura They complain in divorce court 🤭👑

@red__aura They don’t complain too much.. statistically the richest men get married three or more times.. get your money up Nigga

@VonnDaStark @ReclaimD1 You a pick me too! Don’t everybody want to be picked?! Most likely the wife stayed at home. Women make men’s lives easier. So, she’s entitled to something to maintain the lifestyle.

@VonnDaStark @ReclaimD1 Hey genius marriage rates have gone up! I have a voice and I do research you muppet face hoe! Now go brush your Cheeto encrusted teeth!

You don’t. You gain nothing. Thats why you don’t pay all the bills for your girl. You pay them for your wife.

sound like something a broke nigga say cuz why not provide and take care of your girl y'all niggas weird ASF

Everything is in my name, even her last name. We've been married 6 years, me and her lived under a tree 🌳 together so—yes, I am the king around my home, nigga.

You don’t gain anything trust me. All they do is stack their money away and when she has enough she leaves you. Been there and done that… never again. Always give them shit to pay around the house

It’s always black men speaking like this and it’s so embarrassing that they don’t lean into their masculinity.

I know a few dudes right now puts his all into a woman buys the house, works in oil fields is dependable, pillars of the community. One was a detective for 20 years Both them dudes are old now and dying their wives divorcing them. It’s sick

Being a provider is for suckers. It’s 2026. If she’s not working and paying a good chunk of the bills cut her off

80% of divorces are initiated by women because men are always cheating and they won’t leave their wife they will just keep cheating until she has had enough and decides to leave and then blame her for wanting better😭 also if you tired of paying women’s bills get you a man.

You a yn you wouldnt understand. Let a ole nigga skool you. Relationships are bout give and take. My suga- babies aint fuckin wit me fo my looks nigga and i aint wit them fo they brains or wat they can brang to the table nigga.butvin the end we all happy.

Who hurt him..? #slimTLK

Me and my fiancé split the bills 50/50 using proportional method because we don’t make the same. He still buys me things and even will pay my phone bill but I say this to say I love my man enough to want to make his life easier and work with him. You bitches should too

Why is it my responsibility to pay a bitch car payment, insurance, phone bill, any other kind of bill in her name? If we ain’t married but we live together then yea you ass is gone pay for what you need to pay as far as your bills. We split the rent and that’s about it.

I don't pay a bitch's bills... I pay my bills... She chill with me, she fuck the Planet Fitness then she can go move in with him. That simple... If you're married... Then that's a different story. I ain't getting married. That's for the birds.

…. You gain the girl lmao only poor men ask these questions

Dude not lying I’m in my 30s now but when I was 23 I gave up my apt to move in with this single mom I was dating cause she was working 2 jobs needed help! She dead ass saved all her money, while I payed half her bills! Mind you it cost me 2 months rent for breaking my lease!

A women that truly love you(which is rare) won't have a problem with helping with the bills. If she loves you she will want to make your load as easy as possible. She won't put everything on you because she values the relationship more than her own personal needs.

By bills I don’t think he means YOUR usual home bills, I think he means spending money unnecessarily on the bitch… Many of you niggas give bitches money for no reason, spend money on the most worthless shit like wigs and fucking nails, which she can pay by herself but she’ll prefer using you as a fucking atm to do the most basic stuff and still have you give her money she don’t deserve. He’s making a valid point

You could tell he ain’t been paying the bills for himself 😭😭

Literally NOTHING!!

First, if you move in such a way that you're operating as if you're planning for a woman to leave you, then she will leave you - you manifested that. That's why his goofy behind since in a car trying to hype himself up about not paying bills. Second, and here is the most important part, he's not wrong. I won't pay my girl's bills. I will pay my wife's bills. That's different. Any man out here making financial commitments to a woman that isn't committed to them is a fool, and a fool and his money are easily parted. I'll help my girl out, of course, but I won't take on the financial responsibility of providing for her until I put that ring on her finger and we get that license back. That's when she becomes my responsibility. Not before. Third, a lot of couples don't have (or don't have enough) financial literacy and/or discipline, so money becomes an issue. That's a solvable problem.

If she ain’t your wife do NOT pay for her bills

Simps stop spending ur last on hozzzz

if you’re a unit you’re just paying bills, not her bills but THE bills she’s not up 30k, y’all are up 30k the problem is you’re thinking like an individual in a partnership & if you break up you didnt waste anything you paid bills that are due every month weather you’re in a relationship or not

If you make the money back plus more then providing shouldnt be a debate lmao. Providing is for the men that can afford to.

You gain nothing; you protect yourself from her lashing out and tryin to dominate the home

God bless this brother. He spoke the truth. 💯

Women go, “ whats his is mines and what’s mines is mines”. While we paying all the bills they stacking their money.

Sounds like it happened to him… so salty.

You get to be labeled a “real man” by a bitch that don’t even know who her father is

It's a girlfriend subscription, she's supposed to not cheat if u pay the subscription. But these nighas are dumb.

Rumor has it he’s still waiting on that answer lmao