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Valentine’s Day is around the corner… Which means two things: 1️⃣ Restaurants are fully booked. 2️⃣ Red flags are temporarily looking pink 🌸🚩😂 So before you book that candlelight dinner… let’s quickly talk about relationship red flags and green flags — with love, laughter, and a little common sense....

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Gaur Gopal Das

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81,094 views • 6 months ago

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Greg Laurie

14,127 views • 1 year ago

love how woonhak was telling riwoo about tansansu while literally walking in circles like he really cannot believe tansansu said “I love you” to him 😭 im crying the 3x speed storytelling is so funny ngl 🧸: i just suddenly missed her, so i called and said i wanted to see her. then she was like, “why are you like that oppa” and i was like, “wow, how can you talk to me like that?” so i asked, “what are you doing? isn’t it children’s day the day after tomorrow? what are you up to?” and then she told me “oppa, you know that im off tomorrow and the day after” so i said “really? then what are you doing tomorrow?” and suddenly she goes "im going to the sea in incheon” 🧸i asked what she was going there for and who she was going with, and she said no one else just her and one friend. she has this really close best friend. so my younger sibling is going on a little outing not really a trip, more like a day trip to incheon with that friend, just the two of them. and as his older brother, of course i was worried. like, how are the two of them going to manage that? she's only in second year of middle school. But she said, “oppa, you used to take the subway around by yourself too, right? i can do it.” so i was like… okay. i tried to act cool and just sent her 100,000 won. i even told her, “take a taxi when you go, and take a taxi back.” yeah… that’s the kind of person i am, i guess. anyway, i sent it. 🧸 then suddenly, she told me she loves me. when she try to say “i love you,” she usually hesitate a lot and end up not saying it. but right after i sent the money, she suddenly went, “oppa, i love you.” like does that even make sense? 🧸 but still, hearing it made me really happy. i felt so good, so i just told her, “have fun.” then yesterday, maybe she was really touched by the allowance or something my younger sibling suddenly called me on facetime. she never does that, you know. 🧸 but i couldn’t answer because i was busy with my schedule. then she sent me a video of the sea and texted, “oppa, what are you doing?” that kind of thing never happens, so it made me really happy. anyway, yeah… just a small little episode.

kiki ⛈️

11,525 views • 5 months ago

Bint: We’re going to be together for a long time, so I feel like we have to be partners for a long time too. I’ve always thought that if possible, it’d be really nice if we could stay friends for the rest of our lives. Because we have to be around each other anyway. Like, we have to go to fan meetings together, live our lives together and things like that. Bint: So I just reached out and said, “Let’s go through this together. Let’s smile together. Let’s go to classes together. Let’s travel together. Let’s live our lives together.” Bint: It’s about getting to know each other first. 🎤: Yes, especially since you two had to be on camera together. Bint: Yes. 🎤: Before that, you two didn’t really know each other that well, right? Bint: We’d never really had a private conversation before. Bint: But once I found out that she got the role, I immediately reached out to her. Then we got to travel together and spend time together, so we got to know each other much more. 🎤: What’s your relationship like now? Bint: It’s pretty much the same, actually. I feel like once we got to know each other, we didn’t really try to change ourselves that much. We just show each other who we naturally are. If I’m like this, then I’ll just be like this. And if she’s like that, she’ll just be like that. We kind of show each other our true selves and share things with each other. 🎤: Is there something about you two that you feel is similar? You two are kind of similar, aren’t you? Bint: Am I? 🎤: Your body shape and personality. You even have similar proportions and stuff, right? Bint: Yeah, actually our height and proportions are pretty similar. Even our shoe size is the same. So we can borrow each other’s shoes. 🎤: Yeah, it’s a really close match. Bint: Very close. Puinoon: Okay, and some people have actually told us that we look alike. Basically like sister. Bint: But she’s beautiful. Which means I’m beautiful too. Puinoon: P’Bint, you are beautiful. Bint: Then I’m beautiful too. Puinoon: Yeah😆 KHOM KHLANG MEDIA TOUR #ปุยนุ่นบิ้นท์พบพระมาพบสื่อ #puinoonbint

