Taiwo_junzi
@taiwo_junzi • 14,253 subscribers
Husband | Father | Agathokakological | 5’8 | Phil 4:19
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Dating 101!!! Sit back, read, think and adapt!!! Before You Commit, Take Time to Know the Person!!! Again, if you are a perceptive person, you will realize that no human being can pretend forever. People can pretend for a while, they can hide their weaknesses, control their reactions, say the right things and show you only the parts of themselves they want you to see. But with enough time, life will eventually reveal them, pressure will reveal them, your disappointing them will reveal them, money will reveal them, success will reveal them, failing will reveal them. And sometimes, simply being around them for long enough will reveal who they truly are. This is why you should never be in a hurry to commit your heart, your future or your life to someone you barely know. Think about anything you truly understand. Whether it is a profession, skill, subject or even a hobby, deep knowledge usually comes from spending a great deal of time with it. You observe it, study it, ask questions, make mistakes, look deeper…. People are not different… You cannot truly know a person simply because you have been talking to them for six months or because you are deeply attracted to them. You know someone by paying attention to them over time, you listen to what they say, but you also watch what they do. You observe how they treat people (immediately family members) who cannot benefit them, you watch how they behave when they are angry, disappointed, broke, successful, sick, stressed or ignored. In love, you must do more than admire someone. You must study a person’s character and who they truly want to be. Ask questions & difficult conversations about money, family, children, faith, responsibilities, friendships, boundaries, sex, ambition, failure, and expectations. Do not be afraid to confront uncomfortable subjects. Someone who looks perfect when everything is going well may look very different when life becomes difficult. . . . Familiarity does not only breed contempt. Many times, familiarity gives you a deeper appreciation of a good person. The more reasonable you are as a human being, the more you understand that nobody is perfect. When you spend enough time with a good person, you begin to see their weaknesses alongside their strengths and you can decide whether those weaknesses are things you can genuinely live with. So please, take your time before you commit to someone. See them in different seasons of life… See them when they have nothing… See them when they have plenty… See how they behave when they are in control and when they are not… See how they treat people who cannot help them... See how they respond when they are told “no”… See how they view money… See how they handle disappointment… See how they speak about their former partners… See how they treat their parents, siblings, friends, children, workers and strangers… And just as importantly, allow them to see you finish too. Do not pretend to be someone you are not just because you want someone to love you. Let them see you when you are struggling, when you are uncertain, when you are successful, when you are tired and when you are not at your best. Some people are obsessed with control, some are selfish, some are driven more by money than love, some settle for you because of age, pressure, comfort, or financial security, some have mot healed from previous relationships, some carry trauma you can not deal with, some lack common. That is why time, observation, honest conversations and self-awareness matter so much in love. Take your time to know people!!!!
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I genuinely wish I could meet some of these men in real time and slap senses into them. Imagine spending your hard earned money, stressing yourself out and planning every detail of how you want to propose to a woman, only to publicly humiliate yourself with a proposal to a well-known whore.
Taiwo_junzi383,400 次观看 • 1 年前
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My wife woke up with a terrible headache and was contemplating calling in sick. I was like call in sick for what now?! I reminded her that provision is her shield in this marriage and that if she loses this job, I’d be left with no option but to disrespect and beat her because I’m wired to beat a woman who doesn’t provide. If i am doing the most difficult job on earth by cleaning the house, washing plates, taking care of the home whether I’m sick or not, the least she can do is go to work. I just dropped her off at work and now I’m heading back home to take care of the home. Her mates are working harder, making more money and hiring maid and letting their husbands rest and look fine, the least she can do is be consistent at work. I have prayed to God to heal her and grant her strength for today and the rest of the week.
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I never buy women drinks… I never give women free rides… I never buy women gifts… I never sacrifice my resources in anyway for women… And while I’m considered kind and do freely give, I learnt to never to give my resources to women because I learnt quickly from them that they view men who spend on them as fools. To women, it doesn’t matter if your kindness as a man, is done with no ulterior motive, if she’s not giving you something tangible in return she views you as a fool. Men on the other hand, view themselves as charitable and wise for spending their scarce resources on women who see them as fools for spending money on them. Except you’re a simp with low self-esteem, the only reason you should be spending on a woman is if she’s sacrificed heavily for you and/or if you’re 100% sure she would do the same for you. Before you curse a whore, stone a simp.
Taiwo_junzi43,917 次观看 • 6 个月前
The average Nigerian man is low self-esteem mumu who has a strong kink for Cuckholdry!!! He would do anything to have “Mr” attached to his name and slave himself away for children, even if it means wifing a whore who gives him bastards to raise!!! Listen to the average Nigerian man on love and family at your own peril!!!!
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