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This will change how you see relationships 👇 We’re telling young people they have to be fully healed and independent before they can love someone. - Freya India What if you don’t find yourself alone, but with someone?

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This might be a hot take but I don’t care. If someone tells you they are a sexual abuse victim but they don’t believe the Menendez brothers, they are lying about being a sexual abuse victim and they’re just trying to make their ignorant, disgusting opinion hold more weight. There’s an unspoken connection between CSA survivors. Those of us who have it can look at Erik and Lyle and know instantly they are telling the truth. They just have it. They have that quality that only other abuse victims can see. If you don’t see it, consider yourself lucky you never have to. But listen to those of us who do when we tell you they are telling the truth.

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This might be a hot take but I don’t care. If someone tells you they are a sexual abuse victim but they don’t believe the Menendez brothers, they are lying about being a sexual abuse victim and they’re just trying to make their ignorant, disgusting opinion hold more weight. There’s an unspoken connection between CSA survivors. Those of us who have it can look at Erik and Lyle and know instantly they are telling the truth. They just have it. They have that quality that only other abuse victims can see. If you don’t see it, consider yourself lucky you never have to. But listen to those of us who do when we tell you they are telling the truth.

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Can we stop trying to change people and let them be who they are… isn’t it easier to be with someone who likes what you like and is willing to work with you than try to change someone and then complain later when they revert to their true self🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️

Can we stop trying to change people and let them be who they are… isn’t it easier to be with someone who likes what you like and is willing to work with you than try to change someone and then complain later when they revert to their true self🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️

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During Metallica’s show in Pittsburgh on August 14, 2022, James Hetfield paused before “Fade to Black” and spoke about the darkness we all carry. His words stayed with me: you can be in the darkest pit with no way out, but if you hold on and cry out, someone will give you a helping hand. Even if you don’t do it for yourself, do it for the people who will hurt every time they remember you’re gone. Have you ever been that helping hand for someone — or needed one yourself?

During Metallica’s show in Pittsburgh on August 14, 2022, James Hetfield paused before “Fade to Black” and spoke about the darkness we all carry. His words stayed with me: you can be in the darkest pit with no way out, but if you hold on and cry out, someone will give you a helping hand. Even if you don’t do it for yourself, do it for the people who will hurt every time they remember you’re gone. Have you ever been that helping hand for someone — or needed one yourself?

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At reservation Hatao protest these hooligans tried to attack me. First, they call independent journalists in and then put their safety at risk through hooliganism and intimidation. If this is how they respond to contrary views before holding power, one can only imagine how readily they might resort to violence once they have it. This is the price you have to pay if you are trying to be independent and “wanna be” unbiased media in this polarised India.

At reservation Hatao protest these hooligans tried to attack me. First, they call independent journalists in and then put their safety at risk through hooliganism and intimidation. If this is how they respond to contrary views before holding power, one can only imagine how readily they might resort to violence once they have it. This is the price you have to pay if you are trying to be independent and “wanna be” unbiased media in this polarised India.

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You know how they say nothing someone says before the word 'but' really counts"? Here’s Smith talking about how much she loves Canada but will be having a province wide panel to see what people want next… #abpoli #ableg #cdnpoli

You know how they say nothing someone says before the word 'but' really counts"? Here’s Smith talking about how much she loves Canada but will be having a province wide panel to see what people want next… #abpoli #ableg #cdnpoli

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How can someone like Rep. Ramirez who says, 'I am first and foremost Guatemalan before American,' how can they be just as American, let alone more American than you? That's what the left wants you to believe.

How can someone like Rep. Ramirez who says, 'I am first and foremost Guatemalan before American,' how can they be just as American, let alone more American than you? That's what the left wants you to believe.

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I get “it” dogs 🐶 unconditionally love & obviously don’t speak back .. but before you reply this in the comments think about the fact that that’s my point ..soooo many of you don’t act warm towards people is because you’re scared they will hurt you, but what if you choose to be optimistic and not react until something bad happens, you’re in control on how you respond to someone else’s behavior .. when you realize that, you will deploy “love” not “fear”

I get “it” dogs 🐶 unconditionally love & obviously don’t speak back .. but before you reply this in the comments think about the fact that that’s my point ..soooo many of you don’t act warm towards people is because you’re scared they will hurt you, but what if you choose to be optimistic and not react until something bad happens, you’re in control on how you respond to someone else’s behavior .. when you realize that, you will deploy “love” not “fear”

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If someone used your laptop and you want to see what they opened And also how to clear it.

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Why keep chasing people who wouldn’t even notice if you disappeared? You twist yourself trying to be what they like… and in the process, you lose who you are. You stop loving yourself, just to feel accepted by people who don’t really care. But ask yourself—what do you actually gain from that? Validation that fades? Fake love you had to earn by being someone you’re not? Real peace comes when you stop chasing and start choosing you. And the right people—the ones who matter— they’ll never ask you to change just to be seen.

Why keep chasing people who wouldn’t even notice if you disappeared? You twist yourself trying to be what they like… and in the process, you lose who you are. You stop loving yourself, just to feel accepted by people who don’t really care. But ask yourself—what do you actually gain from that? Validation that fades? Fake love you had to earn by being someone you’re not? Real peace comes when you stop chasing and start choosing you. And the right people—the ones who matter— they’ll never ask you to change just to be seen.

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Dear man, dear woman, pls leave abusive and aggressive people and relationships alone. No amount of love can change them is they don’t want to change. If she was this aggressive and destroyed your stuff like this, what’s your next move?

Dear man, dear woman, pls leave abusive and aggressive people and relationships alone. No amount of love can change them is they don’t want to change. If she was this aggressive and destroyed your stuff like this, what’s your next move?

