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Men liking women’s feet is often treated as weird but it’s actually quite sensible from an evolutionary perspective.

Men liking women’s feet is often treated as weird but it’s actually quite sensible from an evolutionary perspective.

212,328 次观看 • 28 天前

Saw a trend where women were joking about how blond guys give them the ick. E.g., "How are you, as a man, blond?" Some evolutionary psychologists have hypothesized that this aversion is natural, as darker hair is (to some extent) associated with maturity and masculinity.

Saw a trend where women were joking about how blond guys give them the ick. E.g., "How are you, as a man, blond?" Some evolutionary psychologists have hypothesized that this aversion is natural, as darker hair is (to some extent) associated with maturity and masculinity.

380,685 次观看 • 3 个月前

Do women care more about a man's face or his height? In experiments, it's not close. Photo attractiveness is ~12x more important than height on a dating app (Witmer et al., 2025), and facial attractiveness is ~3x more important on a speed date (Asendorpf et al., 2005).

Do women care more about a man's face or his height? In experiments, it's not close. Photo attractiveness is ~12x more important than height on a dating app (Witmer et al., 2025), and facial attractiveness is ~3x more important on a speed date (Asendorpf et al., 2005).

102,580 次观看 • 1 个月前

Some folks on here appear to take it for granted that most men, ideally, would like to marry a virgin. However, the extant data suggest that both men and women prefer someone with a modest—but *not* chaste—past. Virginity *reduces* attractiveness, somewhat.

Some folks on here appear to take it for granted that most men, ideally, would like to marry a virgin. However, the extant data suggest that both men and women prefer someone with a modest—but not chaste—past. Virginity reduces attractiveness, somewhat.

572,305 次观看 • 10 个月前

How does exclusive homosexuality persist, despite evolution? An evolutionary biology professor of mine during undergrad suggested that a hint might be found in the cultural trope of the "rich gay uncle." It's true that gay men tend to have somewhat more financial success than straight men, and it's also true that gay men tend to have more brothers (i.e., gay men are actually more likely to become rich uncles). Further, since the 1970s, evolutionary biologists have hypothesized that maybe homosexuality could persist via kin selection: instead of investing in a child with 50% of your genes, you invest more in your siblings' children, who have 25% of your genes. So, perhaps, in some cases, men might benefit from forgoing their own reproduction and obtaining resources to maximize investment in nieces and nephews. An unusual strategy sure, but, in principle, feasible...

How does exclusive homosexuality persist, despite evolution? An evolutionary biology professor of mine during undergrad suggested that a hint might be found in the cultural trope of the "rich gay uncle." It's true that gay men tend to have somewhat more financial success than straight men, and it's also true that gay men tend to have more brothers (i.e., gay men are actually more likely to become rich uncles). Further, since the 1970s, evolutionary biologists have hypothesized that maybe homosexuality could persist via kin selection: instead of investing in a child with 50% of your genes, you invest more in your siblings' children, who have 25% of your genes. So, perhaps, in some cases, men might benefit from forgoing their own reproduction and obtaining resources to maximize investment in nieces and nephews. An unusual strategy sure, but, in principle, feasible...

347,295 次观看 • 8 个月前

I suspect a lot of modern mating anxiety is downstream of this fact: generally, men lower their standards for casual mating, but women do not. This leads to men worrying about their partner’s past hookups (“was he hotter?”) and women wondering why men have “commitment issues.”

I suspect a lot of modern mating anxiety is downstream of this fact: generally, men lower their standards for casual mating, but women do not. This leads to men worrying about their partner’s past hookups (“was he hotter?”) and women wondering why men have “commitment issues.”

236,315 次观看 • 11 个月前

Why Women Love Tall Men - How much does height matter? (0:00 and 2:52) - Why, exactly, do women love tall men? (0:10) - Are there cultures where women don't care about height? Why don't they? (1:27) - Are any men "too tall" for women? What's ideal? (1:52)

Why Women Love Tall Men - How much does height matter? (0:00 and 2:52) - Why, exactly, do women love tall men? (0:10) - Are there cultures where women don't care about height? Why don't they? (1:27) - Are any men "too tall" for women? What's ideal? (1:52)

201,494 次观看 • 1 年前

On TikTok you see a lot of women talking about how they want to date "medium ugly" or "ugly-hot" guys; basically, guys who look good, but not *too* good. Initially, I thought this was sour grapes. But maybe it's strategic; really hot guys come with real costs. Thoughts?

