Why Breakups Happen During And After Pregnancy.

Also women need to make Better decisions on who the fuck they are having kids with! These men usually show you how they are before you have kids with them

But these women be seeing the Red flags 🚩 and STILL …Get pregnant.. And after he tell her he don’t want it she STILL decide to keep it thinking the baby is gonna magically make him a better person

Listen to your bipolar ass… y’all are angry and miserable before postpartum… stop blaming men for your mental irresponsibility

Idgaf what this lady say. Depression isn’t an excuse to be a bitch & insufferable for no reason . A bunch of unwarranted unprovoked mood swings that a man gotta walk on eggshells for in a home he pay for gtfoh. PPD ain’t got nun on the kinda depression of having to be a provider

I don’t have kids but from what I’ve seen up close, I don’t think these chicks even really liked the bd to begin with

I agree with her. I think as a man, the biggest thing I struggle with when it comes to the concept of long-term commitment decisions & marriage is when you agree to terms because you like who the person is, their personality, and the way they think….and their identity changes AFTER the ink is dry. They literally become a different person, a person I didn’t make my agreement with. As a person whose ideals are heavily centered around integrity & people keeping their word - concepts like post partum sound like too much of a wild card to gamble with when the quality of my livelihood is on the line. I’m not saying I can’t empathize, but education and agreements on how to handle this beforehand is a must. I can understand how it can be overwhelming without proper planning. I just wish the specifics on what we can/should do as men was talked about more in detail.

Women should understand more about their own nature Then relying on a man that has nothing to do with their own emotional transformation Or maybe women should hire a stand in girl friend to be the partner for two years while she growing into mother hood

The problem is yall having babies wit niggas that don’t even like you from the jump. And honestly, you didn’t even like him… he was just 6’1” and had a beard. Why are you trying to explain postpartum to people that don’t give a fuck?!?

Simply because they can, there's government assistance, family enablers etc. If people don't want to deal with something they will not. Children, no children, pregnancy, no pregnancy.

U being emotional can make u not wanna take care of ya responsibilities 🧐😂 im tired of women shit ….. ya it’s a change of hormones etc but yall just will NEVER have accountability 😂😂😂😂😂 foh

That isnt the problem. Tryna blame men again. Yal just be fuck buddies. Yal dont plan on being together and having a family. Yal dont like eachother. Yal have multiple partners. Yal be immature asf. Has nothing 2 do with a womans emotions during and after pregnancy

Why doesn’t it make people quit their jobs, cut off family,or drop all their friends yet it’s suddenly the go-to reason for ending romantic relationships.Postpartum is real but let’s not remove agency or is only 1 in 8 women (CDC) it is not universal

That’s the thing once a woman becomes pregnant she changes so much basically becoming a whole different person & in my opinion I think that’s why relationships fall off during or after pregnancy .

I agree with her POV, because we all understand that women are in their most vulnerable state during and after pregnancy. What I didn’t hear is her saying that the accountability is also on the mother as well. I believe BOTH as new parents NEED to be as educated as possible. People(both sides) nowadays are just having sex to have sex and caring about what happens after. The men of course has to endure many changes that his woman is going through. If the man is a decent/good man the woman cannot justify being/become a completely horrendous person to him especially if he’s doing his best to aid her. Same for the man he can’t be disrespectful or distant because she’s going through hormonal changes she can’t necessarily control.

Postpartum is often an excuse for women with shitty personality to manipulate men. Using a baby as a pawn is what most of these mothers do. Men see the manipulation tactic. That’s why they leave. On the other hand, women who embrace motherhood make their child’s need a priority.

But why is it all on the man fgs??? I’m sick of y’all. Exactly since you have mothers and aunties grandmas that know EXACTLY whats going on help

Pick better men to have a baby with

Probably just make sure you’re in love with someone before you have a child. This takes more than a year to know if this is someone you admire and trust. If you hav those two things you’ll be good.

Don't say that men are making decisions to have babies some may want to and they go along, but Western women have 100% Monopoly on choice we give them 3 choices in fact while giving men absolutely none. Show at least a sense of responsibility when you're talking about this issue

Listen guys don’t this shit pay attention to your grandmother’s and mothers postpartum depression is not real. It’s just a fucking environment environment that is created for modern Day women. These whores be fucking talking about postpartum depression.

I think it’s because men can tell that yall don’t be trying hard enough to control it and are actually weaponizing the post partum excuse. Like we know it’s real but we can also tell that it’s exaggerated so yall can do n act however yall want with an excuse

The lessons that need to be learned Only have to be learned by women That is their nature, their emotional states and how to control themselves as they’re going through a This is the responsibility of women as an identity who surround other women Because going through transformation yes the person becomes a different identity altogether and the reality is is that is not the same person that the man signed up to be with which is why a lot of men leave because the women are actually intolerable because they haven’t earned the emotional capacity to understand even their own nature, and they’d rather a man do the fucking emotional growing for them

You’re still responsible for your own behavior during and after a pregnancy

This is true it happened to me

No lies detected.

So let's advocate for being with men with mental illness sense we want to play on chemical imbalances right... Let's be more proactive about understanding them just how you want understanding for PPD. By the way men can also experience PPD just the same but you know victim always

They don’t care about none of that, they just want to trap her and hinder her success in life. That’s it.

Stfu. Feed the baby despite how you feel about pookie post partum. And stfu

How about you get married first before you have a child…

It’s even in the music bsby mama bsby daddy this I f yo baby mama or i f yo bsby daddy it’s like it’s pose to happen everything be perfect we have a kid you wanna leave to the point you can juust make that your type people with kids cause they always single parents

It all comes down to ppl have to make better decisions on who they choose to have kids with.

Once the child goes to school is when women usually get bk to some sort of normalcy

Because someone wanted the baby and the other didn't. That's why. You can't just make a person be a parent ppl. All parties need to be on the same page. Stop fucking ppl that don't like you stupid!!!

This is something both parties should discuss before making the decision to have a child.

Don’t believe it man stay away from women like this postpartum is not real because when you and your girl break up, she will be out there fucking and living in a party life