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Take it from me, a recent empty nester: The Good Old Days don’t feel like it at the time. It feels more like hard work and struggle. The days are long but the years fly by. Then, one day you wake up and the house is quiet. One of my most cherished memories is coming home from work each day and opening the creaky back door to our 1947 craftsman home. My 3-year-old daughter (now 21) would drop her toys and run down the hall—her footsteps booming on the old wood floor—to greet me. I love my life and don’t want to go back, but I do wish I could pass one message across time to 35-year-old me: You’re living the Good Old Days right now. Savor every moment.

Take it from me, a recent empty nester: The Good Old Days don’t feel like it at the time. It feels more like hard work and struggle. The days are long but the years fly by. Then, one day you wake up and the house is quiet. One of my most cherished memories is coming home from work each day and opening the creaky back door to our 1947 craftsman home. My 3-year-old daughter (now 21) would drop her toys and run down the hall—her footsteps booming on the old wood floor—to greet me. I love my life and don’t want to go back, but I do wish I could pass one message across time to 35-year-old me: You’re living the Good Old Days right now. Savor every moment.

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162,000 of you read yesterday’s post about the deep squat. 1,800 bookmarked it. Who got started this morning? 3 minutes a day now to avoid a lifetime of pain later.

162,000 of you read yesterday’s post about the deep squat. 1,800 bookmarked it. Who got started this morning? 3 minutes a day now to avoid a lifetime of pain later.

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At 54, here’s something I think about a lot: The good old days don’t feel like it at the time. It feels more like struggle. From the age of 25 to 45, you’re in the thick of it—building a career, raising kids, trying to get ahead (or just keep up with life). It’s so easy to lose perspective and forget that… You’re in the sweet spot. One day you’ll look back on that struggle as the best of times. Every season of life has its pros and cons—triumphs and challenges—but there’s nothing quite like the prime adult years. So what are we to do about it? Simply recognize that you’re living your good old days right now. Slow down. Savor it. Smell the roses. Because I’m here to tell you… The days are long, but the years fly by. 🎥: First flight for my younger daughter. I thought I was climbing the mountain—little did I know I was standing on the peak.

At 54, here’s something I think about a lot: The good old days don’t feel like it at the time. It feels more like struggle. From the age of 25 to 45, you’re in the thick of it—building a career, raising kids, trying to get ahead (or just keep up with life). It’s so easy to lose perspective and forget that… You’re in the sweet spot. One day you’ll look back on that struggle as the best of times. Every season of life has its pros and cons—triumphs and challenges—but there’s nothing quite like the prime adult years. So what are we to do about it? Simply recognize that you’re living your good old days right now. Slow down. Savor it. Smell the roses. Because I’m here to tell you… The days are long, but the years fly by. 🎥: First flight for my younger daughter. I thought I was climbing the mountain—little did I know I was standing on the peak.

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“It’s not that you can’t do deep squats because you’re old… it’s that you’re old because you don’t do deep squats.” 🤔 Can you hold a deep squat for 3 minutes? It’s easy when you’re young and limber… not so much when you’re over 40 with a collection of nagging injuries. And it’s extra hard if you’re tall like me. It’s called the anti-aging exercise for a reason—deep squats simultaneously build strength and range of motion in the feet, ankles, knees, hips, and back. If there’s one exercise you should every day this is it. (1/2)

“It’s not that you can’t do deep squats because you’re old… it’s that you’re old because you don’t do deep squats.” 🤔 Can you hold a deep squat for 3 minutes? It’s easy when you’re young and limber… not so much when you’re over 40 with a collection of nagging injuries. And it’s extra hard if you’re tall like me. It’s called the anti-aging exercise for a reason—deep squats simultaneously build strength and range of motion in the feet, ankles, knees, hips, and back. If there’s one exercise you should every day this is it. (1/2)

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It’s like a war zone in downtown Boulder. Apparently a couple people attacked protesters with either a flamethrower or Molotov cocktails. Multiple injuries. I happened to walk by right after it happened.

It’s like a war zone in downtown Boulder. Apparently a couple people attacked protesters with either a flamethrower or Molotov cocktails. Multiple injuries. I happened to walk by right after it happened.

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This video rubs me the wrong way. It’s a dangerous attitude that I see often among people whose confidence is greater than their competence. In climbing, it’s common courtesy to offer “beta” to other climbers. Beta is useful information about a route that usually isn’t found in guidebooks or online. One key piece of beta can save you a lot of trouble, so smart climbers—even professional guides—will take all they can get. 99.9% of the time, when someone offers beta—whether to a man or woman—they’re just trying to help. I get that sexism and "mansplaining" exist, but when you’re engaged in a high-consequence activity, it’s time to check your defensiveness and become a sponge for information. This post isn't just about climbing: God gave us 2 ears and only 1 mouth for a reason... 👂People who listen avoid trouble and more importantly, they learn. Observe the very best at any endeavor and you'll see that they're sponges, never too good to learn something new.

