"Arguing with her is falling into her frame." –Rivelino... EXAMPLE In this scene from Titanic, Rose knows that Cal is trying to impress her, so she purposely provokes him by doubting the size of the ship Rose is looking to see if she can get a reaction out of him. And she does. He reacts defensively and argues logically A double mistake When a woman tries to start an argument with you, she's testing to see if you're stupid enough to take her seriously If you do take her seriously and argue with her, you fall into her frame and essentially fall into her trap. Whereas if you treat her like an adorable petulant child, you pass the test and sidestep the trap In this scene, Cal reacts the wrong way to Rose's shit test. He falls into her frame by arguing with her and he tries to change her mind using facts ROSE: I don't see what the fuss is about. It doesn't look any bigger than Mauretania CAL: [facts logic boring boring] When a man tries to convince a woman by using facts and logic, she instinctively realizes that he doesn't understand women, how they feel, how they function This is a massive turn off She doesn't want to be with a man who doesn't understand her true feminine essence So what should a man say instead of arguing with her? My two favorite standard replies to any sort of petulant shit test from a girl are "You're precious" and "You're adorable" Remember, she is like a child She wants to feel your mastery over her –– and she wants to see that you have mastery over your own emotions If Cal knew how to handle Rose, he would avoid arguing with her. Instead, he would say something like this: ROSE: I don't see what the fuss is about. It doesn't look bigger than Mauretania CAL: Oh Rose, you're so adorable Much better If your girl says something to make you angry and you feel yourself losing your temper, instead of calling her stupid call her adorable "You're so fucking adorable" You can even keep the same angry tone Over time, you will start reframing and training your brain to see her as an adorable (petulant) child Remember, when you think in your mind "she is annoying", that means she has gotten to you, she has rattled you, and that's bad When you think in your mind "she is adorable", that means you see her like a child And why is she adorable? Well, she's your girl, right? If she isn't adorable –– if she really is stupid, annoying, complaining all the time, disrespecting you all the time, then maybe you need to let her go and find yourself another girl. It sounds like her heart is closed off to you But if she is your girl and you do love her, then she's adorable, and her "annoying" shit tests just mean that she misses you and needs your reassurance that you can handle her moods and her occasional feminine chaos She wants to feel your masculine strength, she wants to feel your amused mastery, your power and control over her emotions She wants to feel safe in your arms She wants to trust youshow more

7 signs a woman is truly attracted to you:... 1️⃣ She finds reasons to touch you lightly. A gentle touch on your arm or shoulder can be her way of feeling closer. 2️⃣ She listens carefully and remembers what you say. If she remembers the small details, it means she values your words and enjoys learning about you. 3️⃣ She makes time to see you. No matter how busy she is, she finds time because she wants to be close to you. 4️⃣ She teases you in a playful and fun way. Light teasing can be her way of flirting and creating connection 5️⃣ She makes future plans with you. If she talks about things you could do together later, she sees you in her life. 6️⃣ She touches or adjusts her hair when talking to you. It’s a sign of wanting to look her best around you. 7️⃣ She gets a little nervous sometimes around you. A little shyness or blushing can mean she really cares about what you think. Are there any other signs we women might give away without even realizing it?show more

