What women don’t understand about men…

There is no need to play a riddle. Once married, be open and talk about your feelings. You are not dating anymore. It will do good to both of you.

Women choose courtship, men pick wives. Women are conservative with who they date, men are conservative with who they marry. Women are picky when it comes to sex, men are picky when it comes to commitment. To be a wife you have to be selected. We need Fathers to teach this.

Then if a man does something without asking.... guess what? He'll be nagged at for doing it wrong

This isn’t true. My husband reads my mind all the time. He pretty much always knows what I’m thinking. Maybe I’m just really simple or something 🤷‍♀️

Get a grip there are important things happening , if u wanna hug go give him one , if u wanna go out tell him , if that’s all the problems you have then you don’t have any

If they'd stop nagging so much, we might even listen more.

Relationship are routine. Routine is stability. Stability is safety. Ask her this: what REWARD do you want for MAINTAINING a ROUTINE? Physical contact is a love language she was asking for as a reward for maintaining a routine. Relationship are routine.

Wait till yall realize that this divide is largely because we raised men and women to speak differently. Aka, we created this problem and perpetuate it by leaning into this. Maybe the message should be both parties need to learn and speak the same language.

If you only hear 25% of what your partner says. You've got issues.