FLASHBACK (9/9/2019): Allie Beth Stuckey reflects on her time in college, including a lengthy period of drinking and partying. There are quite a few things to note here. First, there is zero mention of academics. For Allie, college was about making friends and possibly finding a husband. In 35... minutes of speaking about this, she never says that she should have focused more on school. Second, she blames her partying phase on a difficult breakup and really doesn’t take any responsibility for the debauchery she was involved in. It sounds very similar to modern women wanting to find themselves after being tied down by a serious relationship. Third, while Stuckey denies sleeping around in high school, there was no such denial regarding her college years. Such an omission is quite suspicious. Finally, Allie adopts the same “God fixes everything for promiscuous women” attitude that has been playing on repeat this week, including from Allie herself. If indeed she had a promiscuous phase in college, that would no doubt inform her perspective on the Ashley Sheatz story. What do you think?show more

Here’s what I believe happened. I’ll bet she lost her virginity to that guy in college and she became hopelessly in love with him, even though as she says they were not suited for one another.. this is why premarital sex us so dangerous and harmful for women, because we get attached and then try to “make it work” when we know it won’t. Then when there’s a breakup, the woman is emotionally devastated and the pain is so severe and so intense she has a mental breakdown. This is the time when the world tells you sleeping with strangers will cure the pain. So she did, and harmed herself even further and quickly realized any claim that giving your body to some jerk for immediate sexual gratification only leaves you degraded and used. This is why I truly believe we need to encourage our girls to be married by 18-19. It’s not realistic to expect that people will be virgins into their 20s. The Christian church understood this for thousands of years and that’s why most girls were married in their teens. Courtship should be managed by her parents, especially her father, c a wedding should happen within 3 months to a year depending on her age during the courtship.

Seems very likely. Without a head (her father), the temptation to fornicate with him would be extremely strong. It would also explain why the breakup was so difficult.

Yes! When a young man has to look a girls father in the eye and knows he can lose his life playing games with that girl, he tends to be far more respectful. So the girls temptation won’t even be a factor. My dad was Italian American and once told my high school boyfriend “whatever happens, I’m holding YOU PERSONALLY RESPONSIBLE.” The guys uncle made him break things off because they were like terrified of my entire extended family.

I didn’t post this part, but later in the episode, her advice to her past self was to “enjoy your freedom.” 😑

“Enjoy your freedom” meaning enjoy hooking up being the town flop?

It was very vague. I may have to post that clip eventually. Unbridled female freedom has destroyed most women.

Well, I won’t comment if I didn’t hear it in context because maybe she meant something different by this. No woman should ever be encouraging other women to participate in sexual immorality. It’s deeply harmful to women. One of my best friends is a sister in Christ who was promiscuous starting at 13 due to trauma from abuse. She’s happy to serve Christ privately and remain celibate and alone. If she ever speaks to a girl one on one, She will be the first person to tell girls NOT to do what she did because she went through HELL. That woman has been beaten to the point of almost dying by some of these guys. This woman knows that she cannot currently be with a man due to her past trauma and inability to ever trust or be a submissive wife to them.

Wow. No wonder she defends hoes like they’re her daughters, she is a hoe herself! 😂 Most of the women that defend promiscuity aren’t actually being “nice” women that have compassion for broken women. They’re only defending what they relate to. Allie is a Jezebel, confirmed

Lmfao. Incredible that we can see the code in her language but she can't see the code in her own language. The vague words she used are to delude herself as to what happened, and because she doesn't feel like she was a zlüt now, she concludes she wasn't

Unfortunately for all of the Relatasimps, my speculation was 100% correct.

Yikes.

Our society lets women take on debt to get run through before she chooses her husband. Everything is an inversion of God’s created order. The modern man takes on his wife’s debt as his dowry.

