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𝐊𝐀𝐑𝐀 𝐋𝐀𝐖𝐒𝐎𝐍 𝐎𝐍 𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐅𝐈𝐃𝐄𝐍𝐂𝐄 Confidence comes from within. “Don’t give me the power to affect your self esteem and who you are as a person.” “Don’t let me control whether you’re going to have a good day or not.” (🎥 via Duke Women’s Basketball)

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Coach AJ 🎯 Mental Fitness2 years ago

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Greg Berge2 years ago

@DukeWBB This is one of the great lessons of life. Control You. Do not give away power over yourself by pointing the finger, blaming others, or complaining. Control your effort. Control your attitude. When this happens, everything else tends to take care of itself.

Coach AJ 🎯 Mental Fitness2 years ago

@DukeWBB Exactly! So well said Greg 🙌

Mike Madsen2 years ago

@DukeWBB She’s teaching life lessons here 💯

Coach AJ 🎯 Mental Fitness2 years ago

@DukeWBB Absolutely! Teaching the importance of confidence and focus.

Lori Mazanec (Sautter)2 years ago

@DukeWBB 💙

Winning Fun.do.mentals2 years ago

@DukeWBB "It's called self-esteem...It's esteem of yourself!" - Katt Williams

Coach AJ 🎯 Mental Fitness2 years ago

@DukeWBB 💯

Greg Taylor2 years ago

@DukeWBB Inspiration is found within yourself! Not externally!

Coach AJ 🎯 Mental Fitness2 years ago

@DukeWBB Exactly!

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