Empathy is a lost art

It’s gotten to the point where you can’t even talk to some people about how your day went even if they’ve asked how was your day and then they accuse you of trauma dumping it’s like who’s the snowflake now you can’t handle the answer to your question? 🤣

I don't let anything go. Ever. If I have to cut friends or family out of my life so I can live peacefully and happy then I do that.

Soooooooooo real! I constantly battle with the thought of talking about that nigg (the ex) with my ppl or my podcast.

Holding on to something for 10 yrs……. Seek help 🤧

You can’t even have a little moment without mfs having something to say

It’s very what she said. The thing is. everyone gets their turn, it’s usually the ones that tell people to get over it or who cares can’t handle it and crack and become even meaner and harder to deal actually crazy to watch it unfold, 🤷🏾‍♂️

If you still mad that mean you haven’t sat in those feelings and released that trauma. The full grieving process is the true lost art

I feel like this when ppl call women bitter out of a fresh break up even with kids involved. Are ppl machines now. Your hurt shouldn’t cause other ppl harm but you have a right to grieve I remember a time when ppl tried to help you stay together(outside of abuse)

It’s true, people don’t care about others. And they don’t wanna hear your sob stories.

That’s a mental problem babe

Maybe go get therapy and stop expecting your friends and family to be a therapist

Just let it go

I understand this message and I hear her. However we can’t let the negative stuff define us. 10 years is a long time not to process grow and forgive the situation

Society isn't telling you to not be empathetic. It's telling you to stop making it everyone else's problem. Not everybody has to verbalise the bs they go through

Cancel me lol

Reflecting .. and baby stay strong 💪🏾 cause it called growth 🌱✨ and you’re gonna come on top bigger an better.. never forget to pray 🙏🏾

It’s called going to therapy! Are you sitting around just complaining about it or are you actively trying to deal and work through the pain! If you’re not actively trying to get through it or seeking help at a certain point nobody wants to hear it! We can only do so much.

We are in a time where people are not coping well and getting over things so this is a half full/half empty perspective because are you doing the healing to get over it or are you loathing in the hurt?

Can’t let nobody tell you how long to heal or how long to grieve other than yourself.

Like this is the whole just of forgive but don’t forget

The point is to not wallow, but to learn to cope. Every day you wallow in victimhood and self pity is the last day.

Side note she is beautiful ♥️

Needing time to heal from heartbreak is a sign of ungratefulness

Why should or would society as a whole feed into your inability to forgive? That’s not empathy you’re expecting that an echo chamber you’re expecting.

You lost me at ten years ago… at what point do you heal? It’s not wrong to feel…..but ten years later..it’s time to heal…Hell feel healed.

No one cares about what you go through until that causes you to become violent or unpleasant to be around, then they care to get you out of their face or life. It’s the easiest way I’ve seen to get rid of bad people in your life, cause the good ones will stay by your side.

Give it to god there is a such thing as forgiveness you are holding on to it that’s why we say that bc do you want to be stuck in that same place like you won’t get pass things holding on to hurt

As just like I can't get over those eyelashes. Just can't do it... 🤷🏾‍♀️

This what yall be sitting around depressed. Heal

I swear anyone who uses stupid lines like “we are older now” and things like that are in the queue to “blocked in real life”.

Wait till she find out most men been silently dealing w/ struggles without showing their whole life, carrying pain alone to a point they don’t even care for empathy… talmbout 10 yrs for what, jus let shit go thats life.. 😂😂

You’ll never get over shit if you keep constantly bringing it up Get tf over it

If her lashes looked a little more natural, she for her vibe but literally be a 9.8. She’s like a brat doll