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Saw a trend where women were joking about how blond guys give them the ick. E.g., "How are you, as a man, blond?" Some evolutionary psychologists have hypothesized that this aversion is natural, as darker hair is (to some extent) associated with maturity and masculinity.

Saw a trend where women were joking about how blond guys give them the ick. E.g., "How are you, as a man, blond?" Some evolutionary psychologists have hypothesized that this aversion is natural, as darker hair is (to some extent) associated with maturity and masculinity.

371,730 просмотров • 14 дней назад

Some folks on here appear to take it for granted that most men, ideally, would like to marry a virgin. However, the extant data suggest that both men and women prefer someone with a modest—but *not* chaste—past. Virginity *reduces* attractiveness, somewhat.

Some folks on here appear to take it for granted that most men, ideally, would like to marry a virgin. However, the extant data suggest that both men and women prefer someone with a modest—but not chaste—past. Virginity reduces attractiveness, somewhat.

572,305 просмотров • 6 месяцев назад

How does exclusive homosexuality persist, despite evolution? An evolutionary biology professor of mine during undergrad suggested that a hint might be found in the cultural trope of the "rich gay uncle." It's true that gay men tend to have somewhat more financial success than straight men, and it's also true that gay men tend to have more brothers (i.e., gay men are actually more likely to become rich uncles). Further, since the 1970s, evolutionary biologists have hypothesized that maybe homosexuality could persist via kin selection: instead of investing in a child with 50% of your genes, you invest more in your siblings' children, who have 25% of your genes. So, perhaps, in some cases, men might benefit from forgoing their own reproduction and obtaining resources to maximize investment in nieces and nephews. An unusual strategy sure, but, in principle, feasible...

How does exclusive homosexuality persist, despite evolution? An evolutionary biology professor of mine during undergrad suggested that a hint might be found in the cultural trope of the "rich gay uncle." It's true that gay men tend to have somewhat more financial success than straight men, and it's also true that gay men tend to have more brothers (i.e., gay men are actually more likely to become rich uncles). Further, since the 1970s, evolutionary biologists have hypothesized that maybe homosexuality could persist via kin selection: instead of investing in a child with 50% of your genes, you invest more in your siblings' children, who have 25% of your genes. So, perhaps, in some cases, men might benefit from forgoing their own reproduction and obtaining resources to maximize investment in nieces and nephews. An unusual strategy sure, but, in principle, feasible...

344,660 просмотров • 5 месяцев назад

I suspect a lot of modern mating anxiety is downstream of this fact: generally, men lower their standards for casual mating, but women do not. This leads to men worrying about their partner’s past hookups (“was he hotter?”) and women wondering why men have “commitment issues.”

I suspect a lot of modern mating anxiety is downstream of this fact: generally, men lower their standards for casual mating, but women do not. This leads to men worrying about their partner’s past hookups (“was he hotter?”) and women wondering why men have “commitment issues.”

235,716 просмотров • 7 месяцев назад

Why Women Love Tall Men - How much does height matter? (0:00 and 2:52) - Why, exactly, do women love tall men? (0:10) - Are there cultures where women don't care about height? Why don't they? (1:27) - Are any men "too tall" for women? What's ideal? (1:52)

Why Women Love Tall Men - How much does height matter? (0:00 and 2:52) - Why, exactly, do women love tall men? (0:10) - Are there cultures where women don't care about height? Why don't they? (1:27) - Are any men "too tall" for women? What's ideal? (1:52)

200,313 просмотров • 10 месяцев назад

On TikTok you see a lot of women talking about how they want to date "medium ugly" or "ugly-hot" guys; basically, guys who look good, but not *too* good. Initially, I thought this was sour grapes. But maybe it's strategic; really hot guys come with real costs. Thoughts?

On TikTok you see a lot of women talking about how they want to date "medium ugly" or "ugly-hot" guys; basically, guys who look good, but not too good. Initially, I thought this was sour grapes. But maybe it's strategic; really hot guys come with real costs. Thoughts?

93,858 просмотров • 8 месяцев назад

Some men on here warn attractive women that they shouldn't sleep around because "no guy will marry them" afterwards. Now, I think "don't sleep around" is good advice, but this is likely an empty threat. Attractive women are inundated with suitors regardless of such factors.

Some men on here warn attractive women that they shouldn't sleep around because "no guy will marry them" afterwards. Now, I think "don't sleep around" is good advice, but this is likely an empty threat. Attractive women are inundated with suitors regardless of such factors.

66,663 просмотров • 6 месяцев назад

A lot of women ask me some variant of: "Why do so many men have commitment issues?" When you understand evolutionary psychology, though, these "commitment issues" begin to look more like a strategy.

