What’s your take on this?

It’s not a hot take. A woman can only respect a man because she loves him. If she doesn’t have respect for him, shukuthi akam’thandi. I won’t respect a man if I don’t love him. Those two go hand in hand.

Too many motivational speaker and advisors when it comes to love,do what make you happy.

I stand with him

💯💯

I second that

Quoted straight from the bible, and he is right.

Hello Thendo, ngicela inhlonipho ne support

Say No more.

I can’t help but remember his famous words “mxelele lanto ondixelele yona apha phandle” 🤣😂🤣😂

We’ve been doing it wrong 🥹😭😭

It’s time we do it right..

@Ndlovukazy_ But how do we unlearn what we’ve been doing all along?

@ThendoRalph Zamo don’t beat yourself, thanda indoda mntase😂😂okunye nokunye sokuhleka after ,sesigiliwe 😂🤷🏼‍♂️

@ThendoRalph 😂😂😂😂😂pho ayagilana yini Jesu

@ThendoRalph Sana you will think you know the game, Kant Lutho they 100 steps ahead of you 😂😂😂😂😂

Bo "I can't eat, I can't sleep...all I do is cry" should listen to this😭😂😂😂

We have no business loving a man 😂

100%, men want respect , its their duty to love a woman, even the bible says so

Kusho ukuthi wayebuza abantu besifazane ikaka kwi nyan nyan, mayebabuza ukuthi yintoni le abayithandayo kumadoda wabo.

Ey Mina I’m not gonna listen to internet people when it comes to matters of my home.

This statement of Love&Respect can easily be distorted. Hayi ukuthi indoda ayithandwa bakithi… you show your love for a man through giving him respect. He’s misleading women this guy. 🤦🏾‍♂️

I feel like this belief is what started arranged marriages and (and I might just be pushing it) rapes in marriages.

Both man and woman needs love..however how each gender shows love is completely different..to men is showing love through respect..in a woman love is shown through provision and protection..both are forms of love

Kak! Okokuhlonipha noku supporta indoda akuveli kolothando na? Sometimes people say things and sound smart, but when you dissect the content..bull!

And then "the deed" becomes difficult ke ngoku 💀

My dad said, "You give a man emotional support ,respect, and b*ms kuphela"

He aint lying

I concur! But as I've always emphasised, we (the genders) are equal in value but have different roles. If we could just appreciate that, there would be less misunderstandings.

Nonsense! Women agree with this view because it involves "Men providing" and this is patriarchy dressed as a legitimate relationship procedure! Women have feelings like men, Mr Nyan Nyan must keep quiet.

You can not respect that which you do not love. The opposite is also true, though, to a large extent

When a man loves a woman, it’s easy for him to provide for her. In return, when a woman also loves a man, it’s easy for her to respect him.

Wayaka...

Facts

He's right and it explains the bravery of some ladies to jola/marry anything

Respect builds loyalty, loyalty sustains love. Love without respect becomes pity, obligation, or convenience. With out respect, that love loses its meaning and then she is definitly going to sink the ship. Respect is the fuel to sexual attraction.

Love and respect go hand-in-hand, even the Bible says: Titus 2:3-4 NIV [3]...teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. [4] Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands...

I love and i csnt hide it the love i feel for him ladalwa uye uThixo i saw him loved him not respected him what pulled me near him was love then i respect him coz i love him

He's drunk

Don't listen to this guy, it love doesn't have a gender, who provides for who is just a mere responsibility which is not possible where you don't love, respect and support is also a responsibility which is not possible where you do not love...LOVE has no gender.

This is scriptural. Men loves your wives, wives respect your husbands.

No simpler and greater truth

Nothing. I have my own opinion on things. If it aligns neyabantu it's okay, if not it's still okay.