Allie Beth didn’t need to go to college to find her way. She should have found a good man, gotten married, had children, and glorified Christ in all of that. Instead, she went to college to become a Boss Babe, lost her identity in Christ by dating and partying, and wasted years of her life. Now, instead of helping younger women not to follow her regrettably path, she shift blames a boyfriend for her mistakes. Don’t follow Allie Beth, steer far from her if you are a young lady seeking after Christ. Titus 2:3-5 New American Standard Bible 3 Older women likewise are to be reverent in their behavior, not malicious gossips nor enslaved to much wine, teaching what is good,4 so that they may [a]encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored.

I could totally get her into the club girl scene in Vegas. Lose the nerd girl look. 1200cc boobs. Personal trainer, little bit of Anavar. Spray tan. Oh, yeah, the raw material is there...

Lying by omission is women’s favorite pastime and you nailed this. She said the high school part hoping you didn’t catch the college part. All women do this.

Also useful to note that women who are/were virgins for their husband tend to be not at all embarrassed to tell others when the topic comes up. These women NEVER mention that they were virgins until marriage, they just say vague things to avoid saying that they were hoes.

So classic.

“Letting loose” “Enjoying attention from other men” “Working out a lot” “Binge and purge” Yea she was eating a lot…of 🍆

Apparently she did say it specifically elsewhere.

That’s brutal. And it’s a positive review of Allie’s book.

My wife stopped listening to ABS for a reason. Just another feminist pretending to based. The women that are based are the women you don’t know.

Ref-hoe-mation card declined. I’m sure God will forgive her, but I don’t have to marry her.

She didn't straight up admit to sleeping around in college probably because she assumes her female audience will fill in the blanks on their own. It's men who wait patiently for her to say that part out loud. If she never does, then for men, she's innocent until proven guilty.

She says at the beginning that she made this video at the request of viewers re: an instagram post People were calling her out Her mannerisms and tone are very defensive

Why would you expect a woman to take any responsibility for the debauchery she participated in? 🤣

@I_willnotcomply Long, roundabout way of saying she was promiscuous. Now we know why she so zealously defends whores.

you can ALWAYS tell they look back on that time fondly

If women were just honest there would be little issue. “Yeah, I fucked up and I’m not going to sugarcoat it. Here’s what I do now, but I’m no role model and I won’t try to be.”

Sexual socialization is THE main reason young kids are encouraged to go to college great distances from home. It's designed to completely sever parental authority. OTOH parents know this and encourage "education" at socialist institutions far away from mom and dad.

I can't stand listening to people like this. I couldn't even watch the video. 🤦🏼

Hence, the handy dandy summary. I watch the slop so that you don’t have to.

Just stop listening to "tradcon" women on the internet is the only thing I gotta say. The amount of exposure the "tradcon" space has had with grifters in the last 6 months why people even give these people the time of day or platform is beyond me.

She is snarky, bossy, emotional, showing signs that she has not healed from her past, despite her claim of regeneration and forgiveness. Mercy from God does not heal the brain/soul/nervous system from a period of promiscuity. Time and intentionality, singleness, does.

@pearlythingz So is the takeaway from this that God can't redeem who He chooses, that past sin defines us?

was friends with Allie in college. she was far from promiscuous

Imagine going to school with her and how annoying she must have been. Reminding the teacher to collect the homework type of personality. She rubs me the wrong way there’s something up with her that’s not genuine

college regret = cock carousel

I’ve worked with men in recovery for years. I call it “the God shield”. It’s this weird belief that God is going to show up with a mop and bucket to fix your messes. Super common among new believers. He’s not doing the work He knows you can and need to do. It’s your mess

Im so tired of Christians purity testing each other. Humans are flawed. No one is perfect. Praise God! He is there to guide. I know 3 women in their 40s, virgins, beautiful, smart women. Went to college, have professional jobs. And their windows of family are pretty much closed. Never found a worthy partner to date, let alone sleep with. Men and women should reflect inward and outward as to why it has never been harder to find a spouse. Culture and perfectionist standards have divided men and women fron each other. Its heartbreaking because men and women can make a beautiful team, devine-like. Its heartbreaking that my 3 virgin friends will never experience that because their standards have taken them out of the dating game. Its heartbreaking that men outsource that chance to drinking, porn, gaming etc.