This video rubs me the wrong way. It’s a dangerous attitude that I see often among people whose confidence is greater than their competence. In climbing, it’s common courtesy to offer “beta” to other climbers. Beta is useful information about a route that usually isn’t found in guidebooks or online. One key piece of beta can save you a lot of trouble, so smart climbers—even professional guides—will take all they can get. 99.9% of the time, when someone offers beta—whether to a man or woman—they’re just trying to help. I get that sexism and "mansplaining" exist, but when you’re engaged in a high-consequence activity, it’s time to check your defensiveness and become a sponge for information. This post isn't just about climbing: God gave us 2 ears and only 1 mouth for a reason... 👂People who listen avoid trouble and more importantly, they learn. Observe the very best at any endeavor and you'll see that they're sponges, never too good to learn something new.

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If you want to invest another 3 minutes (and $100), add back extensions. These days almost everyone has a weak posterior chain (hamstrings, glutes, spinal erectors). This is the single best exercise for restoring and maintaining back health. It was a complete game-changer for me. 1) Start with a static hold (no bending) Once you can do that for 2 minutes… 2) Work your way up to 30 reps. Then… 3) Slowly start adding weight (hold dumbbells or plates to your chest). I’m up to 15 reps with 50 lbs. Do it 3X/week and you’ll notice a difference within a few weeks. (A link to the $100 piece of equipment I use is in the comments below.)

If you want to invest another 3 minutes (and $100), add back extensions. These days almost everyone has a weak posterior chain (hamstrings, glutes, spinal erectors). This is the single best exercise for restoring and maintaining back health. It was a complete game-changer for me. 1) Start with a static hold (no bending) Once you can do that for 2 minutes… 2) Work your way up to 30 reps. Then… 3) Slowly start adding weight (hold dumbbells or plates to your chest). I’m up to 15 reps with 50 lbs. Do it 3X/week and you’ll notice a difference within a few weeks. (A link to the $100 piece of equipment I use is in the comments below.)

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I want to build a compound like this near Telluride. Who’s in?

I want to build a compound like this near Telluride. Who’s in?

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When I lived in Dallas, I did most of my climbing on an old grain silo. I was a fish out of water. Here’s the uncomfortable truth about where you live: You can build a good life anywhere. I made the best of a concrete jungle for 20 years. BUT You’ll never have a *great* life if you’re swimming against the current. There’s an old saying: “Wherever you go, there you are.” It’s meant to imply that happiness is found within, not from your environment. I beg to differ. It’s both. Environment DOES matter. Living in your happy place CAN make life better. Naval says that the three biggest decisions are: 1) Who you’re with 2) What you do 3) Where you live Here’s what’s odd: Most people are deliberate about the first two. We date around, we explore different careers, and *choose* the partner and job that fits us best. And when it doesn’t work out, we’ll make the hard decision to pivot. But when it comes to place, most people don’t choose anything—they live where they live by default, not by design. The thought of moving conjures our worst fears. So we rationalize staying put. (Ask me how I know.) When I finally moved to Boulder (in my late 40s), everything clicked. A good life became a great life. I still pinch myself. Here’s my advice: 1) Find your happy place. 2) Find a way to (eventually) get there. Living where you want isn’t a birthright, it’s a privilege that is earned over time. It might take years or—as in my case—decades. It’s never easy and there are always complicating factors. But one thing’s for sure: You’ll never get there if you don’t make a choice at all.

When I lived in Dallas, I did most of my climbing on an old grain silo. I was a fish out of water. Here’s the uncomfortable truth about where you live: You can build a good life anywhere. I made the best of a concrete jungle for 20 years. BUT You’ll never have a *great* life if you’re swimming against the current. There’s an old saying: “Wherever you go, there you are.” It’s meant to imply that happiness is found within, not from your environment. I beg to differ. It’s both. Environment DOES matter. Living in your happy place CAN make life better. Naval says that the three biggest decisions are: 1) Who you’re with 2) What you do 3) Where you live Here’s what’s odd: Most people are deliberate about the first two. We date around, we explore different careers, and *choose* the partner and job that fits us best. And when it doesn’t work out, we’ll make the hard decision to pivot. But when it comes to place, most people don’t choose anything—they live where they live by default, not by design. The thought of moving conjures our worst fears. So we rationalize staying put. (Ask me how I know.) When I finally moved to Boulder (in my late 40s), everything clicked. A good life became a great life. I still pinch myself. Here’s my advice: 1) Find your happy place. 2) Find a way to (eventually) get there. Living where you want isn’t a birthright, it’s a privilege that is earned over time. It might take years or—as in my case—decades. It’s never easy and there are always complicating factors. But one thing’s for sure: You’ll never get there if you don’t make a choice at all.