A lot of women ask me some variant of: "Why do so many men have commitment issues?" When you understand evolutionary psychology, though, these "commitment issues" begin to look more like a strategy.

130,781 просмотров • 1 год назад

Never Get Cheated On --- 0:00 Introduction 0:20 Part I: Mate Selection 10:14 Part II: Mate Retention 14:36 Part III: Infidelity Detection 16:59 Conclusion

Never Get Cheated On --- 0:00 Introduction 0:20 Part I: Mate Selection 10:14 Part II: Mate Retention 14:36 Part III: Infidelity Detection 16:59 Conclusion

72,994 просмотров • 8 месяцев назад

Big myth on here that men of all ages want to date women in their 20s. Sure, from a physical attractiveness perspective, men find women in their 20s most attractive. But overall, most men aren't so shallow as to care only about physical traits. They want compatibility, too.

Big myth on here that men of all ages want to date women in their 20s. Sure, from a physical attractiveness perspective, men find women in their 20s most attractive. But overall, most men aren't so shallow as to care only about physical traits. They want compatibility, too.

57,215 просмотров • 8 месяцев назад

There's widespread concern that gender equality will leave successful women struggling to find partners. It makes sense: Women mostly want to "mate up" financially, and as women get richer, there are fewer men who are "up." But our experiment suggests we may not need to worry.

There's widespread concern that gender equality will leave successful women struggling to find partners. It makes sense: Women mostly want to "mate up" financially, and as women get richer, there are fewer men who are "up." But our experiment suggests we may not need to worry.

32,014 просмотров • 4 месяцев назад

Study of 93,158 people from 93 countries finds right-wing people spend more time on their looks than left-wing people. Unsurprising to find this about right-wing women (i.e., conforming to gender norms). But it's fascinating that right-wing men spend more time in the mirror.

Study of 93,158 people from 93 countries finds right-wing people spend more time on their looks than left-wing people. Unsurprising to find this about right-wing women (i.e., conforming to gender norms). But it's fascinating that right-wing men spend more time in the mirror.

44,629 просмотров • 7 месяцев назад

If "successful men would date an Applebee's waitress" is true, how come the extant data on successful men show they almost never do that? 🤔

If "successful men would date an Applebee's waitress" is true, how come the extant data on successful men show they almost never do that? 🤔

34,827 просмотров • 6 месяцев назад

While men’s attractiveness does decline less early—and less precipitously—than women’s, it does not increase with age. “Men age like wine” is mostly a self-soothing sentiment for men who struggled with women in their youth.

While men’s attractiveness does decline less early—and less precipitously—than women’s, it does not increase with age. “Men age like wine” is mostly a self-soothing sentiment for men who struggled with women in their youth.

73,783 просмотров • 1 год назад

Bald men are perceived as more dominant, more masculine, more competent, more intimidating, they’re even perceived as taller (!?) and yet… Women find them *less* attractive. Any theoretical explanations?? Help me think.

Bald men are perceived as more dominant, more masculine, more competent, more intimidating, they’re even perceived as taller (!?) and yet… Women find them less attractive. Any theoretical explanations?? Help me think.

59,257 просмотров • 1 год назад

Most "male vs female gaze" disputes on here (where men and women disagree about whether a guy is attractive) are solveable by remembering that men tend to overestimate how much women like masculinity.

Most "male vs female gaze" disputes on here (where men and women disagree about whether a guy is attractive) are solveable by remembering that men tend to overestimate how much women like masculinity.

35,898 просмотров • 8 месяцев назад

Your odds of divorce in a first marriage decline the older you marry until about 30, but then they start to increase again as you enter your late 30s. Any ideas why?

Your odds of divorce in a first marriage decline the older you marry until about 30, but then they start to increase again as you enter your late 30s. Any ideas why?

64,346 просмотров • 1 год назад

1M views on an 18-minute (!) TikTok on dual-mating. Viewers are mostly women, mostly <24. Critics try hard to paint ev psych as sexist, but in my experience the research is most popular with women.

1M views on an 18-minute (!) TikTok on dual-mating. Viewers are mostly women, mostly <24. Critics try hard to paint ev psych as sexist, but in my experience the research is most popular with women.

75,823 просмотров • 2 лет назад

Widely-known fact: Men typically exhibit a mate preference for sexual modesty. (This finding from evolutionary psychology is well-disseminated, at this point.) Lesser-known fact: Women exhibit a similar preference! And it makes sense... More past partners = more risks.

Widely-known fact: Men typically exhibit a mate preference for sexual modesty. (This finding from evolutionary psychology is well-disseminated, at this point.) Lesser-known fact: Women exhibit a similar preference! And it makes sense... More past partners = more risks.

27,972 просмотров • 6 месяцев назад