What’s your take home from this conversation…

I agree with him. It’s a team effort

She didn’t even listen to him, all she was waiting for was to react to what he said without fully processing the information he just gave her

I agree with him. Clearly she is NOT the person for him. I was raised in a two parent household and my parents taught Us shared responsibilities. Even if my father cooked on a particular day my mother would automatically do things to help my father out. That is what being a help meet/help mate does.

He made it very clear

But what happened to giving people grace to learn how to love you in a language you understand… it happened once and that once was it.. I don’t know I just believe he could’ve been gentle on her and tought her.

He took himself out, he knows his worth

THERE IS NO IN TEAM BUT BE FUCKIN FR! yall deserve to be alone and single. COMMUNICATION IS KEY. If i don’t feel up to doing dishes I let my man know. Thank God he knows I have BPD also. Some days I clean the whole crib some im battling a mental rap battle and i can’t.

She's is very lucky, would have been miserable if she married him

Isn’t this the guy who prayed over her and acted like preacher man? She was tired one day and he threw her out because of one bad day? Whatever happened to grace or being a servant? Some days being a true partner you carry all the weight. Other days they got you.

i agree with him. many dont want to put in the work.