Y’all come look at this.👴🏿

It all started with her mom, she married a deadbeat and suffered all through. This lady now inherited her trauma and as we can all see, she's irredeemably damaged. It will take a whole lot for her to heal. Mothers of yesteryears were naive and uneducated so they swallowed alot

A lot bro 💔💔

I’ve come to the conclusion that nothing really matters at the end of the day. You have people who grew up in peaceful, loving homes going on podcasts saying their mother married the wrong man because she should’ve married someone rich. They say they don’t want to be like her and would rather marry a rich man who beats them. It’s like those who grew up surrounded by love and peace seek chaos, while those who grew up in chaos seek peace.

True the life no balance sha

It definitely those ladies that have daddy issues. That your daddy is a monster doesn't mean every man is like your father.

I feel her pain,....It is really heartbreaking

Poor parenting has traumatized a whole lot of children

So, because cars have accidents, you won't buy a car even when you can afford one?

This is a different case bro, what are you saying?

I have come to understand that feminists are born out of sheer family issues and wahala. I grew up in a family full of love and all even though we have our downsides. I have taken immeasurable steps to make sure my children feel loved and grow up with God's fear and humility

Let me bust your head... Do you know a woman can cry her eyes out and become miserable because her husband refused to allow her use him? A man was branded a wicked man because he told his wife her parents are not his responsibilities. Don't let them trick you oo.

For the clowns saying she didn't look before she leaped at 16, or that she's with him because he's rich, as if poverty-stricken men don't do worse, I hope you aren't raising more animals in society, and aren't animals yourselves, because your daughters won't be spared. Anyone can

Any man that ends up marrying this girl will cryy pass new born babies.

It is always a single mum and daughter with daddy issues. The origin of the issue is a foundational issue, btw. The mum probably was at fault for marrying the dad, maybe because of what he possessed and not necessarily love. I have seen women on the same podcast who said they would rather stay with a man who is rich but toxic than stay with a loving and caring man who is steadily grinding and making ends meet when it comes to marriage

Nothin happened to her mom, that's her imagination to defend her faminist liftstyle, she hate men and she can't say anything meaningful, so she cooked emotionally blackmailing story to make her look right, she's a liar..

Vet her very well!!!

Dyg?

You can’t force any woman to be mother

If only she witnessed what a loving family looks like. Well, she has every right to decide on being single but project her fears and experience on other ladies is what I don't like. She's in no position to advice ladies on relationship issues

I don’t blame her one bit.

i can't even blame her her decision are based on real life experience and it's justifieble

We often make choices based on experience, but the truth is that not every decision we make has to be shaped by our personal experiences. Sometimes, we learn from the experiences of others. There are millions of beautiful marriages and healthy families out there that we can learn from and choose to model our lives after. I am not trying to downplay or invalidate her childhood trauma, but we must be careful not to allow a bad experience to dictate the decisions we make about our future. Having experienced a broken home should not automatically mean choosing a different path from marriage or family life. There are countless examples of loving marriages, responsible fathers, nurturing mothers, and healthy families that can serve as positive examples. Don't let a bad experience become the blueprint for your future when there are so many good examples you can learn from.

She's damaged goods. I don't pray she ends up with a good man. She will traumatize him. I pray she heals.

That's her bussiness. If she likes I know some men are useless but let's hear from her father too

So much trauma she incurred. This is really heartbreaking 💔 Her Mom was too young be bold enough to leave. She was still figuring out life when she got married and was helpless amidst the abuse. Imagine growing up in a marriage of endless torture, hence meeting early demise.

This is her trauma speaking and I can't blame her at all. What she experienced made her draw her conclusion. Going back you be like our mothers is a two-way thing. If the husbands have the mindset that a woman is a second class citizen in her home then kolewerk

Fortunately for me, my dad never raised his hands on my Mom for even a single day and they've been married for 36Years. So I'm gonna drop my 2cent advice here Which is: There are Men and there are animals. If you give yourself to an animal, expect an animalistic behavior.

She was 16 nauu, what do u expect????

Even tho, some men are beast

This girl might be lying because many of them do that alot 🤷‍♂️

Hello!!!, her mother is the cause of her pain. Her mother knows the man before she got married.. so nothing anybody one tell me. As man dey look family before he married na so it be for woman.. you as a girl you should do your research about the man before getting married to him.

Getting married is one thing and loving that person is another thing and building your home around love is another thing , when you let love be the order of the day in your home , your kids will be in a different level and see things clearly because they where raised with love .

Yeah women are saying yes to marry bad men. What’s the surprise. Women have been making wrong decisions since forever. Them no sabi reason dem de thing with feelings and emotions. There were good men that also approached her mom at 16 but guess who she picked. Mtchewww

I wish people.were honest with them selves not waste anybodys time

It's not our fault she ended with an evil spirit.

Your father is a monster

Sad reality of the effect of trauma.

We are not your father neither are we marrying your mother.. marriage is a choice and there’s nothing wrong with you being single.

This is referred trauma response. This is a projectional response. I sympathize with her. She needs trauma focused therapy. Giving other people advice from a place of lived trauma is dangerous but valid projection. One person’s experience does not invalidate the essence of the good things of life. Don’t live your life listening to trauma inspired advice from random people online. People need to heal; not given a camera to make contents!!

she probably saw neighbours who had a wonderful time, but no, she chose the bad example. Even if we switched the tables, where her family had a great time, if she saw her neighbour go through their time, she'll still ignore her own experience and draw from that of the neighbour

Everyone didn’t go through her experience either