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If I was asked to give a single piece of advice to the world, it would be these three words: Bias toward action. Too many people wait for the right time, the right circumstances, or the right feeling before doing something. So they end up doing nothing… paralyzed by fear, uncertainty, and doubt. Take Margot’s advice: Have that hard conversation Say hi to that cute guy/girl Say yes to that invitation Ask for that promotion Start that side hustle Go to that meetup Post that tweet Take that trip Consistently biasing toward action makes success inevitable. Not just because effort produces results, but because action is fuel for serendipity—the most powerful unseen force in the universe. 🎟️ Raffle tickets often say, “Must be present to claim prize”. Life works the same way. The biggest wins look like luck, but they’re really the inevitable result of showing up over and over. Everything you want is downstream from action. Do something. Anything. When you start to walk the way, the way appears.

If I was asked to give a single piece of advice to the world, it would be these three words: Bias toward action. Too many people wait for the right time, the right circumstances, or the right feeling before doing something. So they end up doing nothing… paralyzed by fear, uncertainty, and doubt. Take Margot’s advice: Have that hard conversation Say hi to that cute guy/girl Say yes to that invitation Ask for that promotion Start that side hustle Go to that meetup Post that tweet Take that trip Consistently biasing toward action makes success inevitable. Not just because effort produces results, but because action is fuel for serendipity—the most powerful unseen force in the universe. 🎟️ Raffle tickets often say, “Must be present to claim prize”. Life works the same way. The biggest wins look like luck, but they’re really the inevitable result of showing up over and over. Everything you want is downstream from action. Do something. Anything. When you start to walk the way, the way appears.

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A younger guy recently asked me a really smart question: “What’s one thing you’d tell your 30-year-old self to do differently for health & longevity?” This one is a no brainer: I’d invest 5+ hours a week into MOBILITY training. In fact, I’ll take it a step further… EVERYONE—young or older—should replace most of their traditional weight training with mobility work. Stop chasing numbers, adding bulk, and risking injury! Elite mobility guys are ripped, strong as hell, and have unmatched functional fitness. More importantly they stay injury-free. So what’s mobility training? It’s exercise designed to increase: 1) Range-of-motion of joints (not the same as “flexibility”) 2) Functional strength & neuromuscular coordination 3) Skeletal stability (to repair & avoid injury) Yoga and Pilates are forms of mobility training but modern mobility training combines multiple disciplines. Just do a YouTube search and you'll find tons of videos and programs designed to address specific goals or issues (e.g. bad knees). Mobility work allowed me to avoid surgery and recover quickly from a severe back in injury in March. The video below is a basic back program that I do twice a day — it only takes 10 minutes and has been a game-changer. This is just the tip of the iceberg — I plan to go much deeper into mobility and hire a coach (if anyone knows a great one in Boulder LMK). I’m convinced that if I’d discovered mobility training when I was younger I would have avoided 20 years of chronic back issues and performed better athletically. 🤙

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Conquistadors of the Useless In 1999, I stumbled into a dusty grain silo that had been converted to a climbing gym. Little did I know, my life would never be the same. What I found was a community of people who were… happy. Most weren’t wealthy, but they lived rich lives and never lacked purpose. Meanwhile, my colleagues in the C-suite were… mostly miserable—rich but unhealthy, both physically and spiritually. Legendary French alpinist Lionel Terray referred to climbers as “Conquistadors of the Useless.” It’s a tongue-in-cheek way of acknowledging a paradox: Climbing is a pointless pursuit, with little practical or economic value. And yet… For me and many others, it’s as profound as it is pointless—essential to the human spirit. Which has more value: climbing a mountain or building a spreadsheet (or a business)? It’s a trick question. The truth is, we’re all Conquistadors of the Useless. Mankind’s entire existence is a blink of the eye on a speck of dust hurtling through infinite space. Nothing matters. Everything matters. You decide what is pointless and what is profound—what fills your spirit. That’s all there is to conquer. POSTLOGUE: Earlier this week, I gave my talk, How to Build a Kick Ass Life, to a prominent entrepreneur’s organization. Afterward, a guy game up to me and said, “When I heard you were going to speak to us, I did your Ideal End State exercise. It was life-changing. I just wanted to let you know that what you’re doing matters.” Spirit filled. Maybe rock climbing isn’t so pointless after all. (A video of my talk is in the comments below.)

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