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23,364 views • 13 days ago

stefan van de graaff, director of “one of us,” on casting kit connor in the lead role: “that's actually really kind of incredible story. so we knew that we wanted to cast around the lead actor, which, in this case, is kit. he plays a character named youngest. we wanted to cast around it first. […] we went to independent, which is the talent agency that kit is repped by in the uk, and originally, we had approached other actors. i had kit on my shortlist as people that i wanted in the film, but when i reviewed his work, i thought he might just be a little bit too young for the role. so we actually went and approached a few other actors first, and we had one booked, but he got really sick and—literally two weeks before we were filming—so we went back to independent and they said, ‘who else are you looking at? is there anybody else that we can put on?’ and i had, again, reviewed kit's work in the past, and i said, ‘talk to me about kit. i love him. i think he's a brilliant actor. i think he has just the right look. i think he's a little young.’ and his agent was just really effusive about saying he's the most mature person you'll ever meet. he carries himself as an adult. yes, he's, you know, i think he was 19 at the time. but that will not come through in his effort and his, you know, his capability. and so i had a phone call with kit, and it was very clear that he punched well above his weight in terms of his age. he's wise beyond his years and was extremely talented and thorough, and so, cast him, and that has ended up being a really, really incredible sequence of events because i absolutely loved working with him, and i don't think the film is the film without him. so it's been very fortunate.” 🔗:

kit connor updates

19,836 views • 8 months ago

what a lovely interview 🫂❤️ "you're quite a big advocate for mental health. what are your daily habits that keep you thinking positively?" lando: "the most important thing is to stay off social media too much. a little bit is fine, and i still use it a little bit every now and then, but certainly not every day. and certainly not, morning and evening. you waste so much of your life just scrolling and looking at your phone. it's just not a good thing. and i guess in my line of work, you see a lot of great things said about you. you also see sometimes the complete opposite, dealing with that was not something i was always the best in. so i also worked with specialists in mental health and psychologists to improve how i'm able to read things, to understand things, how i'm able to have more self-confidence. of course, certainly, winning the championship last year was a big help in this kind of situation, but yeah, everyone is different. so i don't think there is one thing that if everyone does this, they're fine. that's not how it works in the world. so you have to really find what works for you, and for me, always having a very good group of people around me as well. my friends are always there to support me and text me and call me, vice versa. i love to spend time with my friends, and really that's one of the biggest things i started to do more was try and spend more time away with my friends, traveling, doing things, cause this is the thing that really brings me the most joy in my life. so understanding what triggers you, what makes you unhappy. what are those things and try and fix them or come up with ways of working around it or removing it completely from your life and also working and understanding what is a good thing for you. there is no easy answer. cause nothing's easy in life. so you still need discipline. you still need to go to the gym and exercise and work and do these things. not everything comes towards you in life, so you still have to work hard. but as long as you have a good baseline of every time you go home, you are excited to sleep or spend some time with your friends or watch a bit of tv or read a book, and excited to wake up the next day and try and do it again or try and do better, then that's a good mentality to have"

