Your thoughts on this exchange…

What I think? I think he's telling her exactly what some men are thinking, but instead of listening, she's defensive and trying to validate why he shouldn't be receiving compliments outside the home. Men would rather get it at home, but women like this will make excuses to not hear men and then punish him for receiving what they're not providing!

that's interesting, but what do you think of this?

Why are relationship experts single?

She wasn't wrong but she missed his point. He said he wasn't excusing cheating and she still went on about how in the analogy, he wasn't handling himself correctly. Addressing "his" actions and not "his" feelings. 🤦🏾‍♂️

She knew exactly what he was saying, but she used his poor example (going to the club to get compliments) to gain the upper hand in the exchange. I’m curious— would she use the same analogy if the roles were reversed?

i get the not condoning cheating. Gents take a page outta they playbook. Any little thing she lacks and you don’t like it…DIVORCE! Not meeting your emotional needs… divorce! Not fucking u enuff… divorce! Can’t fry chicken… divorce! Bad mother… divorce! Postpartum…. Divorce!

Nothing worse than a woman that’s loud and wrong! Imagine a man telling you what he’s going through just to redirected by the person who isn’t understanding you and now telling you how to communicate lol 😂

10:1 she wouldn’t be this harsh or give the same advice if it was a woman that never got complimented by her husband and she went to the club for attention and some D.

She literally proved his point and didn’t listen. She flipped it back on him stating he shouldn’t be in the club and all that but missed the whole point and got defensive… They don’t care about us fellas.

I understand both views but she just speaking on the right thing to do without the emotional 🎢

You Can NEVER Against A Defensive Black Woman, Women Period! But A Black Woman, Lord! There’s Just Screws And Bolts Missing EVERYWHERE