Guys will see this kind of thing and think... it’s instruction, but they don’t read the fine print: 1️⃣ This girl is married yet still posting thirst traps online 2️⃣ She is clearly ADVERTISING herself for someone; someone who is NOT the husband (the husband already has her!) 3️⃣ Further, she is bragging about what she is able to get her husband to do and how easy she has it (i.e., he is way more invested in her than she is in him) Many men assume that, “The easier and more comfortable I make life for my woman, the more indebted to me she’ll be for all that comfort and ease, the more grateful she’ll be for how spoiled rotten I’ve made her, and the less motivation she’ll have than ever to look for other guys!” This assumption is based on one very WRONG misunderstanding of women, however: That what women really want is ‘stuff’. Material comforts. ‘Nice things’. It is easy for men to get this misunderstanding, because women will constantly tell you they DO want ‘stuff’. Just like how children will tell you they want stuff: • “I want this present!” • “Will you buy me that gift?” • “A new version of that came out! Can we get it?” But if you spoil a child rotten, that does not make the child ‘forever grateful’ to you. Likewise, spoiling a woman rotten does not make her forever grateful either. The harsh reality is a woman’s loyalty has NOTHING to do with how much or how little you spend on her. You can spend on her if you want to and if it makes you feel good. But you should treat it like charity; it is like giving alms to the poor. That is, it is not an action you should expect anything back from. You can spoil her rotten but still have her posting thirst traps online, showing herself off and advertising for other men. (In this chick’s other videos, she shows herself getting a nose job, and looking at the camera flirting and ignoring her man even when he is on camera next to her paying her attention. This husband is a placeholder.) Likewise, you can spend nothing on her at all yet have her be fiercely devoted to you. If you want a woman to actually be LOYAL to you: ✅ She needs to do things for YOU. She needs to work hard in the relationship. She needs to invest in it. She needs to be putting thought into how she is going to keep you satisfied. ✅ She needs to be getting it from you hard enough in the bedroom that she is so sexually sated she doesn’t even want to think about other men or feel any need to bother to act outwardly flirtatious in public to entice other men in. ✅ She needs to be at least a little more attentive to you than you are to her. There is no such thing as ‘true equality’ except in the imagined world of Platonic ideals. In reality, someone will always be working a little harder to gain the other’s attention. For an actual healthy relationship, the one working a little bit harder MUST BE the woman! Again: buy her stuff if you really want to. But, like spoiling a child rotten, don’t delude yourself thinking that, “If I keep her comfortable enough, she’ll be so happy and loyal!” There is ZERO relationship between “spending on her” and “keeping her in-love and loyal.” These two things are completely unrelated. Her devotion stems from her feeling invested in you, not the reverse.show more

You and her husband are very stupid. This is... how you people want to defend yourselves after killing her. After the husband was telling everyone she was healed. After you people locked her up in a room and refused her to even go and see her father. She could not talk to anyone. Even created a nick name for her husband (the nickname was Azenabor) so his family won’t know she’s referring to him when she talks to people to help her. Your stupid church pastor told her God has healed her and that she should return 2 million naira back to the church from her donation money, he said the 2 million is the amount the church donated for her dialysis. She asked the Pastor to send evidence of the 2 million that he claims belongs to the church and he could not. Next thing the church said the money people sent to her is cursed. That the same thing killed her mother. When she’s with the pastor and her husband she has to pretend to her friends that the Agbo and prayers were working, but she confided in a few people. Even cried that she wants to go meet her father and the husband shouted her down. Your stupid friend and the Pastor told her she doesn’t need dialysis and even when her boss from work offered to give her 500,000 every month for 3 month’s dialysis, she couldn’t take the money because the boss requested for hospital evidence breakdown after every dialysis for the 3 months he’d pay and she didn’t want her boss to know she stopped dialysis because of her husband and the stupid church. People were willing to help. Don’t come on my post to say trash because if you and her stupid husband and his family piss me off, even the devil will scream blood of Jesus by the time I am done with all of you.show more

When you're a nice gentleman with a good income... who treats her like a princess, cares for her, cooks for her, wants to marry her, and is willing to sacrifice everything for her. (Still, she's willing to abort your child and she leaves you.) Why do girls hate nice guys?show more

mind you first serious conversation with her future favorite... son and she already vibes with him so much she can perfectly understand what he wants to say that's adorable I love them SO MUCHshow more

This video that’s circulating of Kylie and Timotheé is... the perfect example of how every woman wants a man to act towards them. Literally all of his attention is on her. He is making her feel like the most beautiful and special girl in the entire room. And you can tell he’s absolutely obsessed with her. This is all a woman wants. This behavior is more important than your looks, it’s more important than the amount of money you make, the car you drive, and all of the other reasons people list in order to be in a relationship. How you treat her and how you make her feel on a daily basis will ALWAYS be what makes her fall and stay in love with you.show more