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73,703 views • 28 days ago

This video is the one Kim Runner shared with me in July 2024 about how to tell whether you or others are NPCs. I can vividly imagine the stickiness and feel of holding an apple in my hand, the sensation of it denting when I squeeze it hard, its smell, and even its texture. Honestly, I was greatly shocked to learn that some people cannot do this. Below is the transcript of the audio.⬇️ Have you guys seen this experiment where you can not only test if the people around you are NPCs, but if you yourself are? Check this out. And if you don't know what an NPC is, basically, in the video game world, it's someone that's not being controlled by a person, just a random computer-generated thing. And in the real world, same thing, maybe just someone that's not being controlled by a soul. So I heard this experiment on a podcast, and I thought it was kind of crazy until I tried it out myself. And it has to do with apples. And you can probably use any object, but for our purposes, we're going to stick with apples. So there are going to be multiple layers to what I'm going to ask you to imagine. And depending on how far you can imagine it might just depend on if you're an NPC or not. So with this blank screen, I want you to picture a red apple here. Can you picture a red apple? If you can, great. So far, you're not an NPC. Next, I'd like you to think of that red apple, and in your mind—you can close your eyes if you need to—think of that apple as green. Can you change it to a green apple? Can you see a green apple without looking at it? Now stick with me. We're getting to the good parts here. If you can picture a red apple and then a green apple, great, but here's where a lot of people get stuck. And I'm taking away the image here. I want you to picture that green apple in your mind, and can you go in, and can you pick up that apple? Can you manipulate it? Can you move it around? Can you in your mind be holding it, and then all of a sudden it turns from green to purple? Do you have the ability to do that? Because for me, I could, no problem. I could hold that, I could throw it, I could take a bite of it, anything I wanted to do with that apple, I could do in my mind. But the shocking part was, as I was listening to this on the podcast, one person, they were stuck. They couldn't do anything but change colors. They couldn't grab it, they couldn't manipulate it. It was stuck there. One person couldn't even change colors of the apple. But I didn't believe this until I tried it on my wife. And my wife, she could change the color—she could go green and red—but she didn't have the ability to manipulate that apple. She couldn't grab that apple, she couldn't throw that apple. I'm juggling this apple, I'm doing all sorts of things with it, but hers is just a stuck image. And I thought that was nuts. I thought just because I had the ability to manipulate things in my mind and control things, that everybody did, but clearly that's not the case. And this leads me down the path of maybe this is why some people can't grasp the topics or the understanding of not living where we've been told we live our entire lives, because they can't visualize it, they can't think outside the green and red apple. Now, I'm not actually saying my wife is an NPC, but I do think our brains operate differently. I do think some are more right, some are more left, some are right down the middle, and some just don't really choose to think. But try it out, guys, because I found it fascinating, and I would love to hear how you did during this little experiment. Put it in the comments, test it on the people around you, and let me know, cause I want to know if I'm in the majority or if I'm in the minority. But something tells me I might be in the minority. But guys, as always, this was all for entertainment purposes. I don't really think my wife is an NPC... (Female voice) Tyler, can you come here?

kouji 🇯🇵

121,329 views • 17 days ago

Céline Sciamma on why she made "Portrait of a Lady on Fire" (2019) & on Leonardo Di Caprio being a Lesbian icon: "Sciamma: What I had in mind above all was to make a film about love, with a totally invented story. And when I thought about it, I found that there were few films totally devoted to love, even though they are often the greatest in the history of cinema. It's rare, even though it's the beating heart of our cinephiles. Interviewer: What movies were you thinking of? Sciamma: 'Titanic' (1997), for example. It's a real influence, which I recently revisited. Both films are about the memories of a love affair, almost behind closed doors. I spent a long time looking for a framework and then one day I looked at the script and I thought: "F**k, it's Titanic! It's simply Titanic." There's the prologue, of course, before the flashback, but also the drawing scene, which is very explicit in my film. With this dialogue: "Don't laugh, be serious…" Interviewer Is it an important film for you? Sciamma: Collectively, it's important. There are different film regimes that count in our cinephilia: those we love and those that are part of a collective phenomenon. It's rare to experience those moments, especially when it's about 'Titanic' and not 'Qu’est-ce qu’on a fait au bon Dieu?' (2014). Titanic was a cultural moment, and in my life as a cinephile, it's probably the most important one, even more so because of the shared love. And with a real queer dynamic! Leo DiCaprio is a lesbian icon. A very new masculinity at the time, in cinema - with time it deepens enormously, it's exciting to watch. At the time, in that youth and in that body, there was really something hyper queer. And then the love scene is a total inversion of the conventions: she's on top of him, she reassures him, he’s the one who’s breathless... All that in the back seat of a car, like in any good teen movie. There were great subversive effects in 'Titanic', and that's something James Cameron always did anyway. What it also has in common with my film is the idea that the greatest loves are emancipatory and that the loss of them is the price of our future fulfillment. At the end of 'Titanic', there are three photos of a girl in pants riding a horse! It’s one of the few films that asserts that love can bring positive things, even when it's over. In my opinion, this is one of the hidden reasons for the incredible success of the film." ("CÉLINE SCIAMMA : DiCaprio est une icône lesbienne.", Axel Cadieux, Sofilm, 2020) P.S: On this day, 7 years ago, "Portrait of a Lady on Fire" (2019) premiered at the Cannes Film Festival, France.

DepressedBergman

29,082 views • 4 months ago