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It is easy to love when there is distance because you don’t have to meet or share anything with that person. But when you are close up, they will step on your boundaries. Then you feel that person is a problem. But if you create a little distance between yourself and your personality, you will see you will enjoy yourself. Then everyone is wonderful because now you see people for who they are, not for whether they fit into some framework. #SadhguruWisdom

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Dating 101!!! Sit back, read, think and adapt!!! Before You Commit, Take Time to Know the Person!!! Again, if you are a perceptive person, you will realize that no human being can pretend forever. People can pretend for a while, they can hide their weaknesses, control their reactions, say the right things and show you only the parts of themselves they want you to see. But with enough time, life will eventually reveal them, pressure will reveal them, your disappointing them will reveal them, money will reveal them, success will reveal them, failing will reveal them. And sometimes, simply being around them for long enough will reveal who they truly are. This is why you should never be in a hurry to commit your heart, your future or your life to someone you barely know. Think about anything you truly understand. Whether it is a profession, skill, subject or even a hobby, deep knowledge usually comes from spending a great deal of time with it. You observe it, study it, ask questions, make mistakes, look deeper…. People are not different… You cannot truly know a person simply because you have been talking to them for six months or because you are deeply attracted to them. You know someone by paying attention to them over time, you listen to what they say, but you also watch what they do. You observe how they treat people (immediately family members) who cannot benefit them, you watch how they behave when they are angry, disappointed, broke, successful, sick, stressed or ignored. In love, you must do more than admire someone. You must study a person’s character and who they truly want to be. Ask questions & difficult conversations about money, family, children, faith, responsibilities, friendships, boundaries, sex, ambition, failure, and expectations. Do not be afraid to confront uncomfortable subjects. Someone who looks perfect when everything is going well may look very different when life becomes difficult. . . . Familiarity does not only breed contempt. Many times, familiarity gives you a deeper appreciation of a good person. The more reasonable you are as a human being, the more you understand that nobody is perfect. When you spend enough time with a good person, you begin to see their weaknesses alongside their strengths and you can decide whether those weaknesses are things you can genuinely live with. So please, take your time before you commit to someone. See them in different seasons of life… See them when they have nothing… See them when they have plenty… See how they behave when they are in control and when they are not… See how they treat people who cannot help them... See how they respond when they are told “no”… See how they view money… See how they handle disappointment… See how they speak about their former partners… See how they treat their parents, siblings, friends, children, workers and strangers… And just as importantly, allow them to see you finish too. Do not pretend to be someone you are not just because you want someone to love you. Let them see you when you are struggling, when you are uncertain, when you are successful, when you are tired and when you are not at your best. Some people are obsessed with control, some are selfish, some are driven more by money than love, some settle for you because of age, pressure, comfort, or financial security, some have mot healed from previous relationships, some carry trauma you can not deal with, some lack common. That is why time, observation, honest conversations and self-awareness matter so much in love. Take your time to know people!!!!

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Ungrateful partners don't see your sacrifices. They only see what you didn't do. No matter how much you give, they'll still find a way to make you feel like it's not enough. If you keep bending yourself to please someone who only sees your faults, that's not love, that's being used. If they can't see your effort, maybe you're just giving your best to the wrong person. You deserve someone who appreciates your effort, not someone who just counts your flaws.

Ungrateful partners don't see your sacrifices. They only see what you didn't do. No matter how much you give, they'll still find a way to make you feel like it's not enough. If you keep bending yourself to please someone who only sees your faults, that's not love, that's being used. If they can't see your effort, maybe you're just giving your best to the wrong person. You deserve someone who appreciates your effort, not someone who just counts your flaws.

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I agree! How can you be upset that we’re supporting Karmelo Anthony when they supported and funded people who killed innocent blacks? This brother, Karmelo, was defending himself; he’s being painted as a monster, but the brother was afraid and was being antagonized. Don’t put your hands on someone if you don’t want them to retaliate. #KarmeloAnthony

I agree! How can you be upset that we’re supporting Karmelo Anthony when they supported and funded people who killed innocent blacks? This brother, Karmelo, was defending himself; he’s being painted as a monster, but the brother was afraid and was being antagonized. Don’t put your hands on someone if you don’t want them to retaliate. #KarmeloAnthony

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Have you gotten a no apology apology? “I’m sorry YOU feel that way” is a non apology. It feels invalidating because it’s someone telling us they’re sorry for what we feel. It shuts down curiosity and empathy. Here’s the thing: you don’t need to *agree* with someone to understand their perspective. When someone shares what they feel instead of deflection or getting defensive. Take a deep breath. Get genuinely curious. Try to understand what they feel by asking more questions. This is a sign of emotional maturity. And most importantly, don’t apologize if you aren’t sorry. If you hear someone’s perspective and see it differently— you don’t need to apologize. You can say “I completely see where you’re coming from.” You don’t need to push your perspective. Healthy relationships are about respect. Not right or wrong. Stay curious. Stay connected.

Have you gotten a no apology apology? “I’m sorry YOU feel that way” is a non apology. It feels invalidating because it’s someone telling us they’re sorry for what we feel. It shuts down curiosity and empathy. Here’s the thing: you don’t need to agree with someone to understand their perspective. When someone shares what they feel instead of deflection or getting defensive. Take a deep breath. Get genuinely curious. Try to understand what they feel by asking more questions. This is a sign of emotional maturity. And most importantly, don’t apologize if you aren’t sorry. If you hear someone’s perspective and see it differently— you don’t need to apologize. You can say “I completely see where you’re coming from.” You don’t need to push your perspective. Healthy relationships are about respect. Not right or wrong. Stay curious. Stay connected.

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