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What is it about a baby's smile that can make you forget about everything else in the world for just a moment? There's something almost impossible to explain about the simple happiness of a baby. A little smile, a laugh that comes out of nowhere, those wide eyes when... they discover something new, or the way they get excited when they see someone they love. None of it has to be complicated. In fact, that's probably part of what makes it so wonderful. Babies don't need expensive toys, fancy vacations, or some elaborate plan to have a good time. Sometimes all it takes is someone making a silly face, singing a ridiculous song, playing peekaboo, or simply picking them up and giving them a little attention. And watching a baby experience these ordinary moments can remind us how much adults tend to overcomplicate happiness. We spend so much time chasing bigger houses, better cars, more money, more recognition, and the next thing on our list that we can forget how much joy can be found in something as simple as hearing a child laugh. There's also something special about seeing a baby's personality begin to emerge. You start noticing the little expressions, the funny habits, the things that make them curious, and the people they seem especially happy to see. Every day brings some tiny new development that wasn't there yesterday. For parents and grandparents, those moments can become some of the memories you treasure most. The days can be exhausting. The sleepless nights are real. Raising a child is a huge responsibility. But then that little face lights up when they see you, and suddenly the exhaustion doesn't seem quite as important. Maybe that's one of the beautiful things about babies. They don't have to accomplish anything to bring happiness into a room. They just have to be there. How much of the happiness we're searching for as adults is already found in the simple things we stopped noticing?show more

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Last week, I marked my birthday in a simple way—but it left me with a powerful reminder. I may not have abundance, but I have enough to make a difference in someone’s life. Giving isn’t about how much we have; it’s about the heart behind what we share. Sometimes it’s a meal, a kind word, a small gift, or even just showing up for someone who feels forgotten. Those “little” things can mean everything to someone in need. This past week opened my eyes again: generosity is not reserved for the wealthy. It belongs to anyone willing to care. As I step into this new year of my life, I’m choosing to be more intentional—giving what I can, when I can, and trusting that even the smallest act of kindness carries great value. If each of us does a little, together we can create something truly meaningful. Let’s keep giving, no matter how small. 💛

Last week, I marked my birthday in a simple way—but it left me with a powerful reminder. I may not have abundance, but I have enough to make a difference in someone’s life. Giving isn’t about how much we have; it’s about the heart behind what we share. Sometimes it’s a meal, a kind word, a small gift, or even just showing up for someone who feels forgotten. Those “little” things can mean everything to someone in need. This past week opened my eyes again: generosity is not reserved for the wealthy. It belongs to anyone willing to care. As I step into this new year of my life, I’m choosing to be more intentional—giving what I can, when I can, and trusting that even the smallest act of kindness carries great value. If each of us does a little, together we can create something truly meaningful. Let’s keep giving, no matter how small. 💛

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HANDLE THE BALL AGAINST PRESSURE This clip is a masterclass in handling the ball against pressure. Most players think that the more moves they make, the better BallHandler they are. In reality, a players ability to Start-Go-Stop is what makes them productive. Do you have a starting move that can get you downhill. On that ‘go’ can you be in control under pressure. Then, do you have the ability to stop to create separation, and be comfortable in a face up so that you can make a decision and play.

Steve Dagostino

25,797 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr

Hills I will die on as an elementary school teacher, who just wrapped up my 32nd year teaching! 1. If you are not PASSIONATE about blessing, serving, and empowering those you are blessed to teach, this profession is not for you. 2. Our students are not “ours”. They are their families, and we need to understand the magnitude of the calling, and responsibility we have to meet them where they are, and to help them to get to a place that they never thought possible. 3. As important as the curriculum is (and it IS important), the children in our classroom are what matter most. It’s our JOB to teach the curriculum to SERVE our students, NOT to use our students to push any sort of agenda. 4. Just as we teach our students to “leave things better than they found them”, we need to leave our students better than they were when they first entered into our classroom. Never let a day pass without pouring into each and every child. 5. We should not teach our children WHAT to think, but HOW to think, and how to use that knowledge to bless and serve not only themselves, but the world around them. 6. Our words carry little (or NO value), if we do not practice what we preach. 7. If we don’t make learning fun, children will view learning as a chore, and we we will be creating a generation of children who grow up to be young adults who don’t see the joy in learning new things. 8. The child that may be “difficult to reach/teach” (the one who may get on your last nerve more than you could ever imagine), is someone’s EVERYTHING. Get to know them as human beings, find out what motivates them, and do everything you can to help them to thrive. 9. Never tell a child they “can’t” do something. God has blessed each of them with far more strengths and talents than we may know, and it’s not our job to tell them what they can’t do, but to help them to realize all the things they CAN do. 10. The legacy you leave as a teacher will never be determined by your student’s test scores, but by the human beings you helped them become throughout their lives.

