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An idea that I can't stop thinking about: The Capability Gap Alabama coach Nick Saban refers to the Capability Gap in this clip from a discussion with Holly Rowe: "We oftentimes talk about what someone's potential is, but I think to put it in better terms...the Capability Gap is...

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Sahil Bloom2 年前

A framing that has helped me: Collect more Intellectual Sparring Partners. These are people who: • Call you on your BS or excuses • Question your assumptions • Push you to think bigger Intellectual Sparring Partners help you clarify your Capability Gap (and close it).

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Sahil Bloom2 年前

Here's a clip of Nick Saban talking about the Capability Gap on the @PatMcAfeeShow recently: "We sometimes assume that just because someone has talent, they want to be the best that they can be. But that's not necessarily the case, so you're always trying to close that gap."

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Sahil Bloom2 年前

The Capability Gap is a function of: 1. Your full capability 2. Your current delivery A fixed mindset believes these are static. That’s wrong—both 1 and 2 are dynamic: A growth mindset believes that 1 can be constantly expanded and 2 can be constantly improved.

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Sahil Bloom2 年前

After my sophomore year of high school, my coach asked if I wanted to pitch in college. I said I wasn't good enough. He told me I was capable of pitching at Stanford, but that it would take a lot of work. I laughed out loud. 18 months later, I got a scholarship to Stanford.

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Sahil Bloom2 年前

3 levels: 1. Bad Coach: Unable to identify full capability, unable to improve current delivery. 2. Better Coach: Able to identify full capability, unable to improve current delivery. 3. Best Coach: Able to identify (+ expand) full capability, able to improve current delivery.

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Sahil Bloom2 年前

Real life example of the power of the Capability Gap idea in action tonight.

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Jay Yang2 年前

This reminds me of the Pygmalion Effect: High expectations lead to improved performance and low expectations lead to worse.

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Sahil Bloom2 年前

Definitely some similarities. Learned this one from @KatColeATL

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Blake Burge2 年前

Saban catches a lot of flack, but the level of excellence he (and those around him) have been able to achieve isn't an accident. Love this clip.

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Donald Joseph Ecker2 年前

He does this through one principle - Self Interest. He’s been so far ahead of the coaching industry on leveraging biological timelessness + Behaviors. This gap is closed through shared ownership & brilliant onboarding.

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Sahil Bloom2 年前

fascinating inside perspective!

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An idea that I can't stop thinking about: The Capability Gap Alabama coach Nick Saban refers to the Capability Gap in this clip from a discussion with Holly Rowe: “We oftentimes talk about what someone’s potential is, but I think to put it in better terms...the Capability Gap is what you’re capable of relative to what you’re doing...if you understand the truth about that, you can actually take information that can help you close that gap.” The Capability Gap is a simple idea with powerful implications for every area of your life. It requires understanding two things: 1. Your full capability 2. Your current delivery In my experience, most people underestimate their full capability and overestimate their current delivery. In other words, they think their Capability Gap is small, when in reality, it’s much larger than they realize. That’s why having mentors, coaches, friends, and family who help you see the truth about your full capability and keep you honest about your current delivery is everything. This isn’t about sports. This is about life: Do you have people who help you think bigger about what you’re capable of? Do you have people who tell you when your current delivery isn’t good enough? We all need those people. The ones who push us to get uncomfortable, to stretch our thinking, and to raise our standards. We need people who help us become better partners, parents, friends, colleagues, and leaders. Find the people who tell you two truths: 1. What you’re truly capable of 2. What you’re currently delivering on Identify your Capability Gap and then work relentlessly to close it! If this resonated or taught you something, share it with others and follow Sahil Bloom for more.