Candace has spent an hour in the last 3... nights to try to get people to feel bad for her because TPUSA may sue her. The first video is funny. Definitely watch that. Is a complete melt down. It’s a must watch. The others are just her talking about Andrew Wilson was sent in to trick her into a lawsuit. And her seething they gave Andrew the text and not her. But now she says she just wants them to sit down and answer any and all questions about where they were that day. Does she not realize they have no responsibility to her? Entitlement is rampant with her. And these videos are only 4 out of what could be 10 over the last few days. She’s definitely worried and mad. So Candace if you haven’t done anything wrong, why ya so worried? I still find it so funny when she says she never said Erika was involved with killing her husband. Yes you did Candace.show more

What bothers me most about ashley biden, is that... as a little girl, she was subjected to showering with her dad, Joe biden, she then goes on to write that she is ashamed that she was sexually aroused and felt shame because she knew it was wrong. Then she confesses that she was probably molested, which contributed to her hypersexual behavior. It is sad that so many people would read those same words, turn and ignore them, and turn it into a reason to support the child molester that is the head of their party, while giving no value on her innocence. This little girl, through no fault of her own, was sexually abused by this man, and millions deny her pain. At this point, if any sexually abuse survivor is voting for biden still, you have traded your right to claim to be the victim anymore. You are now the same evil you once opposed.show more

I genuinely cannot understand how someone can watch this... story and still stand there, looking at two women, and somehow decide that the wrong one is the victim. On one side, you have a girl (Yıldız) who has been mistreated her entire life. Since the moment she was born, she was treated like a sacrifice for a conflict she was never even part of and later we find out that this conflict never even existed. Her right to study was taken from her. She was pushed into a marriage at a very young age just imagine being six, seven, eight years old, living in fear of being tied to someone you don’t even know. She was treated like a servant in her own home, by the very people she thought were her family. And just when she gets close to the happiness she dreamed of, the man she was engaged to shows up with another wife. She gets mistreated by that wife, by his family, and even (unintentionally) by him, because he was trying to run away from his own feelings, and that only caused her more heartbreak. The whole world was literally against her. She fought through all of that, only to find out in the end that everything she suffered for was based on something that wasn’t even real. Her entire life was built on a lie. That she isn’t even part of that family that she has literally no one in this world. Now on the other side… You have a girl (Melek) who, yes, was taken from her biological mother but she was raised by loving parents. She had everything anyone could wish for: education, freedom, a happy childhood, a healthy environment. She lived her life, fell in love, went out, made choices and no one questioned her, no one controlled her. And then what did she do? She found out that her man was engaged to another woman before marrying her (and even saw him marry her) and instead of holding on to her dignity, she chose to stay, to fight for a man who lied to her, to hold onto a marriage he tried to end multiple times. She used her unborn child to keep him tied to her. She lied constantly, and her excuse was that she was “protecting her marriage” a marriage that was already broken from the moment Serhat removed that ring at the airport in episode one. She tried to hand Yıldız (a woman who had already suffered enough) over to dangerous people. Then she found out the truth about her own birth (that her father ra*ped her mother.)And still no empathy. No moment of humanity toward her own mother. All she cared about was herself. And even though none of this had anything to do with Yıldız, she still found a way to blame it on her. Instead of holding her father accountable, she went and made a deal with him to get rid of Yıldız. She literally made a deal with the devil just to hurt Yıldız one more time. And after all of that… you want me to feel sorry for her? You want me to call her a victim? I honestly cannot believe we are living on the same planet with people who see this and still say, “she’s the victim.” Not morally. Not logically. Not emotionally. There is no world where this makes sense. It’s like watching someone clearly cause harm, and still calling them the victim and actually BELIEVING it. #HalefKöklerinÇağrısıshow more

