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Can a relationship thrive without rules? Or does lasting love require some limits? In this candid and thought-provoking episode, Scott sits down with one of his personal training clients (also named Scott) for a deep dive into one of the most uncomfortable questions in modern relationship philosophy: Are some... show more
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![Eric Li (a famous Chinese VC and the founder of Guancha) and Márton Ugrósdy, (Hungary's Deputy State Secretary) are absolutely correct: "In [today's geopolitical] environment countries that can maintain their neutrality will benefit the most. Countries that are being forced to take sides will lose... Neutrality will be a prized asset but it takes finesse, political will and sovereignty to do that [and achieve] strategic autonomy, political autonomy, cultural autonomy." Márton Ugrósdy adds that if "you end up in a position where you have to make 'either-or' choices between great powers then you messed up something years ago". This is the main tragedy of the EU over the past 20 years. An accumulation of bad choices over years means that it has no strategic autonomy, no sovereignty and is constantly forced to make either-or choices that work out against its interests. All with the result that it is so far THE big loser of today's geopolitical environment. We constantly talk about "freedom" and the importance of it but we somehow only ever look at individual freedom, never our collective ability as nations (or supranational entities like the EU) to be masters of our own destiny. When you think about it that's arguably even more important than individual freedom because you can individually be free all you want - be able to post whatever you want on Twitter and whatnot - but that counts little if in the grander scheme of things you're a citizen of a country that isn't free to choose its own destiny and is constantly forced to make choice that impoverish you or make you less secure... What kind of "freedom" is that? This is at heart why I have such an issue with people who put individual freedom at the pinnacle of what we ought to aim for as a society. It's akin to you being on the Titanic and saying that the most important thing to you is how comfy your cabin is... Or, more to the point, it's saying that it's ok if countries have their ships steered by outside powers - what matter most is that their passengers can tweet about it. It's downright myopic and practically destructive, ending up destroying collective AND individual freedom. This question also reveals something fascinating about the difference in vision for the world order between China and the U.S. China, throughout its history and all the more since the founding of the PRC, has always argued in favor of non-interference in other states' internal affairs, meaning in favor of not impeding on their sovereignty (and of course, in favor of no-one impeding on China's sovereignty). In that sense, Eric Li reflects China's official position here. It means that China is agnostic on individual freedom (it's your own choice internally) but takes an active stance in favor of sovereignty, i.e. collective freedom. The U.S. is almost the polar opposite: they take a very strong stance on individual freedom but make a mockery of collective freedom, as they violate countries' sovereignty as a matter of routine. Heck, they have entire agencies (like the National Endowment for Democracy) whose entire purpose is to violate countries' sovereignty. And in fact, often, they use individual freedom as an excuse to do so. Going back to my Titanic ideology, this means that China's vision is to ensure the ships remain under their captains' control, while the US focuses on the accommodations for individual passengers - even if that means drilling holes in other ships' hulls. It's almost a philosophical debate. How meaningful is individual freedom without the ability of a community to chart its own course? Europe needs to learn real fast that in today's world the answer is that if you can't steer your ship freely the whole thing will sink.](https://image.24vids.com/tw-1876138365621506052/ext_tw_video_thumb/1876119508303413248/pu/img/puydlOrUzi_hAg7j.jpg)
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Men Who Enjoy Sharing Some men love sharing their wives with other men. This is something I’ve noticed in my work with couples that surprises a lot of people. There are way more men than you’d expect who get genuinely turned on by the idea of their partner being with someone else — what some people call hotwifing or even cuckolding. At first it sounds wild, right? But when you dig into the psychology, it starts to make a strange kind of sense. For a lot of guys, it’s not about feeling inadequate or wanting humiliation. It’s often this powerful mix of pride and trust. Watching or knowing their partner is desired by someone else can feel like the ultimate compliment — like “she’s so sexy that other people want her, and she still chooses me.” There’s also this intense erotic charge that comes from breaking a really deep cultural taboo around possession and jealousy. It taps into something primal too — that sperm competition instinct (which is a real thing by the way) gets mixed with the thrill of seeing your partner fully in her pleasure. And at the core of it all is an incredible level of emotional safety. You can’t even entertain the fantasy unless you feel rock-solid in the relationship. What fascinates me most is how it flips the usual script about what makes intimacy “safe.” For some couples, leaning into this fantasy actually brings them closer because it requires radical honesty and communication most relationships never touch. Of course it’s not for everyone, and it only works when both people are genuinely into it. But I’ve seen it become a really freeing, exciting chapter for couples who explore it thoughtfully. Have you ever come across this fantasy in your OWN relationship or heard about it from friends? Does it intrigue you, scare you, or just make you curious? Have you done it? Would you do it? Drop your honest thoughts in the comments. Let’s hear them!
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