Your thoughts please. 🤦‍♂️

I fail as a parent if my child goes through the same shit I went through and I can do nothing about it.

You have no business making babies if you haven’t healed from your traumas… because the end result would be so messy, as seen in the video.

The level of gaslighting from her mother…. My goodness 🥲 seeing how damaged she still is from her own abuse, shouldn’t that be enough reason to have gotten help for her daughter and also get help for herself? That would have been a moment for them to go through the healing process together. I feel bad for her daughter.

You can tell the level of gaslighting that girl go tru.

My children won't go through what I want through. No matter what it's that is not good. It won't repeat itself. Heal for them. Be strong for them. Once you have children, it's no longer about you, its more about them.

Hurt people hurt other people... Still she should have done more, there's no excuse for the way she handled her own daughters pain..

Parents need to do better. This is not cool. See the way she is still talking. It happens to you. So that should be a good reason for you to be angry and stand up for her.

She took her daughter's situation and made it into her own situation. This is gaslighting and manipulation. Ur own child oh she still found a way to make it about her. This is why fathers are important and why single mothers raise the worst generation of kids. Men need to vet properly before making babies with women.

The mama actually don't hear

Sadly a lot of Nigerian parents are like this. They feel providing for their kids it’s the ultimate love, as long as they are well fed, you went to the best schools, you have all you need, you don’t have the right to talk to them about anything emotional support.