On TikTok you see a lot of women talking about how they want to date "medium ugly" or "ugly-hot" guys; basically, guys who look good, but not too good. Initially, I thought this was sour grapes. But maybe it's strategic; really hot guys come with real costs. Thoughts?

93,858 次观看 • 11 个月前

Some men on here warn attractive women that they shouldn't sleep around because "no guy will marry them" afterwards. Now, I think "don't sleep around" is good advice, but this is likely an empty threat. Attractive women are inundated with suitors regardless of such factors.

Some men on here warn attractive women that they shouldn't sleep around because "no guy will marry them" afterwards. Now, I think "don't sleep around" is good advice, but this is likely an empty threat. Attractive women are inundated with suitors regardless of such factors.

67,289 次观看 • 9 个月前

Never Get Cheated On --- 0:00 Introduction 0:20 Part I: Mate Selection 10:14 Part II: Mate Retention 14:36 Part III: Infidelity Detection 16:59 Conclusion

Never Get Cheated On --- 0:00 Introduction 0:20 Part I: Mate Selection 10:14 Part II: Mate Retention 14:36 Part III: Infidelity Detection 16:59 Conclusion

72,994 次观看 • 1 年前

Big myth on here that men of all ages want to date women in their 20s. Sure, from a physical attractiveness perspective, men find women in their 20s most attractive. But overall, most men aren't so shallow as to care only about physical traits. They want compatibility, too.

Big myth on here that men of all ages want to date women in their 20s. Sure, from a physical attractiveness perspective, men find women in their 20s most attractive. But overall, most men aren't so shallow as to care only about physical traits. They want compatibility, too.

57,215 次观看 • 1 年前

Study of 93,158 people from 93 countries finds right-wing people spend more time on their looks than left-wing people. Unsurprising to find this about right-wing women (i.e., conforming to gender norms). But it's fascinating that right-wing men spend more time in the mirror.

Study of 93,158 people from 93 countries finds right-wing people spend more time on their looks than left-wing people. Unsurprising to find this about right-wing women (i.e., conforming to gender norms). But it's fascinating that right-wing men spend more time in the mirror.

44,747 次观看 • 11 个月前

While men’s attractiveness does decline less early—and less precipitously—than women’s, it does not increase with age. “Men age like wine” is mostly a self-soothing sentiment for men who struggled with women in their youth.

While men’s attractiveness does decline less early—and less precipitously—than women’s, it does not increase with age. “Men age like wine” is mostly a self-soothing sentiment for men who struggled with women in their youth.

73,783 次观看 • 1 年前

New study: Women are most attracted to men who are 13-14.2% bodyfat. (Examples around 1:08 in this video.) Makes sense, from an evo psych perspective. This is a "goldilocks zone" where men are at once healthy, formidable, and unlikely to starve anytime soon.

New study: Women are most attracted to men who are 13-14.2% bodyfat. (Examples around 1:08 in this video.) Makes sense, from an evo psych perspective. This is a "goldilocks zone" where men are at once healthy, formidable, and unlikely to starve anytime soon.

50,390 次观看 • 1 年前

Your odds of divorce in a first marriage decline the older you marry until about 30, but then they start to increase again as you enter your late 30s. Any ideas why?

Your odds of divorce in a first marriage decline the older you marry until about 30, but then they start to increase again as you enter your late 30s. Any ideas why?

64,346 次观看 • 1 年前

If "successful men would date an Applebee's waitress" is true, how come the extant data on successful men show they almost never do that? 🤔

If "successful men would date an Applebee's waitress" is true, how come the extant data on successful men show they almost never do that? 🤔

34,827 次观看 • 10 个月前