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This is a conversation every father should be having with his sons. Teaching our boys about consent and respect starts early. We must raise young men who understand that it is not enough to simply do no harm. They must also be willing to speak up when they see... show more

Ben Crump

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19,466 次观看 • 8 天前 •via X (Twitter)

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KingPThaG8 天前

Of course. And teach them that grifting is bad as well. 🙏

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Dragonborn7 天前

Performative. Hopefully the daughters are told to keep their legs closed too. It takes two to get down

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K - 💉X11 😷KN95/N958 天前

Please provide the source for these videos, especially when they are so worthy of recognition. He is an honorable man and an amazing father.

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MemphisMane8 天前

did he marry a white woman with all that racism bs you spout?

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Mocker of Puppets7 天前

70% of black kids DON'T HAVE DADS You make house calls? 😀😀😀

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zx7miller7 天前

It’s rare, but you said something I agree with.

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Ryan7 天前

Kids are half white, which appears to give them higher functioning brains.

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Mary Cooley7 天前

Awesome Dad!

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Gloria Richardson7 天前

Agreed… NO means NO at any age! Tell your sons that they must respect women and not push the boundaries once NO is said that’s it and that’s all!

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ProudGrandpa7 天前

Sounds good Ben.

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Valerie Brown7 天前

🙏🏽🌹💪😭💪🏼☝️👍🫂🔥

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Rhonda Stone8 天前

Let somebody know...Thank you....Rhonda

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P C (Bulletsponge)7 天前

It's crazy that enthusiastic consent has turned into not consenting

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NotWrong7 天前

Consent? That were all consenting to do drugs and shit got wild

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We The People8 天前

I wouldn’t be shocked if he gave his kids a box of condoms too.

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Rene Mickens-Burney7 天前

This conversation is everything. Even if your not a father, you still can teach the young 🙏🏽❤️

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Daisy227 天前

True, that’s a father’s job. And mother’s need to teach their daughters to respect and protect their sexuality. You don’t get to get drunk and take ketamine at frat parties, engage in 3somes, perform sex acts on passed out men and then think drunk men will magically not engage.

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aston kwambe7 天前

7 year old stabbed in Chicago where the F/ck are you and Sharpton, no Democrat pay cheque in it or some white boy to blame

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hydr0g0d📉FWA⚡️⚡️7 天前

you gonna teach them about this one

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Greenchchickenblue8 天前

All of u are equally good at reading

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Sergey7 天前

I was with you until you said: "We must raise young men who understand that it is not enough to simply do no harm. They must also be willing to speak up when they see others being harmed." Personally, I am not going to speak out and I don't want to be pressured to do so.

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17,044 次观看 • 4 个月前

Amid the investigation into the alleged gang rape at a Cornell University fraternity house, father and creator Alan Gilliam recorded a conversation with his 9 and 11-year-old sons about consent, body privacy and the standards he wants them to uphold as they grow into young men. Gilliam said he began teaching his boys about consent when they were 3 and 5, and he hopes his viral video inspires other parents to have similar conversations with their children.

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53,341 次观看 • 11 天前

Phakelumthakathi told the young boys that they are the future leaders of this country. He said they must respect every elder, regardless of who they are. He then added that they should also learn how to fight so that they can grow up to be like him. 🤣

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FPR-Inkotanyi

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NewsNation invited me on to talk about the Cornell Seven case and the bigger conversation around consent. My message to parents was simple: teach it directly. Teach boys what “no” means. Teach them to look for an emphatic yes. Teach them that consent can change. And teach them something else we do not say enough: Just because something is consensual does not automatically make it a good decision. We have to raise young men with more than just an understanding of the legal line. We have to give them the character, discipline, and wisdom to know when they should walk away from a situation altogether. That is the standard.

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16,550 次观看 • 5 个月前

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Honestly, this video got me thinking about something a lot of parents probably don’t talk about enough: sleepovers. You might know and trust the family your child is visiting. You might even be very close to the parents. But the truth is, you may not know or trust every single person who lives in that house or who might have access to your child. It could be an older sibling, a relative, a family friend, a visitor or simply someone you never imagined could hurt a child. And this isn’t just about girls. Boys can be sexually abused too. We need to teach both our sons and daughters how to recognise inappropriate behaviour and speak up. Children should be taught early: Nobody has the right to touch their private parts or ask them to touch someone else’s. They can say NO, even to an older person or someone they know and trust. Nobody should ask them to keep sexual touching, conversations, pictures or secrets from their parents. If someone makes them uncomfortable, they should get away and tell a trusted adult. If the first person they tell doesn’t believe them, they should keep telling until someone listens. They should know that they will not be punished or blamed for telling you about inappropriate behaviour. And parents, don’t just tell your child, “Don’t let anyone touch you.” Talk to them. Give them examples they can understand. Teach them what to do if someone crosses a boundary. Let them practise saying “NO,” leaving the situation and calling you for help. Most importantly, make yourself a safe person to tell. If your child thinks you’ll beat them, blame them, shame them, or ask why they were there in the first place, they may keep quiet, and silence is exactly what an abuser can take advantage of. We shouldn’t raise children to be afraid of the world. We should raise them to understand their bodies, recognise unsafe behaviour, set boundaries, and know that they can always come to us and speak. A sleepover isn’t automatically dangerous, but trusting a family doesn’t mean you automatically know and trust everyone around that child. Protecting our children starts with supervision, awareness, and giving them the confidence and language to speak up.

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