Hills I will die on as an elementary school teacher, who just wrapped up my 32nd year teaching! 1. If you are not PASSIONATE about blessing, serving, and empowering those you are blessed to teach, this profession is not for you. 2. Our students are not “ours”. They are their families, and we need to understand the magnitude of the calling, and responsibility we have to meet them where they are, and to help them to get to a place that they never thought possible. 3. As important as the curriculum is (and it IS important), the children in our classroom are what matter most. It’s our JOB to teach the curriculum to SERVE our students, NOT to use our students to push any sort of agenda. 4. Just as we teach our students to “leave things better than they found them”, we need to leave our students better than they were when they first entered into our classroom. Never let a day pass without pouring into each and every child. 5. We should not teach our children WHAT to think, but HOW to think, and how to use that knowledge to bless and serve not only themselves, but the world around them. 6. Our words carry little (or NO value), if we do not practice what we preach. 7. If we don’t make learning fun, children will view learning as a chore, and we we will be creating a generation of children who grow up to be young adults who don’t see the joy in learning new things. 8. The child that may be “difficult to reach/teach” (the one who may get on your last nerve more than you could ever imagine), is someone’s EVERYTHING. Get to know them as human beings, find out what motivates them, and do everything you can to help them to thrive. 9. Never tell a child they “can’t” do something. God has blessed each of them with far more strengths and talents than we may know, and it’s not our job to tell them what they can’t do, but to help them to realize all the things they CAN do. 10. The legacy you leave as a teacher will never be determined by your student’s test scores, but by the human beings you helped them become throughout their lives.

Coach Hines 🇺🇸

62,267 Aufrufe • vor 4 Monaten

Some people see a man being very cruel to a young boy here. That's not what I see. Achilles just taught this young boy something important. Something most people never learn. They never have anyone to tell them. ACHILLES TOLD HIM. Sure, it hurts to hear the truth, many times. The only people who make their mark in this world, who do great things...are those who can overcome their fear. The boy is being honest. He's seen the warrior that Achilles is about to fight. He tells the truth. "I wouldnt' want to fight him." It seems cold and distant, what Achilles says to him in response: "That is why no one will remember your name." You can be safe. Or you can be great. We don't live in a world where you can be both. Do you want to be remembered? Do you want to be great? Do you want the glory? Well, you'll never achieve it in the safe zone, staying away from the danger. Life isn't about how much comfort you can enjoy. Life about doing things that matter. And that means... You have to WANT to fight the Thessalonian.

Some people see a man being very cruel to a young boy here. That's not what I see. Achilles just taught this young boy something important. Something most people never learn. They never have anyone to tell them. ACHILLES TOLD HIM. Sure, it hurts to hear the truth, many times. The only people who make their mark in this world, who do great things...are those who can overcome their fear. The boy is being honest. He's seen the warrior that Achilles is about to fight. He tells the truth. "I wouldnt' want to fight him." It seems cold and distant, what Achilles says to him in response: "That is why no one will remember your name." You can be safe. Or you can be great. We don't live in a world where you can be both. Do you want to be remembered? Do you want to be great? Do you want the glory? Well, you'll never achieve it in the safe zone, staying away from the danger. Life isn't about how much comfort you can enjoy. Life about doing things that matter. And that means... You have to WANT to fight the Thessalonian.

Brian Cates - Political Columnist & Pundit

30,434 Aufrufe • vor 4 Monaten

Have you ever looked at your paycheck, looked at your bills, and wondered where all the money went? There's something a lot of people don't talk about enough when it comes to being a man in today's world. For many men, there's still a strong desire to be able to provide, build a stable household, take care of the people they love, and have something left over at the end of the month. The problem is that doing that can feel harder and harder when the basic cost of living keeps eating up more of every paycheck. Rent or a mortgage, groceries, insurance, utilities, gas, car payments, repairs, medical expenses, and everything else can add up incredibly quickly. Even a man who works hard and tries to be responsible can sometimes feel like he is running just to stay in the same place. Then there are the unexpected expenses that always seem to show up at what feels like the worst possible time. That creates a lot of pressure. A man may feel like he is supposed to have everything figured out, even when he's dealing with the same rising costs and financial uncertainty as everyone else. He might not want to complain about it because he feels like he is supposed to simply handle it. But struggling financially does not automatically mean someone is lazy, irresponsible, or not trying hard enough. At the same time, there is something admirable about a man who keeps working toward a better situation instead of giving up. Maybe that means learning a new skill, taking on extra work, starting a business, cutting unnecessary expenses, or simply being patient while trying to get ahead. It may take longer than expected, and sometimes progress can be painfully slow. It's also important to remember that a man's worth should not be measured by the size of his paycheck. Providing for family is important of course, but being a good husband, father, friend, neighbor, and member of a community matters too. In a world where so many people are quietly struggling to keep up, maybe we should ask ourselves whether we are expecting ordinary working people to accomplish the extraordinary just to afford an ordinary life.