This makes me so happy and proud! If you... have a young Black girl in your life, please share this with her and let her know she too can fly planes if she wants to! Congratulations ladies! You are Black Girl Magic! #BlackWomen #BlackPilot #BlackGirlMagic #SistersOfTheSkiesshow more

If you have a pretty face, powerful connections, and... you're a woman, then you won't even need to study. Sejal is the perfect example of that. Nothing is going to happen to her. Even if she doesn't get a medical degree, she could still get an entry into Bigg Boss or land promotions with major brands. It's not difficult for a woman to survive if she doesn't care about her reputation.show more

every man just wants a loving 4'9 latina so... small she'll ruin your bloodline by giving you short sons but that's OK cuz she loves you and calls you AMOR and cooks you 3 meals a day and you feel like you're in heaven but then one day you start choking on your food struggling to survive rolling on the floor red in the face you realized you were poisoned by her tacos dorados and she starts beating you with her sandal and is yelling "KIEN ES ALEJANDRA ... EHH PUTO?!?" and you have no idea !!! but you see anon she had a dream last night that you cheated on her with a alejandra and this is how you die at the hands of a feisty exotic aztec princess latinas man ... NOT EVEN ONCE 💀show more

So #MeghanMarkle was given a painting “to remind her... of her time at the beach” and if she’s feeling low that to remember these bitches see her for who she really is. Well-we see her for who she really is too, and I don’t need a painting to show it. You know who else saw her for who she really is? Queen Elizabeth. Prince William and Princess Catherine do too. #HarryandMeghan #MeghanIsTheProblem #HarryandMeghanInAustraliashow more

Looks like she enjoys your attention folks. She definitely... likes it when men degrade her and do dirty things to her. Now do her a favor and tell her tour nastiest fantasy of her, tell all the people how would you like to use her to satisfy your lust.show more

7. This one is good Don't be impatient to... have sex with her. I'm telling you, a woman who senses that you're thirsty and want sex at all costs, that's when she's going to play with you. That's when she's going to use her sex as a weapon and as a monetary thing. "Oh, you want sex? Okay, buy me that. You want some sex? Take me there." No! You have to act like you don't care about pussy. Let's say you're at her house, making out and all of a sudden she doesn't want to fuck, which is her right. Be cool. "Oh, okay, no problem. Yeah, we can stop, it's not a problem." If you get angry, you'll show that you want to have sex one way or another. On the other hand, the fact that you're not angry because she won't stop shows that you're having regular sex. So her sex or the next girl's will be available to you, and that's fine. Don't you want to give it to me? Keep it. Plus, a woman who gets the impression you don't want to fuck her is going to think, "Yo, what's wrong with him? He must want to fuck me." You might hear women say you're gay or something. Don't worry about them. We don't care. But another girl will say, "Yo, why won't he fuck me? Don't I look hot?!" And then she'll try to rat him out to you. So it's win-win. You just have to be nonchalant with these kinds of women.show more

“Daddy, I love you.” Here’s another wonderful example of... the earliest form of imaginary play. You’ll note that this initial role playing is not about princesses or superheroes or even community helpers. All that will come later. Instead your child’s first imaginary play is likely to emulate the true hero in their life: YOU. Watch as this little one role plays her mother’s own departure from the house as she heads out on an imaginary shopping trip. She waves goodbye, dangling a plastic container from her arm to emulate a handbag. And she tells her father she loves him. It’s a routine she’s seen play out many times in her own home. It can be humbling to be imitated by your todddler, if only because you learn just how carefully you’re being watched. Your mannerisms, your speech patterns and more are all likely to be reflected. But it can also be a wonderful reminder about your influence as a parent. Every day, you are shaping how your child speaks, acts, and sees the world… even when you don’t think you’re being watched. So remember to be the role model you want to see reflected back to the world through your child. This adorable little shopper was shared to IG by the.golding.girls.show more

Imagine if this was your Palestinian child. She cries... everytime she has a memory of Gaza. She is a baby girl. Her first memories are losing her mother, seeing her neighbors get bombed, getting trapped under rubble and starving for 900 days. What could you possibly say to her?show more