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Your brain cannot tell the difference between a disaster that is happening and one you are only rehearsing. That’s why worst-case-scenario thinking isn’t “just being prepared.” It is building a brain that learns how to stay afraid. Neuroplasticity means you don’t live with the brain you were born with....

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KJ 的头像
KJ5 天前

Matthew 6:27 “Can any one of you by worrying add a single day to your life?” Being anxious almost seems like it is preparation, but it never helps. Trying to give it to God.

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

Amen

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justAmy5 天前

“Do not fear” is an instruction given to us by God Himself. Thank you for the “Brain Train” lesson!

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

Amen!🙏

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Trump Granny5 天前

I subscribe to him on YouTube and Christian’s I’m asking you to do the same. I’ve never had as much clarity as I do after watching his videos.

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

Thank you 🙏

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MarineWifeAndMom5 天前

@Deidra8378021 Sooo true. I’ve spent most of my life in fight or flight…. I no longer have to live that way, but that trigger is still there. The closer I get to Christ the calmer my brain gets. Nighttime is usually when it creeps back in 😑

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

@Deidra8378021 Amen

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Moose's Mom 🫎5 天前

I love your posts, you are a blessing. I was stuck in fight or flight mode for most of my adult life. Once I changed my thinking my life changed for the better. I no longer suffer from debilitating anxiety and when it rears its ugly head I now have the tools to reset.

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

Thank you so much.

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D Paige W5 天前

“What if it works out?” -what a concept! I mean, really!!! Love it!!

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

Right?

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Cindy5 天前

Love your posts Doc, … use your front lobe, stay thankful, keep praying, peaceful … stay positive & problems get solved.

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Vicky Tarpey5 天前

Thank you Dr. Warren. I felt like you were speaking directly to me. I needed that today.

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

Thank you

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The Long Horizon Framework5 天前

We can prepare for some things in life: You can pack a bag for a trip, or a bag for when the baby is about to come. You prepare for negative things as well. Like food, water, and battery backups, in case of an emergency. But when you spiral, and are living in that disasterous moment, you arent allowing yourself to see any of the good things that can happen. Lets say you are imagining a horrible situation at work or with friends or family, and you can only think of the worst possible outcomes. What about the good outcomes? What about a new connection you could make at work, or a new friend? Or you renew a lost connection with a family member? Those moments are so much more filling in our daily lives than any disaster could take away from us. Make the memories, dont rehearse what isnt real. Great post Dr! Thank you

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

Amen. Thanks!😊

Leah 🌻♥️ 的头像
Leah 🌻♥️5 天前

Definitely my favorite internet brain surgeon! Thank you for your posts!! 🙏

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

Thanks!

Pauline Dzengelewski 的头像
Pauline Dzengelewski5 天前

Love it!

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Franklin D5 天前

Thank you, Dr. Warren! As your hands perform miracles, so are your words and faith in our Lord, Jesus Christ.

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Lindsay Turner5 天前

I needed this message, thank you! ☺️

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Suno5 天前

This is such a kind reminder: the mind rehearses what we give it. I’m holding onto the thought that a little gratitude can gently make more room for peace 🤍🧠

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

🙏

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🅱️ bhenrystrong 🇺🇸5 天前

Thank you for sharing! These post are seriously helping me and my family!🙏 GOD BLESS YOU ❤️

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

You too!

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Cker5 天前

It’s one thing to imagine worst case scenario it’s another to actually look at facts and plan accordingly.

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

🎯

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Jennifer JJ Johnson5 天前

The basis of my practice for the last 18 years

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

🙏

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Scott Schure5 天前

I've mulled the post here over and decided it's worth considering. For me though surprises give me anxiety. They're a lot unavoidable and still they're definitely some avoidable. So ultimately, i find peace in worst case scenario thinking. It's not something I struggle with and ruminate seemingly endlessly on anymore. It's compartmentalized well for me I feel and usually find success creating a nice peaceful best case scenario for all scenarios and it doesn't seem to take too long and does help me avoid some surprises I think and even deal w surprises better. I always tell myself it could be worse. And think it could be better, and then think would better even be manageable or possibly make things worse. Ultimately, some things are like mindless fun exercise and other things are like things where one could lose life and limb and i like to mind trying keep all my life and limbs best. It doesn't give me anxiety it reminds me of peace.

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Gretchen Cosby5 天前

Thank you 🙏

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

Thank you!🙏

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soli YHWH. Darla.5 天前

❤️❤️

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Redeemed5 天前

John 10:10

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

Amen

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CECCACRYPT✨5 天前

Excellent one there Dr. Lee. 💯

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

Thank you!

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lillamb5 天前

You are sent by God. Thank you sir so much. God is good 🙏🏻🙏🏻

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

Thanks!

Janie M 的头像
Janie M5 天前

It is about getting the pattern out of the nervous system. Brain work is only half the solution.

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Kimberlee Hobley5 天前

Think about it and Functional Neurological Disorder

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Redeemed5 天前

I believe in abundant living and by His grace I live as such. Christ is sufficient in every circumstances whether good, bad or ugly. Once transformed like that NOTHING can take that joy away.

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

Yes!

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Sergio5 天前

Wow, i didnt expect you to quote Paul! Thank you Dr.

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

🙏

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Linda 🇺🇸5 天前

Just downloaded your book and I’m listening to it on Audible. Loving it!

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

Thank you!

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Dru Kuhlman5 天前

Gratitude is the only disposition that got me through an enormously heavy and devastating 4 year span of my life. Love your messages Dr. Warren.

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

Thanks!

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Michael Bausenwein5 天前

Spiraling and getting stuck in the worst case is bad, but thinking of the worst case and realizing it would not kill you allows you to let it go.

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Chasing Zebras5 天前

Threat simulation is the interesting bit: imagined and real events can recruit overlapping alarm circuitry, even as context and prediction modulate the response. The gap between rehearsal and reality is where the wry neuroscience lives.

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Pepperfly5 天前

And we are constantly made to be afraid by our corporate media and its ownership - makes a lot more sense now

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

Yes

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🐸Dragon Slayer aka Save the children5 天前

Beautiful. Thank you. ❤️

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Dr. Lee Warren5 天前

🙏

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America1ST🇺🇲5 天前

❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️

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Queen of Faith5 天前

Amen

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