Have you ever looked at your paycheck, looked at your bills, and wondered where all the money went? There's something a lot of people don't talk about enough when it comes to being a man in today's world. For many men, there's still a strong desire to be able to provide, build a stable household, take care of the people they love, and have something left over at the end of the month. The problem is that doing that can feel harder and harder when the basic cost of living keeps eating up more of every paycheck. Rent or a mortgage, groceries, insurance, utilities, gas, car payments, repairs, medical expenses, and everything else can add up incredibly quickly. Even a man who works hard and tries to be responsible can sometimes feel like he is running just to stay in the same place. Then there are the unexpected expenses that always seem to show up at what feels like the worst possible time. That creates a lot of pressure. A man may feel like he is supposed to have everything figured out, even when he's dealing with the same rising costs and financial uncertainty as everyone else. He might not want to complain about it because he feels like he is supposed to simply handle it. But struggling financially does not automatically mean someone is lazy, irresponsible, or not trying hard enough. At the same time, there is something admirable about a man who keeps working toward a better situation instead of giving up. Maybe that means learning a new skill, taking on extra work, starting a business, cutting unnecessary expenses, or simply being patient while trying to get ahead. It may take longer than expected, and sometimes progress can be painfully slow. It's also important to remember that a man's worth should not be measured by the size of his paycheck. Providing for family is important of course, but being a good husband, father, friend, neighbor, and member of a community matters too. In a world where so many people are quietly struggling to keep up, maybe we should ask ourselves whether we are expecting ordinary working people to accomplish the extraordinary just to afford an ordinary life.

Declaration of Memes

22,331 Aufrufe • vor 15 Tagen

Narcissists ruin good and happy moments because deep down, they can't tolerate joy that isn't about them. When you're laughing, connecting, or simply feeling at peace, it reminds them of what they can't feel - and that triggers their deep sense of inadequacy. So instead of joining the joy, they hijack it. They might pick a fight out of nowhere, make a cruel comment, go cold and distant, or suddenly make everything about them. Why? Because your happiness makes them feel invisible, irrelevant, or out of control. But here's the truth: Your light is not the problem. It's their need to dominate every emotional space, and their inability to feel joy unless it feeds their ego. You deserve moments of peace and happiness that aren't disrupted by someone else's chaos. Remember… it's not you.

Narcissists ruin good and happy moments because deep down, they can't tolerate joy that isn't about them. When you're laughing, connecting, or simply feeling at peace, it reminds them of what they can't feel - and that triggers their deep sense of inadequacy. So instead of joining the joy, they hijack it. They might pick a fight out of nowhere, make a cruel comment, go cold and distant, or suddenly make everything about them. Why? Because your happiness makes them feel invisible, irrelevant, or out of control. But here's the truth: Your light is not the problem. It's their need to dominate every emotional space, and their inability to feel joy unless it feeds their ego. You deserve moments of peace and happiness that aren't disrupted by someone else's chaos. Remember… it's not you.

Julius . D

101,470 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr

Ever wanted to get some rest when you have a toddler? 😂😂😂 How'd that work out for you? 😂 Toddlers have a gift for finding things they shouldn't touch, whatever that is... Cabinets. Drawers. Dog food. Toilet paper. Anything left within reach becomes an adventure. You finally get them settled. You sit down. Maybe you get a few minutes of peace. Then you hear something. Or worse, you hear nothing. When you have a toddler, silence can be the most suspicious sound of all. You walk into the other room and find a tiny tornado pulling everything apart like he's conducting an important investigation. And somehow you're exhausted before the day is even halfway over. That's the toddler years. Your patience gets tested. Your sleep gets interrupted. Your house gets messy. Your plans get pushed around. But there's something worth remembering in the middle of all that chaos. This is your kid. This is the season when they are learning everything. Their curiosity is running wild. Their personality is coming alive. Every day they discover something new, and you get a front row seat. So yes, Dad is tired. Dad would also like to finish one cup of coffee while it's still hot. But this stage won't last forever. One day the house will be quiet. The little footsteps won't be racing down the hallway. Nobody will be opening every cabinet just to see what's inside. You might actually miss the chaos. So get some rest when you can. Hold the line when you need to. Laugh when you can. The toddler years are exhausting. They are also priceless. When you look back years from now, will you remember only how tired you were, or how lucky you were to be there for it?

