This is never talked about in these "potential partner" conversations and it is SO important.

Find someone who can deal with hardship. Some people totally break if they have to downsize for a year. It goes along with delayed gratification.

Wife and Mom got cancer Mom and Dad died Two combat deployments, near death experiences in both Wife car accident Kiddos very sick She’s SPOT TF ON!! Life will take you down through these. Find someone that will assist with dealing with it and not ADD to it

this includes friends and relatives(and i say relatives cause a person can choose they family)

Nah this a great one fr

Yeah don’t listen to her.

No. Listen to her. How people get tough times can make or break a relationship.

This is so important. So fucking important.

This is why Black people need to stick together. All these other races don’t know anything about suffering. Look at how they’re crashing out now 😆

This is too real.

Why do they always tilt their necks forward like that?