Tough pill to swallow:

Some of the best advice to hear, and something that also hits real deep. Thank you both~

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100% agreed. Big lesson I had to learn was that mistakes will be made, eventually, of varying degrees. But the best thing I can do once there is just learn from it. That way ya can only come out stronger!

Fucking up and hurting people and being hurt is part of being human. You're going to make mistakes and disappoint the people you care about sometimes. The best you can do is try to do better in the future. Human nature is imperfect and messy, and that's ok.

I legit thought for a second after the cat story that you were going to say "...provided that you have cat ears, I know you are going to die before me someday..." and I burst out laughing. This is why I couldn't be a therapist. Good advice and mindset, though. 👍

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Extremely true words. Ones that I forgot for a long time but my therapist has brought back into memory. You can't control everything, learning to be ok with that is hard but there is beauty in the pain that can happen. Things can grow back stronger or you learn from the hurt.

This is such a lovely way to look at things

@RizzosBT Damn

I fuck with this heavy! Well said ✌️

Genuine wisdom. If you can't handle the story's end, don't read the book.

Man, such true words. About friendships and about pets, too. Wish more people could take on this attitude, it would certainly prevent a lot of needless heartache. Some heartache is inevitable, ofc, but some is caused by our own brain worms that really need to be addressed.

This kinda stuff is why I think you’re so cool Horatius, thanks for sharing this!

I was unprepared for this but the advice is always welcomed

This is one of the biggest tenets in stoicism (which i always thank you hora for helping me study it) and hora feel free to correct me: "control the things you can control, you will fall you will fail, but the big thing is trying refine and go again"

My social anxiety in a nutshell.

this is SO well put!!!

Not me seeing this right when I feel like I’ve failed myself as a creator and by extension my community. Eff it we get back up and keep balling. Thank you.

Man I think I feel worse now since I don't know if I could ever handle that and that means I really should drop dead as a result. Even if I know that I can take it and I can learn from it.

I needed this....really badly.... Thank you...

Heavy on this💯💯 to love truly is to be be vunlerable and mess ups happen its kinda what strengthens a bond🥺

"Shit happens and that's okay" explained! Wonderful words by Horatius as always. :>

this is good vid

Real

"I will fail, but I will also succeed at finding what does not work, and will grow from that." What started as a funny way to bounce back from failure became a mantra for growth.

So based and happy I found you

Sometimes (all the time) I refuse to befriend people I admire because having them as an acquaintance who barely knows me is easier than interacting more often and increasing the risk of disappointing them 🙃

I didn't know how much I needed to hear this, thank you Horatius

We had a saying back in the day that summarizes this. "It is better to have love and lost than to have never loved at all."

That reminded me of one of Dr. K shorts and I speak from memory and don't quote me One of the major problem in getting into a relationship is treating all "red flags" of an individual as equally the worst because like any overused word losing meaning, EVERYTHING IS A RED FLAG NOW

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