Ever wanted to get some rest when you have a toddler? 😂😂😂 How'd that work out for you? 😂 Toddlers have a gift for finding things they shouldn't touch, whatever that is... Cabinets. Drawers. Dog food. Toilet paper. Anything left within reach becomes an adventure. You finally get them settled. You sit down. Maybe you get a few minutes of peace. Then you hear something. Or worse, you hear nothing. When you have a toddler, silence can be the most suspicious sound of all. You walk into the other room and find a tiny tornado pulling everything apart like he's conducting an important investigation. And somehow you're exhausted before the day is even halfway over. That's the toddler years. Your patience gets tested. Your sleep gets interrupted. Your house gets messy. Your plans get pushed around. But there's something worth remembering in the middle of all that chaos. This is your kid. This is the season when they are learning everything. Their curiosity is running wild. Their personality is coming alive. Every day they discover something new, and you get a front row seat. So yes, Dad is tired. Dad would also like to finish one cup of coffee while it's still hot. But this stage won't last forever. One day the house will be quiet. The little footsteps won't be racing down the hallway. Nobody will be opening every cabinet just to see what's inside. You might actually miss the chaos. So get some rest when you can. Hold the line when you need to. Laugh when you can. The toddler years are exhausting. They are also priceless. When you look back years from now, will you remember only how tired you were, or how lucky you were to be there for it?

Declaration of Memes

17,242 Aufrufe • vor 19 Stunden

What if some of the most important lessons you teach your kids happen at the dinner table? Healthy eating habits are much easier to build when children are young. That doesn't mean putting them on some strict diet or making every meal a battle. It means helping them understand that what they eat affects how they feel, how much energy they have, and how well their bodies function. Kids should learn to enjoy real, nutritious foods while also understanding that treats are treats. Learning to read labels, pay attention to portions, drink more water, and recognize how different foods make them feel can give them tools they'll use long after they leave home. Parents also have a huge influence simply by setting the example. Children notice what we eat, how often we eat it, and the way we talk about food. If healthy choices are a normal part of family life, they're much more likely to become normal choices for the child too. The goal isn't perfection. It's teaching awareness and giving kids the knowledge to eventually make good decisions for themselves. What kind of relationship with food are you helping your children build today?

What if some of the most important lessons you teach your kids happen at the dinner table? Healthy eating habits are much easier to build when children are young. That doesn't mean putting them on some strict diet or making every meal a battle. It means helping them understand that what they eat affects how they feel, how much energy they have, and how well their bodies function. Kids should learn to enjoy real, nutritious foods while also understanding that treats are treats. Learning to read labels, pay attention to portions, drink more water, and recognize how different foods make them feel can give them tools they'll use long after they leave home. Parents also have a huge influence simply by setting the example. Children notice what we eat, how often we eat it, and the way we talk about food. If healthy choices are a normal part of family life, they're much more likely to become normal choices for the child too. The goal isn't perfection. It's teaching awareness and giving kids the knowledge to eventually make good decisions for themselves. What kind of relationship with food are you helping your children build today?

Declaration of Memes

17,165 Aufrufe • vor 13 Tagen

Is your toddler suddenly throwing (or dropping) everything they get their hands on? Food, toys… you name it. You’re not alone. This week I’ve been introducing play schemas, 9 common patterns that can help to demystify your toddler’s seemingly random behaviors. And you guessed it: this is one. We call it the trajectory schema. If you take nothing else away from this post, let it be this: your little one doesn’t throw things because they are misbehaving or “bad.” Babies throw things because they are babies. And they are learning as they do so. Learning about cause and effect. Learning about gravity. Learning what (and practicing something new) they can do with their bodies. Learning hand-eye coordination. It’s a completely normal part of development. And the fascination won’t last forever. The real question is, how do you manage it? First, be proactive. Expect that anything your little one handles might reasonably be thrown or dropped. So choose wisely, avoiding items that are valuable or might pose a danger to them or others if they suddenly took flight. Second, depending on the age of your child, begin introducing some natural consequences. Put the toy/object away temporarily after it is thrown (if throwing it is dangerous or inappropriate). And involve your child in the subsequent clean-up. You can also redirect. Explain which things are and are not for throwing. Model the correct use of these objects. Finally, lean into it. Recognizing that young children are drawn to throwing, provide items that are safe and acceptable to throw. Soft toys. Socks. Balls. And look for opportunities and settings for your little one to explore this urge safely and appropriately. How did you manage your toddler’s throwing phase? Welcome your tips and tricks! This sweet little throwing machine was posted to TT by kristinnicole122.