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“people think that intimacy is about sex. but intimacy is about truth. when you realize you can tell someone your truth, when you can show yourself to them, when you stand in front of them bare and their response is 'you're safe with me' that's intimacy”
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“people think that intimacy is about sex. but intimacy is about truth. when you realize you can tell someone your truth, when you can show yourself to them, when you stand in front of them bare and their response is 'you're safe with me' that's intimacy”

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Camus

29,225 次观看 • 2 个月前

+15k today trading, last year I was working $30/hour I can personally tell you, going from broke to making unfathomable amounts of money is one of the best feelings in life deep down you know, a job isn't for you you've seen your parents... you really wanna be like them? whether you're in college, have a job, or don't know what is going on in life the truth is this: you're either a person who is going to work a job your whole life or you're going to do whatever it takes to make sure that doesn't happen make a decision and do EVERYTHING you can to change your situation and do not stop until its changed IT IS NOT EASY but you wouldn't still be reading this if there wasn't a part of you that didn't think you were capable stop telling yourself you can't because of your current situation start now, take small steps less video games, netflix, social media, p*rn more time spent towards figuring out how you're going to make internet money or work a job your whole life and look back at your life in regret choice is yours
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+15k today trading, last year I was working $30/hour I can personally tell you, going from broke to making unfathomable amounts of money is one of the best feelings in life deep down you know, a job isn't for you you've seen your parents... you really wanna be like them? whether you're in college, have a job, or don't know what is going on in life the truth is this: you're either a person who is going to work a job your whole life or you're going to do whatever it takes to make sure that doesn't happen make a decision and do EVERYTHING you can to change your situation and do not stop until its changed IT IS NOT EASY but you wouldn't still be reading this if there wasn't a part of you that didn't think you were capable stop telling yourself you can't because of your current situation start now, take small steps less video games, netflix, social media, p*rn more time spent towards figuring out how you're going to make internet money or work a job your whole life and look back at your life in regret choice is yours

Trey

23,883 次观看 • 6 个月前

Cori Close (Cori Close) shares a must-listen message on what it takes to be special. "Do you want special? Then you better get used to hard." "Tell me one person in this life, in any area of life, that did something special that didn't embrace hard. That didn't embrace the adversity." Success is earned in the struggle. "It's the people who embrace hard. Perseverance. All of those things that need to happen." Then she got honest about her own leadership: "Get ready to push that. Get ready to take that on for your players first so that they can see the role modeling of someone who faces hard, who embraces hard." Leaders go first. You can't ask your team to embrace hard if you're not willing to do it yourself. You have to be willing to embrace adversity. Adversity isn't a roadblock - it's the path. (🎥 USA Basketball)
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Cori Close (Cori Close) shares a must-listen message on what it takes to be special. "Do you want special? Then you better get used to hard." "Tell me one person in this life, in any area of life, that did something special that didn't embrace hard. That didn't embrace the adversity." Success is earned in the struggle. "It's the people who embrace hard. Perseverance. All of those things that need to happen." Then she got honest about her own leadership: "Get ready to push that. Get ready to take that on for your players first so that they can see the role modeling of someone who faces hard, who embraces hard." Leaders go first. You can't ask your team to embrace hard if you're not willing to do it yourself. You have to be willing to embrace adversity. Adversity isn't a roadblock - it's the path. (🎥 USA Basketball)

Coach AJ 🎯 Mental Fitness

49,200 次观看 • 2 个月前

"If your habits don't lead to your dreams, change your habits. It's not what you are capable of doing. It's what you're willing to do." Capability is common. Commitment is rare.
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"If your habits don't lead to your dreams, change your habits. It's not what you are capable of doing. It's what you're willing to do." Capability is common. Commitment is rare.

The Winning Difference

13,765 次观看 • 7 个月前

This is for all the people in the arena ( your life, your career, your family ) who are doing it for them .. not for the validation of the crowd One of the great issues in our society right now is that people live their lives for outside validation, for the clicks, for the likes, for the followers, for the comments. This isn't just in social media. This is happening in the analog and real world too. Too many people are keeping up with the Joneses and worried about what people think about them. They worry about what people think about how much money they have, what school they go to, or even worse, what school their kids go to, and on and on and on … I will continue to make content with the hope it breaks someone out of the hamster wheel and that’s that ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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This is for all the people in the arena ( your life, your career, your family ) who are doing it for them .. not for the validation of the crowd One of the great issues in our society right now is that people live their lives for outside validation, for the clicks, for the likes, for the followers, for the comments. This isn't just in social media. This is happening in the analog and real world too. Too many people are keeping up with the Joneses and worried about what people think about them. They worry about what people think about how much money they have, what school they go to, or even worse, what school their kids go to, and on and on and on … I will continue to make content with the hope it breaks someone out of the hamster wheel and that’s that ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Gary Vaynerchuk

19,794 次观看 • 2 个月前