this rant is making people go wild online what’s ur hot take?

I was a bridesmaid last night :) it was so so so much fun!!! It was my second time being one, too. Hopefully you’ll get your chance!!!

Yeah, that’s insane. I’ve been a proud bridesgay twice and it’s amazing! ❤️

To make this (very valid) observation even more general (and possibly hotter), it’s been my experience in the past that some straight cis female friends will get in a relationship and then only hang with their straight couple friends and completely forget you exist

This is why I don’t keep cis straight people as friends - queers only. They aren’t good enough for us - we are second class citizens to them and it’s highly annoying. We are their therapists when they need someone to complain to about how their men leave skid marks in the sheets.

it’s so silly! and i also think it’s almost entirely done for the look of it all? which is so weird????????

Personally speaking? They aren’t your true friend if that is how they think. THIS ^^ is how it should go.

So true bestie… I’ve had friends that didn’t put me in their wedding… it just showed where their priorities were… it was made to make her guests and family comfortable… needless to say we don’t talk much now 😒

I’m more than ok not being included in anybody’s wedding party tbh. It’s normally stressful and lowkey a pain in the ass. Let me just be a guest and enjoy myself at the wedding! 🥴

Back in 2005 I was a bridesMAN in my HS bff’s wedding and it was a very Christian wedding. these girls of yours need to expand their vision beyond the pictures they’ve torn out of wedding magazines with gender sides

my ideal wedding has both he/she/they’s on both sides, that’d be most pleasing to me