Is your toddler suddenly throwing (or dropping) everything they get their hands on? Food, toys… you name it. You’re not alone. This week I’ve been introducing play schemas, 9 common patterns that can help to demystify your toddler’s seemingly random behaviors. And you guessed it: this is one. We call it the trajectory schema. If you take nothing else away from this post, let it be this: your little one doesn’t throw things because they are misbehaving or “bad.” Babies throw things because they are babies. And they are learning as they do so. Learning about cause and effect. Learning about gravity. Learning what (and practicing something new) they can do with their bodies. Learning hand-eye coordination. It’s a completely normal part of development. And the fascination won’t last forever. The real question is, how do you manage it? First, be proactive. Expect that anything your little one handles might reasonably be thrown or dropped. So choose wisely, avoiding items that are valuable or might pose a danger to them or others if they suddenly took flight. Second, depending on the age of your child, begin introducing some natural consequences. Put the toy/object away temporarily after it is thrown (if throwing it is dangerous or inappropriate). And involve your child in the subsequent clean-up. You can also redirect. Explain which things are and are not for throwing. Model the correct use of these objects. Finally, lean into it. Recognizing that young children are drawn to throwing, provide items that are safe and acceptable to throw. Soft toys. Socks. Balls. And look for opportunities and settings for your little one to explore this urge safely and appropriately. How did you manage your toddler’s throwing phase? Welcome your tips and tricks! This sweet little throwing machine was posted to TT by kristinnicole122.

Dan Wuori

168,975 Aufrufe • vor 2 Jahren

Hills I will die on as someone who has coached high school football for over 29 years: 1. If you are not PASSIONATE about blessing, serving, and empowering those you are blessed to coach, this profession is not for you. 2. As much as we need to know our trade, getting to know (and to love), our players is far more important. 3. This is an INTENSE game, and it’ll never be “just a game”, but it IS a game. Remember that when you’re with your team, and more importantly, remember that when you’re with your family. 4. Just as we teach our athletes to “leave things better than they found them”, we need to leave our athletes better than they were when they first entered into our program. Never let a day pass without pouring into each and every individual. 5. Life is complicated enough, let’s not complicate the game in such a way that we take the joy of it away from others. In other words… Keep it simple. 6. Our words carry little (or NO), value, if we don’t practice what we preach. WE as coaches should be learning and growing each and every day, just as we expect our athletes to. 7. As much as we all want to win those championship rings for our athletes, make sure you don’t lose your wedding ring in the process. 8. The athlete that may be “difficult to reach/teach” (the one who may get on your last nerve more than you could ever imagine), is someone’s EVERYTHING. Get to know them as human beings, find out what motivates them, and do everything you can to help them to thrive. 9. Be where your feet are. Don’t fall into the trap of chasing logos and thinking that a higher division, a bigger school, or going from HS to college, or even college to the pros, is going to be more rewarding or fulfilling. 10. The legacy you leave as a coach will never be determined by your wins and losses, but by the lives you were able to change for the better!

Hills I will die on as someone who has coached high school football for over 29 years: 1. If you are not PASSIONATE about blessing, serving, and empowering those you are blessed to coach, this profession is not for you. 2. As much as we need to know our trade, getting to know (and to love), our players is far more important. 3. This is an INTENSE game, and it’ll never be “just a game”, but it IS a game. Remember that when you’re with your team, and more importantly, remember that when you’re with your family. 4. Just as we teach our athletes to “leave things better than they found them”, we need to leave our athletes better than they were when they first entered into our program. Never let a day pass without pouring into each and every individual. 5. Life is complicated enough, let’s not complicate the game in such a way that we take the joy of it away from others. In other words… Keep it simple. 6. Our words carry little (or NO), value, if we don’t practice what we preach. WE as coaches should be learning and growing each and every day, just as we expect our athletes to. 7. As much as we all want to win those championship rings for our athletes, make sure you don’t lose your wedding ring in the process. 8. The athlete that may be “difficult to reach/teach” (the one who may get on your last nerve more than you could ever imagine), is someone’s EVERYTHING. Get to know them as human beings, find out what motivates them, and do everything you can to help them to thrive. 9. Be where your feet are. Don’t fall into the trap of chasing logos and thinking that a higher division, a bigger school, or going from HS to college, or even college to the pros, is going to be more rewarding or fulfilling. 10. The legacy you leave as a coach will never be determined by your wins and losses, but by the lives you were able to change for the better!

Coach Hines 🇺🇸

64,993 Aufrufe • vor 3 Monaten